I know this is going to sound like heresy, but I could never understand the fascination with anal. Why stick it in a girl's ass when you've got a perfectly good pussy, designed for taking cock? Plus, I don't see how a girl could enjoy getting her ass plowed. Seeing a woman being pleasured sexually is part of what I enjoy about porn, and I just don't see how she could get pleasure out of anal. I do like watching DP but in DP scenes the dick in the ass is just a supplement to the dick in the pussy.
I say because it's still taboo, and it's so tempting seeing it wink at you from the doggy style position!...I apologize, I'm speaking from my experiences now!
I agree with those who say that the attraction of anal sex is the "taboo" aspect--and I think related to that is the idea of how far a partner is willing to go. Anal sex, to my mind, falls into the category of, "If she's open-minded enough to do this for me, what else will she do if I ask her? Maybe she'll wait on me and my friends on game day wearing nothing but a gold lamé bikini. Or she'll bring her Hooters-girl friend over for a threesome. Or her hot mom and aunt for a foursome. Or--" You get the idea. I believe this is what guys used to think about when it came to oral sex way back when women outside of porn who gave blowjobs were a rare item. Nowadays women willing to give blowjobs are much more common--provided, in most cases, that the guy is willing to reciprocate. Nowadays, anal sex is the new oral sex, in that most women aren't inclined to do it, and if you find one that is--then you've found someone special. ___________________________________________________________
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if a hole is kissable, it's fuckable. i'm mid thirties and i've never kissed or licked asshole, so i'm not likely to ever fuck one. some performers enjoy anal more than vaginal, including some of my favorites, so i might watch if they do lesbian anal. i don't need any more nutsack shots in my porn collection.
I think anal sex has grown in popularity partly because of market demand, and partly because it's just something different. As someone here mentioned, porn does go in cycles. I enjoy watching anal, vaginal, DP, whatever, but the one thing that always turns me off anal is that damned gaping. I really don't wanna peer deep in the ass and watch people spit in it :(...I'd enjoy anal a lot more if they didn't go for that goatse imitation. If I wanna see a giant black hole I'll look up pictures taken by the Hubble.
Well, the anus is a part of the body with most sensitive nerve endings, so anal sex can be as enjoyable (or more) than vaginal sex; If wouldnt be like this, gay people wouldnt enjoy sex :) ; so now you can see how a girl can get pleasure out of anal sex. Anal penetration is not painful if its well done, and thats the reason why so many girls prefer anal sex over vaginal sex!
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Posted - Jan 29 2010 : 6:55AM
I don't know how big butted girls ever get pregnant.
Gravity as Curved Space: Bootymeister's Theory of General Relativity 1589 Posts 11/08
Posted - Jan 29 2010 : 8:24PM
In cowgirl, vaginal is a better view. In reverse cowgirl, anal sex includes a view of the pussy. DP almost always warrants fast forward. Great anal sex in porn has been around since before I started wathcing porn in 1980. Vanessa Del Rio was the first anal queen I knew. It seems that pornstars might be better able to portray anal as exciting more so than vaginal. However I rarely consider that a dvd is advertised as "all anal" when making a selection. Therefore, I am inadvertently supporting this high level of anal access not really caring for this degree of availability of anal content. By the way, Belladonna's "Ass Wide Open" has no vaginal sex with each slut contantly using her hands to keep her ass spread open when not getting plowed. Edited by - bootymeister on 4/25/2010 10:12:35 PM
I'm pretty sure that is not true. That doesn't mean it doesn't feel good, lets not go overboard. It doubt there's anything magic about being fucked in the ass compared to vaginal or clit stimulation.Can be is probably the answer, but again, I'd ask a woman familiar with both, and I am quite sure most would prefer the vagina for enjoyment. Variation is good, but I'm just not buying that most would prefer anal for sensation.Of course she can get pleasure for it, and thank god for that. I hope to have a wife one day that will want it there occasionally. But your statement that "many girls prefer anal sex over vaginal sex" seems like wishful thinking. "Many" is a meaningless term. I'm sure there's a good number, in the thousands, millions, of all the 3 billion women on earth, but it still means nothing, and it gives the impression of a wild guess on your part.
One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04
Posted - Mar 30 2010 : 4:01PM
With very few exceptions, just about every lady over the age of 21 has had sex with a guy, might be a few religious holdouts and a man-hating lesbian here and there who haven't. I'd make an educated guess that 95+% of the ladies who've had vaginal sex with a guy has also sucked his boner. I'm sure there's a few gals who recoil in horror, 'Put that thing you pee out of in my mouth!?! They haven't printed enough money yet.' But anal...that takes a gal who's a little more daring, a little more adventurous, and a little less inhibited than the usual lady. Something like 20% of women do it on a regular basis so it isn't all that popular in the real world. At any given time, there might be around 1000 women doing hard-core porn throughout the world. Since that's something like .000000001% of the women who inhabit Planet Earth, we'd expect the percentage of ladies willing to do anal to be far higher than the usual gal in the street. Just about all ladies will suck cock and fuck cock, the ones who do the back-door boogie, are far-rarer, we'd expect to see them doing things like stripping and porn. If you don't like it fine, there's plenty of folks out there who share your opinion. Won't even look at porn unless it's anal? Plenty of those guys around too. One man's trash can be the next man's treasure.
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Posted - Mar 30 2010 : 4:22PM
An attractive woman's asshole is beautiful to me. The more hardcore the anal action is, the more I seek it. The DP is worthless to me.
It's fairly simple for all I know: Penetration in porn is terribly boring. Then you might as well go for the hole that most of the viewers never have explored. Plus anal leads to a2m which is way hotter than pussy-to-mouth which is even common in real life. Part of the anal attraction is sadism. Who doesn't want to see a little bit of uncomfort and disgust on the face of the actresses? I believe that is closely related to how unsatisfied most people are with their job. If you employ people, you want to see them suffer for each quid you pay them, admit it!
Anal is quite hot i have to admit. Much more exciting than regular penetration.
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Posted - Mar 30 2010 : 6:42PM
I just love seeing a shapely round woman's butt being machine-gunned like a trooper! Even better if she's getting the other hole pummelled at the same time.
Very eloquent. And it is the natural evolution of porn drift. Better looking girls willing to do anal and beyond: a2m, cumfarting, hopefully one day fisting When I was lad in the late 80s anal was an uncommon occurrence, today it's an expectation of depravity. I don't see too many lines trumpeting their *lack* of anal in a movie. It's usually the opposite, "INCLUDES ANAL" And what keeps me in the game is the hope that one day girls I love like Alexis Love or Isis Taylor will one day to consent to cracking open their asses by either circumstance, desperation, curiosity or naked greed. Can't you picture the sheer joy of the potential of Alexis Love in Ass Worship 12? Ass to My and/or Asskimo Pie? Yes We Can!
Nothing is more beautiful than a Womans shapely ass for some including myself. Also, the anal sex is a great feeling. It has a different feel than vag. It's dirtier and nastier as well. It's also not just the anal sex. It's also about the fun rimming and assplay. Let the revolution continue!
Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09
Posted - Apr 24 2010 : 11:14AM
Look fellas, OF COURSE SOME wives and girlfriends do it. Hell, maybe a lot of them do. My point was and continues to be that anal sex is NOT something a lot of women enjoy or will do (a fact of which, Ill wager, every one of you is aware), but it IS something that a lot of men apparently are intrigued by, and that's why it's a popular item in porn. As for my own sexual history, when I'm talking about that, you'll know it, but don't hold your breath. It's nobody's fucking business. At my age, it has also assumed a retrospective nature that depresses me to talk about.
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AsianAnalPantyhoserGuy Deactivated User
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Posted - Apr 24 2010 : 11:37AM
I currently date a woman who is Filipino. Sometimes, I am very tired at night and decide to bust a nut before I put it in her ass. She doesn't let me go to sleep though, I have to deeply frig her asshole while I suck on her clit. After she cums, then I can go to sleep. Some women definitely love anal penetration. I also date a woman who is Venezuelan that demands I fuck her ass.
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Posted - Apr 24 2010 : 11:57AM
According to what? I'll wager that it's just as likely that for every woman you find who loves a big cock up her ass, you'll find a man who has no interest in putting his cock in her ass.... Your assertion that it's something that wives or girlfriends don't do has got to be hopelessly subjective.... I doubt there's any objective numbers anywhere to compare it to.
Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09
Posted - Apr 24 2010 : 12:38PM
What I'm saying is that the very popularity of anal sex in porn suggests that it is not common for women to do it. Consider how little straight missionary position garden variety fucking is depicted in professional porn. Why? Because it IS common. How many ordinary looking women are in porn? None. Why, because looking ordinary IS ordinary. The meat and potatoes of porn is to provide the arousal of vicariously doing etraordinary sexual activities with extaordinarily attractive people. The emphasis of anal in porn I think proves what I'm saying that it is an uncommon practice of actual sex. You guys can come on here and brag -- or lie-- about sticking your big man meat up your baby's ass and how she screams for more, until we all are swooning with envy and want your autograph. It doesn't change that in porn or in ANY form of entertainment what sells is the uncommon experience.
How many guys like anal stimulation? How many guys want to be anally penetrated? How many of them love it and would like to do it regularly? Then add to that the fact that men get additional prostate stimulation, so women will probably not get the same stimulation. That might give some people food for thought.
^ Are we supposed to assume the answers to those questions are "not many"?? I think that's what you're getting at...but the reality is, millions upon millions of men enjoy anal stimulation. I think the stigma against it for heterosexuals is the primary factor in it not being something a lot of men would try (or admit to wanting/trying).
Yes and no. I don't know the number either, I just tend to get a little ticked off when people (guys) come across like they expect it, like its the norm. Like if you are having sex, of course anal should be included. Any guy who has tried putting something up there knows that its not like the act of receiving anal is "nothing". And as I said, most probably its more pleasurable for men than women. The lack of respect and the attitude that she should be willing just gets to me, its not as easy as vaginal and guys shouldn't expect it to the same degree. That being said, I'm all for experimentation, and I would of course like to try it out mutually with a future gf/wife. I just accept the fact that its not quite like vaginal and it can't be expected that she'd be as ready and willing to receive it anally. That's why it happens much less frequently and that's why (some/most?) girls are less open to it. I think people should be open to mutual exploration and try stuff out of curiosity, but I doubt there are many girls (or guys) that are eager to receive anal anytime, anywhere.
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Posted - Apr 25 2010 : 7:18PM
I've jacked off with dildos shoved up my ass. It's pretty much like they say, hurts but feels good at the same time. The orgasms are pretty freaking intense when you pull out. My best friend loves getting it from chicks with strap-ons. I don't go that route, but he says it's the best. All I know is that I am as dirty as they come and I love female anal cavity. Put it in it!!!
Expecting it and "finessing" a girl into anal are two different things: My long time gf (now-ex) knew how much I enjoyed anal sex through porn. She liked to watch it too for the specatacle/sexual gymnastics visual aspects of it. But doing it was another thing. Whining or just aiming for the browneye was never appreciated. So basically we worked out an arrangement that she would suggest when we could have anal. Usually once or twice a month. Sunday night was a good time after her bath. Without getting too graphic, she also might suggest it if she had had a particular good BM and was in the mood. But it was definitely a half hour of foreplay usually beginning with me giving her a good massage, esp. her lower back, some wine and weed, lots of lube and no penetration till I could slide 3 fingers in and out with ease. I had to be slippery as well (tried it with condoms but that made it more difficult for insertion and she didn't like the sandwich baggy feel). She preferred asskimo pie mainly so she could cumfart it out into the toilet instead of potential messiness on the bedsheets. So one night I inquired about a2m? Her comment was great: "You're not Rocco Siffreddi". Rocco was her all time favorite porn stud.
Sorry... bzzzt... There's nothing new under the sun. Think of anything, and someone somewhere is doing it to someone they love, (or claim to love) right this very second. Porn, and what goes on in it, very likely doesn't really suggest much of anything noteworthy about anything. People have been fucking each other in the ass as long as there have been people with asses to fuck. Before that, whatever we were before we were people, fucked each other in the asses.
Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09
Posted - Apr 27 2010 : 5:04PM
Where did I say that it was something new? Where did I say that people don't do it? As for your [consistent, at least} low opinion of porn, that thas nothing to do with it. What I said is that porn's appeal is in presenting an audiovisual aid to fantasies of EXTRAORDINARY sex. If anal sex were all that common, you wouldn't see much of it in porn, nor would there be so many fascinated with it here. It simply would not sell. It isn't porn that's noteworthy, here, it's the law of supply and demand operating on porn that is noteworthy.
Gravity as Curved Space: Bootymeister's Theory of General Relativity 1589 Posts 11/08
Posted - Apr 27 2010 : 6:13PM
When pornstars who do anal are asked, most will tell you that they did not do anal until it was for a porn shoot. These dillusions about anal sex are amazing. Most women do not do anal. Anal sex is a gross minority practice.
A clean mind or a clean body, take your pick. 3 Posts 4/10
Posted - Apr 27 2010 : 8:14PM
Simon33333: "Why is anal sex so popular?" Because humans are extremely sexual animals. People will have sex with anything and in any way imaginable. However, we are, as a society, still somewhat repressed sexually. Just look at the language we still use when talking about sex (well, not me): filthy, nasty, dirty, bitch, whore, slut. To me, filthy is a sweaty, unwashed, dirty body with, maybe, some nasty dripping disease coming from one's penis or vagina. Sex should be good and healthy and clean. After all, the only reason we have over population is because sex feels good. So we should celebrate it to the fullest. It's should be right up there with religion. Yes, porn takes up a huge part of the internet. And, yes, sex sells nearly everything there is to be sold. Still, sex, the open and frank discussion of it, the options, and one's personal sexual preferences and practices are not discussed openly, at dinner or at work like, say, politics, sports, or other non-sexual topics. Only in a forum like this, in which we are all, more or less, anonymous, is it discussed openly. And resistance to sexual education in schools is still strong. Remember, sodomy laws--anal and oral sex--were enforced in most states not that long ago. To give you an example. In Florida, in the early 90's, narcotics officers on a stakeout in a building across the street from a hotel, noticed a couple who hadn't close their curtains (on the 17th floor!) and phtographed the man going down on the woman, who it was later discovered was his wife. The couple were arrested under some archaic sodomy law. Anal sex is still relatively taboo to many people, so it fascinates them. I don't know how old you are, but I remember the first Playboy magazines: you saw the tits, but you did not see the pussy, and, later, when they showed the pussy, it was hairy, not shaven. Things change. This is one of those changes.
And,of course, the problems associated with improper anal sex--lack of sufficient lubricant, forcing the anal sphincter, not using a condom with a person of an unknow disease quotient--are legion, but the fantasy is alive and well. And what is porn, but our promiscuous, sex with random strangers fantasies played out for us. So,when you come upon an anal scene, just try to imagine that the woman is acutally enjoying what she is doing.
(Personally, I don't mind anal that much. It just annoys me when the scene was rocking up until the anal and then it grinds to a halt because of the anal necessarily slowing down the action. That's my gripe.) The simple & true explanation for anal appearing in everything lately is.... Some Anal leads to more Anal. A truth that's supported by proofs such as: Some people on government assistance leads to more people on government assistance. The amount of anal in porn is like the amount of extremism in Islam. It keeps growing because there's no checks and balances limiting its growth so it comes to dominate the porn landscape like Muslims dominate the vagina by slicing part of the clitoris off. Anal in porn is a self-propogating phenomenon. Which is ironic, since those viewing porn are usually self-propogating at the time. Soon the va-jay-jay will be squeezed out of the porn marketplace entirely and people will start forgetting about the vagina because they've grown up in a world where anal is all they've ever known. Which is why the Mayan calandar predicted dire things for 2012. It's the year when people will find out about the costs of the new health care system and realize anal is the only kind of sex that still makes sense because they no longer want to bring children into the world; it's the year when the vagina will become the new appendix and pornstars will start having it removed to make more room for their ass because all the vagina does anymore is collect dust after going unused for so long; and it's the year when gay marriage will become mandatory due to a huge mix-up in the fine print of the 3rd Constitutional Amendment in as many months regarding the definition of marriage. 2012. See the movie. Get ready.