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| Biggdiesal Member Illinois 252 Posts 5/05 | Since when did white guys start liking big butts? I know when I was growing up white guys I knew they never liked big butts I mean they would would say they like a nice little bubble butt, well that is what they would tell me. Now the market is flooded with big butt titles. There is a white girl I know here in town and she is a fucking stallion I mean she would set the industry on fire if she did porn but she would tell me white guys would never talk to her at all only brotha's. Or could this be a generation thing among white men because the younger white guys I know like big asses. Edited by - Biggdiesal on Jun 26 2007 [Link] |
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| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | The thing with big butts lately, I think, is that it's fashionable to like big butts. If you know how it goes with the younger crowd, nobody wants to feel like they're not "with it" so to speak. To some degreee, I don't think many younger people really have a clue what they like. Or if they do, they'd rather go with what is popular and ignore their own instincts and impulses. If pop culture tells them wearing your pants around your knees is the thing to do, that's what they do. If pop culture tells them it's cool to walk around with a phone stuck to the side of yoru head all the time, that's what you'll see. If pop culture tells them big butts are in, big butts it is. I'm not saying that any of this stuff is fundamentally wrong. And I certainly love big butts myself. But I love them because they're one of my natural attractions. But there was a time when freakishly thin was in. And every girl had to be freakishly thin and every guy had to have her. Who knows what it will be a year from now? |
| amneth Member 91 Posts 9/05 | I'm always amazed that blacks, who so often don't want to be stereotyped, like to stereotype other racial groups. Think before you spit it out. White people vary within their own little racial group. Just like black people vary. |
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| BSD Senior Member San Diego, CA 2508 Posts 11/03 | "When did white dudes start liking big butts"? When the American and Northern European cultural standard of beauty stopped being THE standard of beauty, and people started feeling free to say "I like what I like", and "THIS particular body style turns me on, despite what Cosmopolitan and Vogue magazines, and the Miss America Pageant, and a bunch of hoity-toity fashion designers and stick model chicks, TELL me is supposed to be hot." Most men the world over, including white men, have been far more accepting of all kinds of female bodies, including those with big butts, than popular culture would have you believe. Especially when they are GROWN ASSED MEN, in tune with their own feelings and sensitivies, and not teenage boys subject to the prevailing winds of culture, society and peer pressure. With America and Europe being the biggest exporters of pop culture to the world in the last century through television and film and print media, and the world being such a sponge for all things American during this time, people were basically told what was beautiful and desirable in female physical characteristics, from a white American point of view. Pale skin, tall, slim, long-limbed, blonde hair, blue eyes, NO ASS, attractive, but not sexually provocative, were all seen AND promoted as the American and Northern European ideal in beautiful women. White guys got taught through culture to desire that, white women got encouraged through culture to be that. More importantly a lot of women, white and not, wound up feeling small, insignificant, and bad, and their worth de-valued, if they weren't that. The body image issues and self esteem issues that many American women and girls developed over the last 50-75 years, were partly as a result of this cultural conflict. Some of the porn girls have written about this in these pages. As American black, and world Latin and Hispanic culture, (with their long appreciations for the big female booty), have become a larger part of general pop culture, it's been increasingly more acceptable for people, white and otherwise, to feel comfortable in their own skin, and to follow their own personal proclivities on this particular issue. In all races, there's always been lovers of females of all shapes, sizes and flavors. Today's society just allows people more freedom to express that. Now if we could just get the women to stop stressing so much about perceived body imperfections, we'd be in good shape. BSD Edited by - BSD on 6/26/2007 4:08:59 PM |
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| eduardo911 Senior Member 1299 Posts 8/03 | I agree that a shift in preferences within pop culture (particularly under the influence of hip hop culture) are part of the reason. Also, streetdance and modern Latin music/styles (salsa, merengue, reggaeton etc) place more emphasis on hip movement etc, which shows off the ass. Successful black artists are looked up to (even) more than a few decades ago, so their cultural preferences and attitudes, whatever their source may be, carry more weight for mainstream pop culture. Personally, when I was a teenager/adolescent (early 1980s, I wanted to impress my peers with the looks of my dates, and in my white middle class environment at the time, dating a slim girl with a relatively small butt and big boobs worked best; a girl with a really big butt (or a 'chubby/fat' girl) might draw nasty comments. If hiphop culture would have been as popular as it is now, I might as easily have chased the bigger butts and avoided the 'flat ass'. In adulthood, I feel much less pressure to impress my peers with the girls I date, so my personal preferences play a larger role. I have realized that I'm relatively indifferent to breast and butts size. It's shape that counts most to me. But should public taste shift again, I doubt whether it will still affect me as much. Like my fashion and musical tastes, my sexual tastes seem to be about fixed by now. Edited by - eduardo911 on 6/26/2007 2:38:21 PM |
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| BSD Senior Member San Diego, CA 2508 Posts 11/03 | I've learned that while almost all women like to feel pretty, and like to know that they are attractive and desirable, many women become uncomfortable when they are blessed\cursed with a particular body part\area that becomes the primary focus of their beauty by admirers. And they are unhappy with the objectification that comes when it seems that their entire worth and attractiveness to others is focused on that particular body part or issue. Especially if that issue is so inherently steeped in sexuality and sexual attractiveness as big tits, or a big ass, are. I think women like to feel attractive in the general sense, but if they feel that guys are always stepping to them because of one particular aspect of their attractiveness, or if they feel that guys are focusing ONLY on that particular aspect, then it becomes a double edge sword. And sometimes a source of much unhappiness for the woman. Many are the cases of women, especially young women, who were extraordinarally blessed in the breast area, that wound up unhappy as guy after guy fixated on that area of her being to the exclusion of other features or qualities she might possess. For a lot of women, having big breasts becomes a sort of albatross, defining their worth to others, and inhibiting their social development. To your specific comment, when a white girl in America has a big butt, in addition to the inherent self-consciousness that brings when she compares herself to her friends and peers, (not to mention what the fashion and professional beauty industry tells her), there is also the cultural component that we have been discussing in this thread, that adds to her confusion. It can be a little difficult, and intimidating, for a white girl when all the brothers are hollerin' at her, and tryin' to step to her because they find her attractive with her big ol' butt, while at the same time many white guys, (including many whom she might be attracted to and want to impress), see her figure and especially her big butt, in a negative light. And no matter how many times me or some other brother tells her she is the bomb and got it goin' on, the white guy that she likes told her that she is a fat ass. Finally, there is the undeserved social stigma that comes with having overly developed sexual parts for females. Primarally, big breasts and a big ass. Or sometimes just an overtly shapely figure. The proverbial "brick shithouse" look. How just having big tits, or a big ass, marked a girl as somehow "sluttier" than most is beyond me, but that was the case in the lunacy of puritan America. Probably because more people focused on those particular aspects of her being, and then transferred their addled perceptions onto her. All this added up to a lot of American girls and women, mostly white but not always, walking around unahappy with their natural blessings. Or at the least, ambivalent about them. Until John Stagliano came along and made porn stars out of white girls with big asses, the world came to the place where the brothers and the South American and the Italian and the Cuban and the Hawaiian and the Puerto Rican and all the other dawgs that are lovers of the big okole had been all along. Smile. BSD Edited by - BSD on 6/26/2007 8:15:04 PM |
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| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Some women, it seems have this idea of how they think they look....and how they think they should look. And it doesn't matter if you keep telling them they look great. They don't care. If she thinks her butt looks too big, nothing you can do about it. If you tell her you love her ass, that will only heighten her belief that her ass is just way too big. If you don't say anything, she will assume you're thinking her ass is way too big. It couldn't possibly be that you really do love her ass. It's a two-edged sword that no man will ever escape. There is some nebulous law written somewhere of how big a girl's butt should be. And only she knows what that size is. No man has access to this information. |
| BSD Senior Member San Diego, CA 2508 Posts 11/03 | Speaking strictly for Americans, ALL of our asses are bigger. White, black, men, women, foreign born, it don't matter. And our bellies, too. And most depressingly our children. There are plenty of reasons for this, (which is a whole 'nother discussion), but primarally you can thank; fast food, junk food, and generally poor diets, technology that has us sitting around all the time and has kids not going outside to play, transportation options, (nobody walks anymore), and a soft, sedentary lifestyle. All of this has made us fatter and unhealthier. Now as far as an increase in the natural, GENETIC, pre-disposition for bigger asses among white women, I don't really know about that. BSD Edited by - BSD on 6/27/2007 2:33:55 AM |
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| eduardo911 Senior Member 1299 Posts 8/03 | Apart from the nutritional and lifestyle issues you described, which I think are spot on, it may be a matter of perception: more big-butted girls flaunt their ass-ets by the clothes they wear and the way they walk or dance. And men have become more receptive. |
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| Arto Del Funko Deactivated User insert something clever here 42 Posts 6/07 | IMO, the figure Cosmopolitan & all those "fashionable" magazines imply as being the standard of attractiveness is a "flat ass" for the same reason as it is "small titties". They are somewhat "watershed", as in not sexually provocative; leave that to the porno magazines. As for white dudes liking big butts? i firmly believe that a sexy butt comes from its SHAPE, not its size. Due to the lack of genetics, the vast majority of women will never have the sexy round shape, but they can come close to it by having a "phat" ass. Only the genetically gifted (e.g. Krystal Steal) can have a round, tight butt without being "phat". Same thing goes for boobies; "You can have size without shape, but you cannot have SHAPE without some degree of size" Del Funko Talk to me |
| Arto Del Funko Deactivated User insert something clever here 42 Posts 6/07 | studies show that women with a 70% ratio (e.g. 34-24-34) are far more attractive to all men, regardless of race. even if she's a bit chubby, if she has the 70% ratio, she is still far more attractive than a slimmer girl with a 75 or 80% ratio. Someday i will write a mathematical equation on what is the perfect ass. You can quote me on that. |
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| Arto Del Funko Deactivated User insert something clever here 42 Posts 6/07 | i wonder did Einstein or that jerk in the wheelchair study TnA?? hoo-haa. some mass is needed to create curves, but if a woman has the genetics, it doesn't take much (a fashion-acceptable amount) to create the perfect shape. As i said previously, most women have to use a Cosmopolitaninally (is that a word? it is now) unacceptable amount of mass to obtain the desired curvature of the ass. Jesus H. Christ on a motorbike (in the nip), porn is becoming more of a science everyday. |
| Biggdiesal Member Illinois 252 Posts 5/05 |
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| Biggdiesal Member Illinois 252 Posts 5/05 | I feel you on that we are all bigger now a days because of the fast food that we chow down on the regular and because of the technology that we have. Video games and computers have definitely kept kids in the house more as well as adults. I have seen girls like Alexis Texas before but it seems you see more of them now a days. What's going on in Texas? It has been some really big booty white girls coming from there lately. |
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| tricia_devereaux Evil Angel DVD Patience is a virtue, but who wants to be virtuous? 4283 Posts 4/00 | This thread started an epiphany for me though. I like black guys a lot, and I don't remember a time when I wasn't attracted to black guys more than white guys... I wonder if it's some sort of fabulous sexual destiny since I had a curvy body and black guys were bound to appreciate it on another level. :) Well, them and my husband that is. |
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Was he an exception? I know that I've always liked fleshier girls. Skinnier girls don't do much for me. mod: snipped quote - see the Forum Etiquette Edited by - hardware on 7/2/2007 1:57:46 PM |
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