ok, if you know you are a straight male and are into the wilder side of sex, why not let your lady try to tickle the prostate? Supposedly its mind blowing and when done caring & gently can be such an awesome experience... BUT... guys have this phobia of the anal area. I mean shit, i know straight, theress no question there, but we women let you men explore our bodies but its not ok to explore yours?? I ask my boyfriend and he freaks out. Tell me your thoughts.
My wife and I may not exactly be "wild" but she finally gave in and tried this with me a couple nights ago and loved it. She had to get over the "gay" vibes she was getting but we talked it out and she's OK with it now. And yes, that was probably the strongest orgasm I have ever had.
WOW, good for you. I wish I could get my man to do that. He very open to all aspects of sex, in that aspects I have NO complaints.. but the minute I suggest or even go there hes got my hands clamped down so tight and he squirming :) I wish he would let me try it just once.. and see how amazing it is. Guess I will have to be patient. Life just isnt fair!
What a coincidence.......I just had the privilege of tickling my man's fancy just three nights ago....it was the first for him. We have been together for over three years now and we really enjoy a healthy and fun sex life. It just keeps getting more and more fun....Anyways.....I have this really unpretentious little toy that is about the size of my finger and has a lovely vibe to it as well. We had been tossing the idea about for a while and he just decided to trust me, experiment a little and see what it was all about. We came up with a position that satisfied both of us and allowed me access to his anus.......me on top, facing his toes.......well.....After riding him to three of my own orgasms, I decided that it was time to tickle that prostate of his and see what happened. I lovingly lubed up the toy, slowly and gently inserted it, and when he was cool with that, I turned it on ......OH MY GOD!!! He almost put ME through the ceiling when he erupted!!!!! Needless to say, I am pretty sure that that was the most incredible orgasm of his life and that I will be getting requests for that little toy of mine again soon. I can hardly wait!! We have spent a lot of time and attention on exploring the boundaries of my sexual pleasures and now I get the chance to explore some of his. Oh what fun we shall have!!!!!!
What's up with women liking to play with the prostate? Also, I know that many female porn watchers enjoy gay porn. I mean, I don't care about someone's sexual preferences, but why are you guys so curious about the prostate?
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Posted - Sep 10 2004 : 1:16AM
If the guys are so interested in probing the girls butt, then why not the reverse? Seems reasonable to me.
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Spew Deactivated User
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Posted - Sep 10 2004 : 2:08AM
Tell him: you don't get my asshole unless I get yours. Why the hell does he think he's king and can fuck your butt at anytime, but he wont allow a finger in his? BS!
prostate fun is quite enjoyable. I do it 80% i jackoff. the best orgasms ive ever had where from P-spot stimpulation
See, the reciprocity argument is never appealing to me. If you put your dick in women's butt, will you let women put a nice sized dildo up your ass? That seems to be...well...over the top for me. But it should be reciprocal, right?
I've never tried it, but I am open to the idea. I mean, I've been rimmed enough and that was amazing. I'd have to ensure I was prepped enough first though.
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Spew Deactivated User
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Posted - Sep 10 2004 : 5:32AM
thats the way it should be. Dildos are NOT paintful in the ass if a lot of lube is used and you've been worked up the proper size. once you get your asshole stuffed, and that prostate tickled, you'll wonder why the fuck you havnt done this years ago. trust me !
I wouldn't use a pocket rocket, as it is the kind of toy that could get stuck inside the rectum easily - better to use a dildo with a flared ending. I'm pretty open minded and wanted to enjoy anal play, but i've never found it very satisfying. In my experience, I've found it hard to maintain my erection, and when i did manage to stroke myself to orgasm it was nothing special. However, other guys seem to like it - different tokes for different folks!
A dildo is okay, it's when she comes at you with the marrow and the mallet you need to start worrying
My gf shows no desire to stick anything up me, although if she wanted to I'd be okay with it. An ex fucked me with a candle whilst tossing me off years ago and as has been said, if you're buttfucking your missus on a regular basis it seems a little hypocritical to start squealing if her fingers start to roam
Why are women curious about the prostate and the possible pleasures it might give their fellas? Why are you guys obsessed with the mysterious "G-spot"? It's simple, we figure there must be some magic trick that will result in some kind of phenomenal orgasm that will make us THE BEST PERFECT LOVER EVER IN THE WHOLE WORLD!
Ain't none of that true, of course, but we keep fishing.
Hey Spew, Ok i work in this industry but what the heck is P-spot stimulation? are we talking about the sme thing here? LOL
and yes I agree whats good for the goose SHOULD be good for the gander, and my man gets anything he wants from me. Nasty, nice, anywhere & everywhere... so I just want that openness in return.
Im not some weirdo, I just want to give my man the most awesome orgasm like he does for me. If I can do that for him... my job is done!
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Spew Deactivated User
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Alright, if you like prostate tickling so much, there is a more direct way to stimulate it. Prepare a 10 inch long, firm (but still flexible enough), string-like, sanitized object. Insert it about 8-9 inch into the urethra with sanitized hands. You should feel the tip of the object hitting the prostate directly. No more need to try to reach the prostate through a wall in the dirty hole.
Disclaimer: Like any other sexual acts, this act should be done at your own risk.
I think men's curiosity about G-spot and women's curiosity about the prostate are of different nature. There are still so many unknown things about G-spot both medically and sexually. The prostate, on the other hand, we know the function of it very well, and the position of it doesn't vary very much from individual to individual. Sexually, the sensation it gives has been well experimented by many gay people by means of anal plays.
(Since we are talking about such vague notions like "curiosity", I do not expect everybody to share what I said above.)
Having forcibly had a urine sample taken, I can say how uncomfortable it is to have a catheter inserted roughly. Like how you can get a bruise midway up your dick, and how you might want to scream every time you piss for the next few days.
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Spew Deactivated User
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If my girl were into it, then I would be into it. If she might get off trying to make me cum in different ways, then I'm all for trying it. It might make her happy and when I want to try something then she might honor my request. Most guys are afraid that if they like some prostate stimulation then that makes them gay. Come on guys, simply not true. I have no interest in being near another penis in anyway, but if my girl wants to stimulate my prostate and it makes me cum in a way that I have never experienced before, then I am all for it. I don't want a guy to do that for me, nor a penis. Just be careful and prepare the body for insertion.
For a normal straight guy to enjoy anal/prostrate stimulation implies they are gay. If first your girlfriend is sticking her finger up your ass, then dildos, vibrators, what next?? Where will this lead too??
Funny, this is similar to the arguement against killing animals for food. Or the whole 'gateway drug' arguement that I've never been shown evidence for.
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