No, you are not alone. Basically, I stopped renting titles from certain studios / directors. I never thought that it added to a scene. I rather see girls having fun instead of being degraded.
i personally enjoy being roughed up and don't beleive that i lowered my self respect or dignity by doing so... i have also worked with mason and she is one of the few that understand girls like me....
OK, I have not been following this thread for a while, so forgive me if im being redundant, but I LOVE when Nacho does any choking and slapping. Period :)
I don't have to justify my movies to naysayers like you. You want to pick them apart to save you from looking in the mirror and not liking what you see. >>>>>
I wouldn't go nearly as far as some with their "outrage" on the choking. It's the spitting that bugs the hell out of me. Don't fucking spit on the girl's face! That's an instant turnoff!
YES! Make sure all the spit goes directly into the girl's mouth - whether it be drool or projectile.
No Drool Dodging Allowed! (Where's spitty? - I'll bet he'd endorse this as a new series title) Honestly, this is truly an "undiscovered country" in porn. I can see it now. Fifty guys spit into a large martini glass for the girl to swallow. A Good Source Of Mono!?
It's not my cup of tea either, but for those that like that kind of thing they should have the right to watch it. I assume only a domination type film or one what would be obvious from the box cover would include such content. For me if the girl doesn't look like she loves it the porn completely falls on it's face.
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851 Posts 9/04
Posted - Aug 27 2005 : 6:28PM
Can't understand why many of you think everyone has to look like they're enjoying it all of the time. It would be like watching Bob in those funny commercials. Or some geek in high school getting laid for the first time. It's fucking porn. Where's the fantasy? I keep reading how porn is art. What art? It's definately not story-lined or choreographed like mainstream film. Where's the drama. The thrill. The excitement.
Hell, even I don't look like I'm enjoying sex all of the time while having it. Who does? I got my fucking rocks off watching Teenage Spermaholics 3 when Kat's father was all tied up, watching his little girl getting gang-plowed. Not a great performance by pop, but an effort nonetheless. I figured that would be the start of some new trend.
+1 Christopher256 - it's all about choice. I'm not saying that I wanna see actual violence or severe abuse. But hell, they're performers. I want more variety in my porn.
a noun for "to look like", "to appear as", "to be similar to"nothingNo, since Spiting, slapping, choking, gagging, hair pulling, spanking, eye gouging, forced riming/ass whiping, pissing and smothering are done out of love.
edit: Well, "spiting" is probably not done out of love but because of some psychopathological taste for BBQ-meat, although IIRC the verb corresponding to the noun "spit" is "impaling" or "pronging", not "spiting".
But whiping the rime of an ass is for sure done out of love. Putting a person out in the cold overnight, so rime can form on the ass, however, could also be considered a harsh treatment.
Initially, porn was a tool that I used to explore sexuality, my ideas about sexuality in general, and more specifically, my relationship with myself as a sexual being.
Over the past two years, porn has become a tool that I use to explore mortality, my ideas about mortality in general, and more specifically, my relationship with myself as a vulnerable human being who will one day die.
Interesting.
I need to go away for a while and reflect on this, until I can perhaps re-approach porn from a position of less fear. Right now, it is touching some deep and scary things inside of me.
The only thing which astonishes me is that nobody has exploited the death lottery/betting idea. I mean in the various Science Fiction stories which deal with the death lottery theme, they have to set up a huge infrastructure and administration.
In the real world however the infrastructure is already there, the only thing to do is to set up a front end in form of a webpage.
Some ticker/RSS: Odds for Jasey Rain for chlamydiae 1:5, Mel Chicky goes acp again: odds for her HIV-infection drop from 1:100 to 1:50, Don't miss our lottery on death by choking - the jackpot is filled with 100 000 USD and participating in the necro-bukkake on the dead starlet
A little bit "concerned consumer blabla": Esteemed customer, you are bothered by a conscience? We teamed up with AIM to verify infection dates. AIM gets x% from your bets. If you bet, you care! Don't forget to speak out against condom-usage. It diminishes your chance to win, the number of bets decrease, hence AIM gets less money. Condom users are cheaters. Speak up!
Et voila, betongonzoinfection.com!
At the end of the day you will feel better (money also buys psychotherapy) and frankly, haven't you heard, the contestants in the death lottery enter the arena out of free will and as you know, up to now everybody had at least an IQ of 180, one M.D. diploma and two Ph.D. diplomas and a job offer from McKinsey before entering the arena.
So you really shouldn't bugged by conscience and miss such a business opportunity.
A while ago on [link removed: Malicious redirect domain] we discussed the activities in porn we don't particularly understand. Being one of the only women in the forum, I had the most questions, of course. Turns out that the men didn't like/understand choking at all, and was one of the few things I really liked that they didn't. Rather than rehash the same thoughts here, I'll just post a link.
The more choking and slapping, the HOTTER it is!! Julie Night is the queen of rough porn!! Mason's Dirty Trixx is one of my favorite Rough Porno's out there right now!! My only complaint is that some scenes aren't rough enough!!
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5470 Posts 8/03
Posted - Nov 28 2005 : 11:03PM
Do you like being throat fucked too?
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5470 Posts 8/03
Posted - Nov 29 2005 : 12:05AM
I used to use porn to explore my morality as well. But I discovered I couldn't jerk off so I quit.
The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05
Posted - Nov 29 2005 : 12:39AM
I am not a fan of it either. Does nothing for me. I find it a bit disturbing and yes it is consenting adults acting out a sex scene. Why not have it that the girls choke the guy. LOL. Hey why not, change it up for a bit. Too much male domination in alot of flicks these days i find. But is the society we live in as well. I would not mind watching some hot girl like Brittney Skye or Lanny Barbie take total control and not give the guy any leeway whatsoever. Just a change that is all. Or you can give me a Tabitha Stevens movie and her potty mouth any day LOL.
Depends on how lazy I feel. It's easier on me to have Mr. P do all the moving (which technically is throat fucking), than for me to really work him over properly. So yeah, sometimes I'll let him do that. Thing is, between us, it's not like in porno movies. He's not hung like a porn stud. He's a regular man. He doesn't gag me--he's gentle and careful with me. We've been together a long time, and he knows my limits.
I like rough sex, but I don't want to be degraded or called names. I don't want feel nauseated during sex--gagging is a total turn-off for both of us. I like to feel fragile and small during sex. It makes me feel feminine and womanly. In a very odd way, I get a great feeling of comfort and security when the man I love physically subdues me. When he wraps his hand around my throat during sex, I can feel the strength radiating through him, and I can also feel his restraint. That's very, very sexy to me. Getting a cock shoved down my throat repeatedly until my stomach heaves, is not.
It doesn't turn me, but I have heard a lot of stars talk about how much they like it. I wish there was a reliable scientific study of porn consumer's views on choking, spitting, slapping, etc. I know a lot of films with that stuff sells, but that doesn't necessarily mean the fans love that stuff. I buy some stuff solely for certain girls, but cringe or fast forward thru those things. I think perhaps performers are putting in more and more of their own preferences in lieu of what appeals to fans. I could be wrong though.
i totally love the feeling of ****'s big hard cock sliding down my throat till it hits the back, and my eyes start to well with tears...and his hands round my throat and pulling my tits when he is fucking me...maybe i am fucked up or maybe everyone just likes different sensations...my throat is missing him particularly today...
at first he was scared to do it, so i would have to just take a deep breath and push him as far as it could go...i just love how it feels, maybe its a head rush ...he's got used to loving seeing his cock disappear and the amount of spit that comes out now...and is happy to push it in himself...but will ALWAYS withdraw quickly if i signal to him...(though I have only once needed to coz i had a cold and needed to sneeze...not so sexy!) x
Depends on the mood I am to.Sometimes i like to wank to teen porn,sometimes rough choking porn.
Also,I've been wondering if i'm the only one who watches porn just to get some nice laughs about it.Like i just can't wank and shit watching some foreign(not to be racist,just that they got funny english) dude fucking the shit out of this beautiful chick and CONSTANTLY saying something?Can't help that just makes me laugh.don't get me wrong,sometimes that type of porn turns me on.
Rocco is one good example of this.Sometimes i wank to it and sometimes just watch it for laughs.Also Ramone's scenes in monstersofdicks i watch just for laughs.
I prefer to be choked externally, not internally. Wrapping two big hands around my throat is a sure way to make me a happy girl. Roughly shoving a cock in my esophogus and making me gag is a sure way to lose a cock.
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Los Angeles 755 Posts 10/04
Posted - Dec 6 2005 : 12:07AM
Thanks for starting this thread. It is really disturbing to me at how popular the slapping and choking has become.
The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05
Posted - Dec 6 2005 : 12:24AM
I say if it is a turn on for the woman then hey all the power to you, but there is no way I would ever slap or choke any woman during sex no matter what. And so seeing this in porn just takes away from the movie for my taste. But that is just my personal feeling, not intended to insult or say it is wrong. In my eyes it is too aggressive and disrespectful. Ya I know it is porn, what is respectful about it right?? LOL
I don't see anything disrepectful about porn in the abstract. After all, it's just sex play, and if both parties are enjoying themselves then what's the problem?
I'm noticing that a lot of people are putting manual choking in the same category as cock-gagging, and that's a mistake. Manual choking is a submission hold, same as holding a woman's hands behind her back, gripping her hair, or pinning her down. That's all it is. And it's the one that must be done the most gently, so it's actually the least violent of all rough porn acts. The thing is, each individual act is a separate thing. Choking is one thing. Slapping is another. Hell, slapping has two different connotations. It's a gentle spanking to the face if there's a soothing caress afterwards. It's a slap if that caress is absent or if it's accompanied by derogatory name calling.
Each and every sex act is an individual thing--they don't have to be used all together in a scene. Just because it's rough doesn't mean it's mean-spirited. And, just because a girl likes one rough move, doesn't mean she likes them all, nor that she wants to be called names and berated during sex. Point is: choking is a gentle act--it can't not be. That's a fact.
Half of porn is what's performed and how it's presented to you. The other half of porn is what you bring to it with you--your preconceptions, your tastes, etc. Try to watch each move on its own merit, and really look at it closely. Turn the sound off. That helps you see what's really going on on screen. I think some of you may be jumbling hundreds of misogynist images together to the point where you can't see the care and tenderness involved when a man wraps his hands around a woman's throat. Half the time, you see the man actually caress her skin while doing it. Usually it's not what you think it is, and it's not what it looks like. That's what so erotic about it to me. Only the two people engaging in it know how intimate it really is. I'm not trying to convert anybody to my way of thinking, just offering food for thought.
The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05
Posted - Dec 6 2005 : 2:41PM
I may be ignorant here by saying this but why would a guy want to choke a woman be it gentle or not? For me personally I find no need to put my hands around her neck. But again it is only a personal view not meant to say it is wrong. I have never and would never do it. But then again this is 2005 and many people dislike the typical hands on the waist/hips, pulling the hair a bit thing. I find almost ever porn flick has a guy choking the girl, slapping her face. Seems the ass slapping is a cliche now? Dunno. What do I know I just buy the dvd's based on who is in them really. That is what my collection consists of. Not into gonzo stuff too much, seems that for me the same things are done to the chicks. Choking on the guys rod, slapping her, choking her. I guess I am ignorant to today's turn ons..no wonder I don't get laid!!! LOL...had to say that. I say to each thier own, as long as it is enjoyable and not forced upon or not enjoyed.
Posted - Aug 25 2005 : 4:37PM
