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Do Not Filter My Results
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173 Posts
6/05
Posted - Nov 27 2005 : 10:08AM
I've had a problem recently cuming whilst having sex. The problem comes - ha ha - I believe because I put off the original urge to shoot. I usually feel the urge to come within the first five minutes or so of sex, but will it away because I want the girl to get off too. But after that I have trouble getting back to that intensity. No wood problems at all, and I can go on for a long time, but after that initial urge I have trouble attaining climax. Anybody else have this issue and any suggestions are welcome.

thanks

threesomebody
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12/04
Posted - Nov 27 2005 : 11:25AM
Just let yourself cum when you are ready. The girl doesn't need a hard dick in her in order for sex to continue. There is plenty more that you can continue to do to ensure that she gets off, too. Hell, maybe you will be ready again quicker than you might imagine.

Of course, just don't blow your load then roll over to go to sleep.

skronker
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9/02
Posted - Nov 27 2005 : 11:40AM
Just have her jab a finger up your ass and call you "Daddy." Works like a charm!
Captain Cock
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172 Posts
2/05
Posted - Nov 27 2005 : 9:20PM
Got the same problem, only when I try to hold back the orgasm for too long. I tend to follow somewhat what 3SB allready recommended. If I been out of action for a while, I just focus more on my tongue and hands before and after.

I think it's better for a lady's confidence if you say something like 'sorry, you were just to exciting' when a bit to fast then not come at all for whatever reason, but perhaps a woman can confirm or deny this.

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11/99
Posted - Nov 28 2005 : 9:33AM
Make her cum before you even stick it in. Then you're worry free.
 
Bob All-Star Supporter
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3/03
Posted - Nov 28 2005 : 4:15PM
Steph wrote:
IMO, this is incredibly good advice -- provided she doesn't just roll over afterward and go to sleep.

("Slam, bam . . . thank you, man.")

Twizted6
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1229 Posts
7/05
Posted - Nov 28 2005 : 9:19PM
I'll just play the "back-nine" while she's sleeping!
croy
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4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Nov 28 2005 : 9:52PM
Now there is a wake-up call.
Cuddly Wombat
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1739 Posts
12/04
Posted - Nov 29 2005 : 7:49AM
Yeah, I get this 'problem' too every now and again. I think in many cases it may be caused by over-lubrication - I just dry my cock off or put on a fresh condom and I can usually get myself to cum from the greater friction.

Another tip is to do something really nasty that you wouldn't usually do, like licking the girl's ass - particularly if she isn't expecting it! The rush of doing something taboo should get you off.

If all else fails (including imagining that you are having sex with Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt, or both), just fake it - what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Do Not Filter My Results
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173 Posts
6/05
Posted - Nov 30 2005 : 12:20PM
thanks all - i am gonna blow and shoot for the reload
oatmeal
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8/04
Posted - Nov 30 2005 : 2:25PM
is the room too hot for you?
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 5:02PM
Twisted6 wrote:
That would be a sure way for me to lose my putter, not to mention my golf balls.
lindi
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9/02
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 5:13PM
I like skronker's advice.
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 6:02PM
I do too, lindi.

And if you take Steph's and skronker's advice together, it's more or less foolproof.

francios
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1802 Posts
2/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 10:14AM
Have her slip a finger or 2 in while your in her. The extra ridges from her knuckles will provide you the extra sensation you need to unload.

If she is really into it she will pull her fingers out and lick em clean while you watch for a bonus.




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