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xDEFiLED
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Posted - Dec 1 2014 : 10:14PM
I've always been fascinated by why disgusting porn is hot... the stuff i get most turned on by in porn, are stuff i would never do myself, and stuff i actually find disgusting. Ass to mouth, rough throatfucking with gagging and puking, blowjobs with mouth pissing, dirty anal with elements of scat and shitsmearing... just the most extreme shit that i would never wanna do myself, but it's what get me the most turned on when watching porn. It's like i'm turned on by being disgusted. But only when watching it in a pornmovie off course. Dirty toilets disgust me and i almost gag just thinking about it, but when a girl gets her head shoved down in a dirty toilet and pissed on in a pornmovie, it's the hottest shit ever. Fascinating how the mind works.
Anyone else recognizes this phenomena with themselves, that you get turned on by stuff in porn that you find disgusting in your everyday life?
Edited by - xdefiled on Dec 1 2014
jm6d
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Posted - Dec 2 2014 : 5:47PM
Because the grass is always greener in the neighbours garden, because all other persons at the table always have ordered more interesting meals, because whatever is beyond any limit is always more interesting than whatever we easily can reach.
LCF All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Dec 2 2014 : 5:50PM
I don't if sex was really as such I'd be happily abstinent
StarGrek
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Posted - Dec 3 2014 : 10:00AM
Well, I am personally not fascinated at all by many of the disgusting activities you mentioned, some of them they rather turn me completely off, like puking and whatever has to do with shit... . With ATM I don't have any problem as long as there are no colorful intestinal fluids traces on the guys dick. Why this exception? Because I know that the starlet's rectal cavity before anal shooting is cleaner than her mouth. In addition, I don't have any issue with pissing because medically speaking fresh urine is a lot more hygienic than saliva.
Now why these extreme activities turns some rather "normal" people on when watching them in porn?
Well, I think the answer lies mainly in the "dirty", the uncommon, the pervasive nature of the activity itself. People sometimes are fascinated by the supernatural, the one that goes beyond common logic and therefore they attracted by actors who are ready to pass the limits, whatever these are, in order to attract sexual attention. The idea that a woman is so "aroused" that can willingly allow "outrageous" things to happen to herself in order to quench the sexual thirst of her partners, her fans and even herself is intriguing for many people. (And yes I can assure you there are women in real life who find this pissing thing quite stimulating).
If you can define the prementioned phenomenon as masochism then you have to accept there is also its opposite end, the sadism. Although I am 1000% against, I recognize there are adult spectators who like to see a pretty woman being thoroughly abused. It can be expressed as complete humiliation (spitting, head shoved in the toilet, male foot pressing her head.. etc) and can go as far as rough treatment (extensive facial slapping, kicking, hooking, tossing her forcefully around...etc). Which are the exact mechanisms of these insticts I can't tell for sure, maybe it is superiority complex, maybe revenge or punish urges or simply the joy of destruction. Whatever it is they are present deep in many many people's head and that is a reality.
Yet, apart from SadoMasochistic side there is a more realistic interpretation for some of the acts that were mentioned before. In the heat of the moment, when you have passionate sex, many of the moral inhibitions are suspended and often we do things that in normal circumstances we would consider them disgusting. Believe me there were occasions in which some of my sexual partners attempted ATM unconsciously. (Of course most of the times I prevented it because neither her nor me would like to have oral infection problems. The idea can be stimulating but the execution at home is different thing). In the extended logic, cum swallowing, anal ring licking even kissing using tongue, actions that someones might consider disgusting are an active part of the erotic mating.
N00dlesDaddy
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Posted - Dec 4 2014 : 2:24PM
Personally, I'd be happy to participate in a lot of the stuff mentioned by the OP . It's precisely because it's unlikely to actually happen in real life that I enjoy watching it in porn.
 
Not Lucy Lee (Fake Account)
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Posted - Dec 5 2014 : 5:31PM
porn is like fantasy, in porn you do or see things you dont do or see in your normal life. In normal life you think many dirty things you cant do, but in porn you can do or see all your sex fantasies.
jm6d
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Posted - Dec 13 2014 : 1:47PM
In some way it seems to be a thought abundant in the views of many on sex or at least porn, at least when we use the English language. Dirty, naughty, nasty and words of similar type are so common in advertising and sex talk that it's easy to overlook their real meaning. Thus this view on sex and porn is almost a normality.
This is no answer on the question, only a note that this seems to be a view shared by many.
giveittome
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Posted - Dec 16 2014 : 1:37AM
I think most of us are just wired to enjoy raunchy, to the limits, nasty sex acts.
It goes to that "evil" side we all have inside us. Most of us have a depraved, filthy side
within us where sex is concerned and we have to have the craving satisfied from time to time.
Now I'm not condeming us for being that way - I know I certainly have my favorite fetishes.
For me, although I don't get off on puking during blowjobs, I like watching a girl slobber and
drool as much as possible while she's giving head. It can't get messy enough.
I also like watching POV titty fucking scenes - really large tits being used to stroke a cock to an eruption.
When you think about it, you can find just about anything you want on the net these days.
Hard to remember a time (not that long ago) when we couldn't say that.
N00dlesDaddy
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Posted - Dec 16 2014 : 10:55AM
I genuinely do feel torn nowadays. On the one hand, I'm grateful that the nastiest, dirtiest shit imaginable is only ever a mouse click away. On the other, a lot of the appeal of porn used to lie in seeking it out (which you had to physically do). Now, it's just there on tap. But this is probably a discussion for another thread.
Mister Fahrenheit All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 12 2015 : 2:08PM
Science has something to say about this:
How Arousal Overrides Disgust During Sex: Study
The study was of women, but I imagine a similar dynamic applies to men.
CummingLinguist All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 17 2015 : 3:10PM
The original article has a good epigraph about men.
A man, who will kiss a pretty girl’s mouth passionately, may perhaps be disgusted by the idea of using her tooth-brush.
- Sigmund Freud
Not Lucy Lee (Fake Account)
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Posted - Jan 17 2015 : 5:16PM
As porn girl and model you play with fantasies: what excited me more of doing porn is feeling you are doing things that to many people are dirty, disgusting and taboo. Doing porn is like dirty fantasy because you play slut all time, you give your body to many guys. Being model you play goddess, you show your body to many guys and they can masturbate watching you but they cant fuck you.
CummingLinguist All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 18 2015 : 3:06AM
^ Did you prefer the slut or goddess role?
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 18 2015 : 7:44AM
Thanks for this - very interesting (though, from what I'm reading of the original study, they don't explain why they focused exclusively on heterosexual females). I have done a good amount of writing on disgust/arousal/porn, and find the topic fascinating. Laura Kipnis has a good chapter about Hustler magazine called "Disgust and Desire" that I recommend.
Not Lucy Lee (Fake Account)
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Posted - Jan 18 2015 : 8:01AM
its fun to play both, i but i got enough of playing slut and now i play only goddess ;)
 
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Posted - Jan 18 2015 : 1:04PM
I only read the abstract and scanned the original paper, But I see two reasons (the first is unstated, but the intended audience would have understood it.)
1) In statistical studies, you need to reduce the amount of variation within your experimental and control groups. If they had more money, no doubt they would have designed an experiment that looked at: Straight men, gay men, straight women, gay women, bisexual men, bisexual women, male-to-female transgenders who are drawn to biological men, male-to-female transgenders who are drawn to biological women, etc. etc. etc. But lacking the resources, they narrowed their focus.
2) So why focus on straight women? The first two sentences of the introduction read:
Sex as a procreation stance and disgust as a defensive mechanism, are both basic, evolutionary relevant functions, yet their relationship is paradoxical and possibly obstructive. Disgust has been argued to be evolved as a defensive mechanism to protect the organism from external contamination [1], [2]. Consequently, the main organs or body parts that are involved in this defensive mechanism are known to lie on the border of the body. Accordingly, the mouth and vagina are amongst the body parts that show strongest disgust sensitivity, possibly due to their aperture and higher perceived risk of contamination.
Straight women invite another person's bodily fluids to come in contact with a mucous membrane, and thereby putting themselves at risk of infection. Granted, humans vary in both their sexual behaviors and arousal responses, so not all straight women engage in vaginal sex. But the scientists were attempting to minimize that variation, while at the same time focusing on a group of human beings where the dialectic between disgust and arousal might be especially salient.
Mister Fahrenheit All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 18 2015 : 8:29PM
Sounds interesting, I'll look for this. Thanks.
N00dlesDaddy
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Posted - Jan 19 2015 : 2:06AM
I always worry if you analyse something too much it'll lose its appeal.
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Posted - Jan 19 2015 : 12:14PM
^ Hasn't affected me in a negative sense. In fact, in some cases a little analysis has increased my enjoyment of something.
sinnistar
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Posted - Sep 16 2015 : 7:27PM
I'm often asked why do disgusting porn like dirty ass to mouth, painful anal and gagging/puking deepthroat and I think when someone sees a beautiful and even innocent girl doing something disgusting it simply raises the bar on the dominance you have over that beauty. And also, let's face it, an "8" becomes a "10" when she's doing these "disgusting" things. And lastly once it's on tape people watching don't have to deal with the mess/smells, they only see it and it looks hot!
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Edited by - killbillvol69 on 9/16/2015 11:51:19 PM



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