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-lunacy-
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 3:14PM
So the womyn looking up at you while gving a BJ, was mentioned as sexy. What else?
Also, any womyn out there that do not like to -recieve- oral sex?
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 3:20PM
To me...I find sexy is the woman not looking at me. Focus focus focus!!!! ;)<a href>
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 3:33PM
am i reading right - "don't like to receive oral sex"????? oral sex comes somewhere right after oxygen and right before food on my survival list
as far as giving - we need a balls poll. some men want em caressed, some men want em isolated in a glass case never to be touched. what's the deal? one guy described the scrotal sensitivity as similar to eye balls. if we believed everything we watched in a porno then we'd be tuggin at them like they're cow udders.
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 4:11PM
Sucking hard on the testicles, tugging on them, flicking them roughly... that's a big no!!! Having her hold them... the heat of her hand while giving a BJ is incredible. She can then wrap her fingers around the base of the penis and stroke. Oh yeah... that's good stuff!!!
Some of the women in porn flicks, pull and beat the hell out the guys testicles. Ouch!!! They should be treated like little Gods!
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 4:16PM
Oneloa
I agree.
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It's a bigger turn on when the women touches them very softly and be very gentle to them. I mean my nuts are sensitive. In porn, I see some girls wanting to rip them off the guys! OUCH! <a href>
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-lunacy-
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 6:50PM
LOL, You guys/gals crack me up! Yes Steph you did read right...I know it's shocking. Just don't get a lot out of that. Hmm, rather give it or even just be caressed than recieve oral sex.
So anyway BJ's, so today we have learned..to tear his balls off! Oh, oops I better re-read that.
What else? Any particular angle?
I knew one guy that liked his partner to hum at the same time. I'm assuming that was a vibration pleasure?
Do you like it with heavy suction, just around the tip? Come on you guys spill it. (no pun intended)
This is a whole new ball game and I need pointers.
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 6:50PM
Lunacy, I actually know a couple women who don't like receiving oral sex. One of them likes to give, but not to receive. She considers that area too "gross" to look at. Okaaaaay. She's stunningly beautiful, too. Alas, I lost track of her when she dropped out of college to attend beauty school.
The other one just doesn't like oral sex in general. Giving or receiving. Weird.
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 7:18PM
I warned my boyfriend that I was a selfish bitch before he got into this Just kidding - I like giving and receiving simultaneously, consecutively, on Tuesdays, Thursdays, in the morning, afternoon, in the light, in the dark... OK shutting up now
Lunacy - the key with all men = let them tell you what they want as you're doing it actually i do believe communication and self-love are the keys to great sex
BTW - on the ball tugging in porn issue: they do the same thing with clits - as if the farther you pull it the more pleasurable it is
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 8:20PM
Steph: That's bordering on too much information...
Actually, the corresponding lesson to "ball tugging" is dick slapping on a woman's clit... I'm sure EVVVVRRRRYYYY woman is just thrilled to get whacked by guy trying to get hard...
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 9:09PM
Oh, I forgot to answer the topic!
In terms of the eye contact...I like it, but then again, I don't, because it has a tendency of pushing me over the edge.
The other key to great BJs or HJs is the wrist twist...it's not just the up & down but the circular motion too.
As far as the tugging, it's fine on the scrotum, but definitely not on the family jewels. They can stand quite a bit of mild play, but you're likely to get a strong reaction if you cross the line. I would compare them to breasts in that regard--have fun, but there's a point where too much hurts.
On the question of liking oral sex, I think that there are more men who do not like cunnilingus than women who don't like to receive it. I've known guys who consider eating pussy to be disgusting. Their loss!
Anyway, I'm always amused by the question posed by Professor Mike in every scene of Freshman Fantasies: "Oral sex. Are you a giver or a getter?" I think that those who say they are givers before getters are LYING!
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Posted - Apr 2 2000 : 9:11PM
steph-
Ugh! That's part of the problem. My lover is very shy about "sex stuff". Ha! I'm pretty brazen and have to really tone it down so i don't eat the poor man for lunch.
That's why I figure a consensus is a good start, experiementation ya know...
Darkmage-
That is oddly comforting. I mean I am really O.K with my sexuality but that makes me wonder you know? Why am I not enjoying this great thing all other womyn can't get enough of?
[This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited April 02, 2000).]
Oneloa
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Posted - Apr 3 2000 : 9:21AM
Lunacy,
Too much suction is bad. I can't speak for all guys, but I think the term "sucking dick" is misleading. A light suck while going up and down on the shaft is a sure fire winner. The tip gets really sensitive (good and bad). You know, the underside of the head near the tip. It's the guy's G spot. Well, it is for me at least.
If you lick that while going down... oh yeeaaahhh. Along with the eye contact... hand wrapped around the base, stroking with that twist Saki was taking about. Stand back.... it's going to blow.
Oh yeah... one more thing.... don't duck and cover when he cums. If you don't want it in the mouth, then keep stroking it quickly until he's done with each wave. There's nothing worse than having a woman stop right at orgasm. I'm sure you can relate... ever had a man pull out right when you start your big O???
Whew... I need a nap now.
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Posted - Apr 3 2000 : 7:32PM
Excellent! Thanks ya'll for the great suggesions. My love better look out when I see him, HA!
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Posted - Apr 3 2000 : 11:10PM
Just to add my evaluations & preferences into the pot:
1) Eye contact is good! However, everything in moderation. Lookup up from what you're doing to make eye contact is great! Locking eyes with him and having something slip and poke you in the nose is bad. Too much can seem... odd. Remember there is a fine line between making eye contact and the oppressive stare of a psychopath.
2) I gotta second the "wrist twist". I still miss the one lady I knew who had that perfected... Damn, those were good. Sigh.
3) Tongues are good, tongues are nice. A tongue on the underside of the head is niiiiice. But there comes a time when a guy just wants to see a bunch of it dissappear down the lady's throat. Licking is nice, stroking is nice, but a good suck is priceless. (well, 20 bucks on 14th street, but you get the picture )
4) Moderation in all things. Do not attempt to actually blow during a blowjob.
5) Moderation in all things, part II. Do not attempt to suck him so hard that the sheets try to crawl up his ass. Gently, please.
This concludes my portion of the lecture, I now turn you over to... um, someone.
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