Reviewers Recommend
Hookup Hotshot: Episode 464: Iris LeonHookup Hotshot: Episode 464: Iris Leon - review by Captain Jack
Starring: Iris Leon, Jase Leon. Read review
All Forums > Sex Talk > Sex Talk Forum Page 48 > Women and rejection?
AuthorPost
Brooke_fan
Member


247 Posts
5/04
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 9:56AM
Why is it that if a guy asks a woman out but she says no, the guy has to accept it, ask no questions and move on but if it's the other way round, the woman can act like a moron and give the Spanish Inquisition about why the guy isn't interested?
DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 9:59AM
They do?

The only situation where I have experienced anything similar to what you are describing is when the lady was a SO - g/f, fiancee, or wife.

DenverDon

Oh ... and under the same circumstances I guess I did a bit of the Spanish Inquisition on them.

Edited by - DenverDon on 6/23/2004 10:00:05 AM

nietzsche
Deactivated User

5470 Posts
8/03
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 11:10AM
It's called Woman's Prerogative.....adjust.
mookiemeister
Super Cool Dude

181 Posts
7/02
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 11:16AM
Because it's more threatening to a woman if a man continue to come on to a woman who is not interested, then vice versa.

--

"The lover knows much more about absolute good and universal beauty than any logician or theologian, unless the latter, too, be lovers in disguise." - George Santayana

"To do the useful thing, to say the courageous thing, to contemplate the beautiful thing: that is enough for one man's life." - T.S. Eliot

Kimi Lixx
Senior Member

2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 11:22AM
Really? A woman just says no and the man moves on... this has not been my experience.
 
lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 12:36PM
Both men and women ask questions.

I have had the experience of trying to give a polite reason and having the reason countered. Put up another reason, he argues with that.

"I can't make it, my brother's visiting from out of town." "Bring him along." "He just flew in on a long flight and is tired." "He can nap here."

It can get ludicrous.

I'm sure that both genders do this.

Nicole
Member

64 Posts
2/04
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 5:22PM
I'm just not polite anymore. If a guy asks me out and I say no, and he keeps pressing me on it I'll just be honest. "Hey, you're ugly", or "your'e not my type", or "you're a loser", or my favorite, "I am not attracted to you on any level". It may seem harsh but it avoids them wasting anymore of my time, and it avoids me wasting their time with sugar coated rejections that just keeps them harassing you. It may be mean, but somtimes the truth hurts!
pornopunk
Senior Member

1343 Posts
2/04
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 6:54PM
I can see why. You're a hottie. A guy would be a fool not to try as hard as he can to change your mind.

Fortunately, I've never had to chase after a woman, most of the time we started out as friends and I already knew they liked me. Also, I've always had lots of females friends and they would introduce me to their friends. Much easier than trying to "pick up" a woman at a bar or club.

-PornoPunK

Edited by - pornopunk on 6/23/2004 6:54:02 PM

Coyote
Member

Daylight Savings Time, is it really Necessary?
972 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jun 23 2004 : 7:39PM
Never had that experiance. I don't get many NO's. and even when I do I usually just immediatly go flirt with another girl and make sure the girl who I asked out earlier sees. Usually she comes over to me sometime during the night and I score. (not sex all the time but I do end up kissing and getting a number)
licker
Senior Member

Heretic, Iconoclast, Skeptic
1141 Posts
8/03
Posted - Jun 24 2004 : 5:58AM
One reason is that men are often larger and physically stronger than women, so it could be distressing and intimidating for her if we do not accept the first "no". This means that for a man, to "ask no questions and move on" is simply good manners.
TheLoneGunman
Member

400 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jun 24 2004 : 12:16PM
I don't have a problem with being rejected...what I have a problem with is when women show no interest, and then you find out years later they had a huge crush on you and were "playing hard to get". That makes no sense to me.

On the flip side, I also hate women that don't like you, but get OFFENDED by the fact that you are attracted to them. Like it's an insult to them or something.

croy
Platinum Member

Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jun 24 2004 : 10:37PM
I just move on. After all, if she is somebody I don't know, I have no real emotional commitment. If it is somebody I know, I probably have some idea of the answer beforehand.

Brooke_fan, I know what you mean. One time, a woman kept going after me. Since she was a friend of a friend I socialized with, it was hard to avoid her. She even got my e-mail from my friend and sent me some modeling shots. Not recommended - it took forever for me to get my e-mail and since I had no idea what was taking so long I got pissed off, and I had to download my e-mail to clear the queue (this was before web-mail). She would also always grab my ass and drop hints (in the way a gun to the temple is a hint). At what point does the idea of NO get through?

All Forums > Sex Talk > Sex Talk Forum Page 48Women and rejection?

Previous topic: My Buddy's Anal Disaster
Next topic: Cock Toy ?



Jump To: