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| TedtheBellhop Member  767 Posts 6/09 |  Posted - Nov 1 2014 : 1:11PMEarly on in our relationship my wife was open-minded toward porn. We bought a relatively female friendly film on DVD (Provocateur, as recommended by the effeminate male clerk at the Hustler store). It had all the basics, B/G, G/G, BBB/G, B/GG. We watched some early on, and after a while she admitted she just wasn't that into it. I respected that porn wasn't her cup of tea, and she respected that I did enjoy it from time-to-time. Every once in a great while she might suggest putting our DVD on. She typically seemed drawn to the G/G scene. Earlier this week she came home from work and admitted that she had watched some porn while I was at work. It was G/G and gave her a small orgasm without any touching. I know this seems like a long way to go to make a lame brag. This really isn't sitting well with me. If it were any other type of porn, I'd be ecstatic. I may not have the size or the abs of male porn performers, but we're operating on the same plane. Another female is an experience completely different. Am I freaking out over nothing? How should I handle this? She offered to show me the video she was watching. If I ask her to show me, is that being supportive, or is it meddling? Has anyone encountered a situation like this? [Link] |
jayo  All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Nov 1 2014 : 1:46PM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Nov 1 2014 : 7:37PM [Link] |
| Carmen Valentina Member Cam with me LIVE on CarmenValentina.com 57 Posts 6/10 | Posted - Nov 2 2014 : 1:24PM Her admitting to you that she likes GG might be the first step to her opening up and watching and trying other stuff with you down the line. If you create too much fuss about it now, she might clam up and not want to share what other stuff turns her on. Trust me, most girls have a whole wide range of stuff we can find erotic, just havent shared yet. Best of luck:) [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Nov 3 2014 : 4:02PM So yes, I see no reason to freak out. Go read up on some open minded couples advice columns, or some commentary from sex therapists, or feminists that are pro-porn, and you'll get some perspectives and food for thought. This sounds like its related to insecurities, its a typical reaction from fear of losing control and its very, very common and normal. [Link] |
| DAPistheBEST Deactivated User 36 Posts 8/14 | Posted - Nov 8 2014 : 2:26AM [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Nov 8 2014 : 10:43AM Earlier this week we were fooling around. While I was fingering her, she grabbed her phone and started watching G/G material. (Don't worry, she and I will have the "tube site" discussion soon if this becomes routine). She had a crying orgasm. Those are the big ones that happen maybe once a month or so. I did the hardest thing in the world for me to do. I acted like it was nothing and didn't mention it before, during or after. I think JohnW was seeing right through me when he used the word "control". Deep breaths. One day at a time. I should be happy we've found something to get a spark going. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Nov 8 2014 : 10:49AM [Link] |
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