I love your ideas, especially about the blindfold. I am also more aroused by sound than by sight, and at times wish someone would blindfold me when watching porn.

I can't really help with ideas, but I think the key is the quality of the movies. Make sure that the males in them are attractive to her. If she finds them arousing enough, she will want to watch more. If not, I don't think any amount of wine or candles will do the trick.

Good luck, and let us know how things work out!

DB

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I can't really help with suggestions, but what you have outlined sounds pretty good. (Guess I'm not creative or imaginative enough. )

However, if it is "+ the very rare occasions" even the same thing a time to two will probably work very well, if she's in the mood and ready for it.

DenverDon

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If the thought of men fucking squicks you out, don't worry. With your face between her legs you won't have to see it. If you don't want to hear it, do a good enough job that she clamps her thighs on your ears! ;-)

HTH,

T.C.

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Anyway, tried out the wine and candles idea yesterday when she came home from work, although not with a porn movie but with the mainstream/softcore "Delta of Venus". She really appreciated the idea, although non of us liked the film very much (too boring and not sexy enough)... however, we got into some scorching sex later on so I'll try that one again, but with a "real" porn film instead.

About the blind-fold idea, I'm not sure what film I'm looking for (if I would pull it off right now it'll probably be Heart & Soul, pretty much based on availability at the local video store)... problem is that, since she'll probably wants to watch the film after the treat, it still has to be a softer film with passionate, romantic and loving sex, with fondling and kissing and... well, you get the picture... and these "softer" film rarely has any sound. It also can't be a feature, since the talking in between would ruin the concept a bit. This narrows it down a bit.

So if anyone has any suggestions for which film I could use for this deal, please help me out...

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We talk a lot during sex, and we talk about fantasies a lot. One day I mentioned that I would like to watch a porn with her, and although she had never sat down and watched porn before, she liked the idea (I'm very lucky - she's great). After talking about it a few different times (all during sex), I went out and rented a dvd (I think it was a Ninn Worx picture) then one night when we started fooling around, I told her that I rented a movie for "us" and asked if she would like to watch it together. She was already worked up so she said yes, and the rest is history.

Also, erotic movies tend to generally suck, because it is pretty hard to work a really good plot in with enough sex to get people to watch it. Watch porn when you want to watch porn, watch movies when you want to watch movies.

There are many threads in this forum that reccomend good movies to watch with a spouse. Just make sure it doesn't have the word "anal" or "sluts" in the title. :p

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