Why is it that so many women say that they only climax from oral sex? Why is it that some say they do from normal sex? I know it needs to be stimulated but, why the difference other than everyone's different?
Weird, I've never felt that way. Just the opposite for the longest time. I could not cum from oral to save my life.
I read something once that may pertain, I think it was Freud.(?)
Something to the effect of as young womyn our primary stimulus is to the clit (mastrabation w/ out penetration) then as we reach sexual maturity and become sexually active, we learn to have to vaginal orgasms as well.
But some of us never learn to have vaginal orgasms (or cannot without clit stimulation too) and this may be what you've encountered mrpeepers.
It may sound far fetched to some, but it certainly was the case for me.
On a completely unrelated note- I used to have a baby rooster named Mr. Peepers.
I can't seem to orgasm from oral either. But I can from vaginal and anal, but during all that I like to stimulate my clit.
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DenverDon Benevolent
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Posted - Sep 19 2002 : 9:11PM
Mrpeepers, Guess I was lucky, but the ones I have been with could have both. They did say that just the clitoral (oral) stimulation produced a different orgasm than when there was penetration combined with it. But a ‘learned process’ didn’t seem to be the case. It just … was.
Yeah, I’m a guy so I’m saying this second hand, but that is what was told to me when we discussed it.
DenverDon
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DenverDon Benevolent
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Posted - Sep 19 2002 : 9:12PM
Heaven,
We were typing at the same time. Yeah, I forgot the anal orgasms.
DenverDon
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Planet Sex Deactivated User
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Posted - Sep 19 2002 : 9:25PM
Dr. Peppers, methinks you´re sorta kind new in this sex business, right?
Well... ALL women are different, and they all cum differently. It´s a trial-and-error thing, and they´re not always willing to give up the magic in the first try. You have to use the Braille method, push, poke and prod. And keep asking relevant questions of the "are were there yet, Papa Smurf?" sort.
I once even found a girl who only came after being slapped in the face a couple of times!
