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BonesJones
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Ass Is Everything
849 Posts
12/09
Posted - May 12 2014 : 7:47AM
I've search under "addiction" and didn't see any topic about porn addiction.
I am in love with porn. I watch it everyday. I jerk off everyday. I'm hating myself for it because I get lazy. I can't study. I don't even try to get laid. Lately, I feel ashamed of it and don't want to love it anymore.
I'm seriously contemplating getting rid of porn. Am I insane?
Topic Moved by - joey starr on May 13 2014
matchmaker
Senior Member

24914 Posts
4/05
Posted - May 12 2014 : 8:01AM
^Maybe you should try taking a break from porn here and there before give porn up altogether. Just balance everything.
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
Doctor of the Erotic Arts

7238 Posts
1/09
Posted - May 13 2014 : 12:07PM
You might find this thread useful: addicted to porn.
But this thread, with lots of smart responses from some our very best ADT Advisers, will probably help you a lot: too much porn?
I personally agree with the notion that porn itself is not addictive; it is all of the other stuff surrounding it (relationship issues, personal issues, societal stigma/shame, fucked up attitudes toward sex) that leads to compulsive porn viewing and associated bad feelings/personal problems related to it.
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - May 13 2014 : 12:54PM
I don't think it's a poll, more sex talk.
DarkDeveloper
Member

57 Posts
6/10
Posted - May 13 2014 : 3:45PM
If your giving it away, i'll have it !!!! ;-)
 
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - May 13 2014 : 4:56PM
I'll take the tranny stuff if he has some!
charn
fubar

2880 Posts
12/09
Posted - May 13 2014 : 6:28PM
The missing part of Bonesy's life may be emotional maturity. Mature adults can still get laid, but they can also have relationships beyond just sex.
A period of porn abstinence with his collection packed away somewhere could be time to get stuff done, or more boredom and looking for some other way to procrastinate.
greg
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Thinking real hard about Katsirk
793 Posts
12/06
Posted - May 14 2014 : 2:02AM
Yes you are batshit crazy :-). Now go watch a hottie get assfucked and gaped like the grand canyon and whack off three times in succession with no in between breaks or clean up. It is for your own good.
charn
fubar

2880 Posts
12/09
Posted - May 14 2014 : 10:54AM
There are at least three relevant subreddits: pornfree, nofap, and forever alone.
. I like the counters for days since porn/fapping.
BonesJones
Member

Ass Is Everything
849 Posts
12/09
Posted - May 17 2014 : 11:19AM
I'm slowly recovering from my porn and masturbation addiction. There are a few things I was able to do this week.
- Set up a competency test with my employer educator. Test will be Monday.
- Emailed my supervisor if she wants me to re-new my CPR and BLS certifications.
- Rake about a dozen or so bags of leaves.
- Mowed the lawn.
- Did laundry and fold my clothes
- Inspect my bike so I can ride it to work instead of driving.
I think I'm going to keep bike riding as my daily routine, or at least when I'm working.
Goldstein All-Star Supporter
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"You have sacrificed nothing and no one."
3689 Posts
8/10
Posted - May 17 2014 : 3:04PM
^ And, this is better than serial masturbating, how?
Have you tried masturbating on a bike?
Stick to the car.
Seriously, I wish I was young again, so I could masturbate constantly.
At least everyday, with a marathon session once a week or so.
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - May 17 2014 : 3:22PM
Those were the days, NOT!
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - May 17 2014 : 3:26PM
jillymayr
Deactivated User

29 Posts
12/13
Posted - May 19 2014 : 11:46AM
go cold turkey
BonesJones
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Ass Is Everything
849 Posts
12/09
Posted - May 19 2014 : 1:16PM
I got an 89 on the test this morning.
 
matchmaker
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24914 Posts
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Posted - May 20 2014 : 1:38AM
^Congrats!
earthwindfire
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Posted - May 29 2014 : 8:46PM
People in the industry like to deny porn can be an addiction. As with anything we consume (food, booze, drugs, etc) it can become an addition if used in a certain way. If your daily life tasks, ability to have relations with women, your job, or your school, are being ruined by your porn watching, then you do have an addiction.
I hope you can work it through and get to a place where you can enjoy porn in a healthy was as part of a successful and balanced life. Sometimes though, addictions require a complete lifetime of cold turkey or the person falls right back into the negative patterns (you know the story, give a recovering alcholic one drink and he is done for). Maybe seek some help and have someone accountable to with your life tasks and go from there. Try to do everything you need to do in your day before opening up a porn flick so you don't get lost in the moment.



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