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spiralcloud
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15 Posts
12/08
Posted - Jun 18 2009 : 5:15AM
I've been recently involved in groups sex with several people.
Everything was fine until the moment a girl wanted to give me a BJ after another guy has cum into her mouth: I felt disgusted to have her mouth still full of sperm on my cock.
The same for licking pussies after somebdoy else has been fucking them.
Did anybody feels the same?
How do porn actors do?
I can't help myself to feel disgusted to share other men cum or dicks...even if just with my cock!
Thanks.
[mod edit: Meh... with the tiny exception of saying "how do porn actors do?", this has nothing to do with porn at all. This belongs in "Sex Talk". I'm moving it there.]
Topic Moved by - killbillvol69 on Jun 18 2009
JohnHenry
Member

165 Posts
3/09
Posted - Jun 19 2009 : 4:01PM
Would you freak out if the girl had been sucking on the guy's elbow, before giving you a blowjob?
I'm not bothered if a girl's been sexual with another guy. I'm not focused on him, I'm focused on her. That she is playing with two or more guys only adds allure to her, for me, because I enjoy a girl being a slut and it leaves me feeling that she's enjoying what she's doing even more. I don't pretend that a slut is only a slut for me.
I think you might have some issues with your own confidence in your sexuality. If you aren't afraid that you're gay or bisexual, why are you so worried about it? I find most people who are homophobic are afraid of something because they're afraid to find out if they are, in fact, bi or homosexual. This fear can actually turn it into a taboo, and fetishize that taboo, ironically leading a man who would otherwise be naturally straight into actually eroticizing homosexuality because it's forbidden. Once you face your own fears of homosexuality, you'll probably find that a girl blowing another guy before she blows you just doesn't matter.
John
spiralcloud
Member

15 Posts
12/08
Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 7:20AM
Hi John and thanks for your comment.
The elbow example makes a lot of sense to me but I thought: if a hot girl had kiss another hottie (or lick her pussy) and then kiss me, it'd turn me on big time!
But if she had kiss or lick an ugly girl and that me, that would disgust me... and I definetely like women!
So I'm not sure if it's a matter of homophobia or what...?
Does it makes any sense...?!?
Bobcat
Senior Member

1490 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 9:44AM
Wow, that sounds ridiculous to me!
I've been to a few sex parties in my time, the deal was you can declare your sexual orientation, but that was about the only reason you could turn down someone's advances! It works both ways of course, a women that may not be your type could ask for your attention but likewise someone you had the hot's for would oblige. I must admit I can find beauty in almost all women , as long as they are not seriously overweight.
WardqueenJanine
Member

914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 4:17PM
I guess we must be in different circles. I have been involved in group activities for very many years and have almost always found that the only rule was respect for the other person was required. A participant could feel free to respectfully turn down any request as long as they were not insulting. No one ever feels any pressure and getting turn down is never taken personally.
 
Bobcat
Senior Member

1490 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 20 2009 : 4:59PM
Yep, the ones I attend were private by invitation only and the guy who ran them made up his own set of rules, you were free to do what ever you want with whom you wanted or not as the case may be, but the idea that you went around telling people that they were too ugly was frowned upon, I'd also point out that a lot of the females had been paid to be there and it was very unlikely that they would say no. I'm not talking swingers parties here!
The OP's point that he couldn't kiss a girl who had kissed an ugly girl was my real reason for posting, he would have struggled at the parties I attend as some the girls had been kissing some even uglier guys!
Edited by - bobcat on 6/20/2009 5:00:13 PM
WardqueenJanine
Member

914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 22 2009 : 6:05PM
Back to the respect thing I guess, some guys actually get off on this but if you don't it's just not your thing. I know my first husband got very much turned on by "Sloppy seconds" ( or thirds, fourths etc.) which led to a great time for both of us. By the same token, if he chose not to pound me after had a nice creampie AND he discussed it with me beforehand, then I would have possibly done something else.
Just one question though; what if you were at a party and the woman you were intending to fuck objected to you fucking her or sliding your cock down her throat after you took it out of another cunt. Would it be OK for her to piss and moan about it?
Bobcat
Senior Member

1490 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 23 2009 : 12:08PM
In the circles I move in, she isn't going to object. That's because everything is done with condoms and a fresh one for each girl! Even the mention of BB sex is going to get yourself blacklisted.
Why anyone would want to have unprotected sex with a stranger is beyond me, why put yourself through the worry of wondering if you may have caught something nasty?



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