at least a couple times a week (always while laying on my back watching T.V.) i'll have a full erection even though i'm not thinking about sex or anything sexual on the television. it's basically like "morning wood" except it seems to happen randomly and never when sitting or standing, only while laying down. is this normal for a male in their mid-twenties? anyone else have this problem? it's only a minor annoyance but the funny thing is i can't seem to just relax and make it go away, it can stay erect for up to 30 minutes while i'm just lying there not thinking about anything sexual. PS - jerking off seems to have no effect on this since it happens sometimes the day after i masturbated
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Posted - Apr 14 2012 : 10:08AM
have your GF sit on it...that should solve the dilemma...actually it is normal for a healthly, testostorone filled male...the laying down part is probably blood flow...
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Posted - Apr 14 2012 : 11:46AM
^^ The day after? How often do you wank? It's at least once daily for me and has been since my late teens. If I get wood and I'm not in a relaionship I just knock one off and I'm good to go. You need a rationale to give yourself an orgasm? Just think of something sexual,have a wank and it'll get back to normal.
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Posted - Apr 14 2012 : 2:36PM
That's a "problem" that a lot of men wish they had. It's your body's way of telling you that you're supposed to be out running around and trying to inseminate the herd, not laying around watching the idiot box. So get to it.
I don't understand your logic. The arterial blood pressure in his dick should be higher when he's standing. His dick is below his heart and so the pressure will be higher by the distance between his dick and his heart. The pressure would drop when he's on his back, because his dick would be above his heart. Something else is happening here. Erections are very complex chain of events, but basically it's hydrodynamics at its finest. The arterial blood flows in and when he smooth tissue relaxes and fills with blood, the tissue expands and shuts off the venous flow out of the penis. The pressure builds and the tissue becomes erect. That's why if your arterial vessels become restricted or the smooth muscle tissue becomes less flexible, there's less filling or no expansion and the venous side leaks and the erection doesn't happen. In a fluid filled system, pressure goes up as the depth increases. That's why they check your blood pressure on your arm because it's at the same level as your heart. He doesn't say how much he weighs, but if he's overweight he may just get better blood flow when his on his back. Less pressure from the bladder etc on the plumbing down under makes for more FLOW and its easier for him to get wood....?????
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Posted - Apr 17 2012 : 7:53AM
that might make sense since i'm 5'10 and weigh 209. i'm not huge but i guess i'm technically overweight.
^ I'm no expert and really was just trying to throw an idea out there. 5'10" at 209 doesn't sound that over weight to me. Maybe it's how you carry your weight?? Just enjoy the wood you're got when you're young.....it's never that good as you grow older. Sexual function seems to only go one way after you reach puberty. Everything seems to make it just a little worse until one day you wake up and find it's really not working that great. Then you look back on the days you got wood without trying and think 'why didn't I just enjoy it more then?' Spend your time finding girls that enjoy your talent and let those cowgirls ride it!
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Posted - Apr 17 2012 : 10:34PM
if it was only that easy. that's why i don't bother and just watch porn, it saves alot of stress and bullshit. now if i were gay or bi i'd probably be having sex with a different guy every month, but i'm unfortunately heterosexual : )
^ Porn makes for great fun, but it's not a substitute for some RL fucking. RL fucking though doesn't take the place of enjoying some great fun with porn too. They're both great fun, just another way to enjoy your "uncontrollable erections". I'm not going to try to offer you advice on dating, but there are just as many frustrated women (probably more actually) that would enjoy sharing your bed. Set a goal to spend an equal amount of time each week looking for love as you do watching porn. Start a log and be honest to yourself about how hard you're looking for RL women. Don't go about it like you're looking to score, just be confident and get out there. Confidence is very sexy. You'll be surprised how easy they are to catch.....they're actually trying to get caught! Enjoy!
Hey big boy! I have a feeling I'd certainly put that permanently hard cock to good use if you were here right now! ;-) As I've mentioned in another thread, it's hard to find guys who can keep up with me sexually.... 15 minutes just isn't enough! not to mention my love of anal sex... can't seem to find many guys around here who like it! They seem to equate it with homosexuality... Edited by - Vanity on 4/18/2012 1:07:04 AM
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Posted - Apr 18 2012 : 2:31AM
i'm not so sure about the above statement (i don't find it that easy) but thanks for the advice rod. i should also mention i'm pretty neurotic and worry too much so that's probably not a good thing when dealing with women. one of the things that i worry about is in the past i had a one-night stand (my only one-night stand) and i wanted to see the girl again but she didn't want to and it kind of fucked me up. i'm just a VERY sensitive guy : )
^ read Vanity's post just above yours and then tell me again you don't think they're trying to get caught! I'll say it again, confidence is very sexy. That's something specific/practical for you to work on that will pay dividends the rest of your life in every situation you face. It takes work, but it will be rewarding. Best to you.
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Posted - Apr 14 2012 : 4:04AM