Sorry didn't know bout the avatar been a while since i posted

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Be happy and confident in what you are doing and the life choices you make and that will be a big attraction to the opposite sex.

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I haven't been 24 in about ten years so I don't really know what girls that age think of porn or masturbation these days. I was under the impression that there's more widespread acceptance of it now days, though.

But anyway, if they don't know what you do in private, how can that be why you can't get laid?

I think it just has more to do with being male than anything else. For a man, getting laid has always been a challenge (unless you're exceptionally attractive and/or have plenty of money. Either that or if you're especially charming. Ladies love the charm). My best guess would be that that's just the way it is. Life can be tough for a young, horny male. It was for me (which significantly contributed to my affinity for porn, I'm sure).

I've never thought there should be any shame in masturbation, particularly if you're not getting it from somewhere else. People need that release on a regular basis. When I was 24, I didn't get laid much either and I think if I hadn't masturbated, my balls would have exploded or something. LOL!

As far as advice for you, I guess I'll have to leave that to the more experienced guys around here. I never could figure women out. Sure. I "got lucky" from time to time but there wasn't anything consistent about what I had to do in order to make it happen. Sometimes, they'd just walk up to me and say "let's fuck". Other times, I had to court them, take them out for dinner and a movie. It's hit or miss. 50/50. Rejection is just part of life.

Also...you have to take into account STDs. With so many of them going around and the big A, I would guess women are more cautious than ever. Most of them (again, I'm guessing) don't want to just bang random people. Women seem to love subtlety (at least the ones I've known. Most of them seem to like to get to know someone before they have sex with them.

Anyway...I wouldn't worry about it too much. You've got plenty of time left. Just get yourself a good education and a good job and they'll eventually come looking for you.

Edited by - randomprecision on 11/4/2006 12:57:39 AM

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But my point is that self gratification takes a bit your sexual drive away. And psychologically you're not in need of a good fuck. At least some time after you watched your favorite movie. As we are all lazy by nature our brains adjust to the easy solution - why go and have all this stress and no guarantee if I can go home and "unload" or get a hooker and do the same with 100% success.

So there might be a solely psychological issue of being either too shy or being too lazy (worst case is being both). A good friend of mine had a similar issue despite being a successful and attractive young professional, he couldn't get laid. Resorted to porn all the time and now is married to a beast just because he was too desperate for the real stuff.

So fight the problem or the consequences might be fatal, and don't blame porn entertainment for not getting laid. You're in control of the situation not your dvd player or the movies itself.

There are also some really good dating books on the market, which have been written by real psychologists. I should have some PDF files in my archive if you're interested.

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I could send you some PDF's if you mail me your address.

rampart.toys[at]gmail.com

Cheers...

P.S. Been out of town for some time.

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rampart- thanks so much have emailed you

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