nothing new there, pal. who was she , btw? I guess, you feel(ed) attracted to her at one point, but what would you have done if she wasn't looking for that suga daddy and she would still be active in the biz? would you still marry her?
I dont think I could ever marry a pornstar, like so many have said the fantasy of the situation would be crushed under the weight of the reality. As an everyday guy I know that no matter how accepting of a woman career I would be there would still be that part of me that would be totally jealous. Imagine that you were married to your favorite pornstar and you had your ordinary job. At first you think it is so cool and hot that you are married to a woman that so many guys want. After a while the comments start and at first they dont bother you because the guys that make them can only imagine what you get. Then after a little while they start to bother you. Then comes the day where she isnt in the mood to be with you and most guys would be frustrated and understanding, but in the back of your mind it like not in the mood to be with me, but she is going to go and bang a guy in a scene tomorrow. I personally wouldnt want to guilt my wife into sex by saying oh you'll do it for your job but I am married to you and I cant get any. You could say it is all a job all you want but at the end of the day she is still getting physical needs met from that job and mental and emotional needs met from you. While for most guys you maybe getting your physical needs met, your getting mental and emotional anguish in return.
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Posted - Nov 14 2009 : 7:15PM
Probably not. If you work on cars all day, when come home you don't want to fix your car. When you cook all day, you don't want to come home and cook. So if my wife was a Pornstar she probably wouldn't want to come home and have sex, right!
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Posted - Nov 14 2009 : 11:50PM
I'm watching Allison Pierce and Missy Woods a lot recently - both girls are such excellent freaks for sex that i think if i wanted a ornstar as a wife then one of them would be a good match. However i must confess i worry about Allison Pierce being farr too loose in both her pussy and ass to enjoy having sex with anymore. Missy on the other hand looks nice and tight, and i think i could really enjoy being married to her and her doing all the nasty fucking she enjoys.
I have massive respect for any guy who could because its something i just couldn't do. i couldn't deal with kissing my wife good evening an hr/day/year (wt ever)after shes just been involved in a gangbang scene and swallowed 6 loads. Or Mandingos made sure shes out till her next scene a week later, but date one Hell YER
Well that's one quite wired logic. According to it if somebody works in kindergarten then she/he would not want to have kids. To answer on the topic - I doubt I could but I have never met pornstar so I can't say with sure :) Edited by - zaffer on 11/15/2009 10:35:41 AM Edited by - zaffer on 11/15/2009 10:37:11 AM
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Posted - Dec 10 2009 : 10:31PM
Dear Maria Ozawa, Will you marry me? Lots of love and kisses, deadmanwade Edited by - deadmanwade on 12/10/2009 10:33:58 PM mod edit: pic removed. review image policy Edited by - savoy on 12/11/2009 10:56:24 AM
Many people are less likely to ask the same question to a happy couple that is either incapable of having sex in marriage. Why is that? Marriages which do not include sex are just as non-mongamous than marriages that include multiple partners. Why is the former more acceptable?The reaction that you are recieving is built upon a dominant axiom that insists that swingers simply have not seen the light. They currently don't realize why monogammy is inherently more meaningful than any other lifestyle. I really don't see any evidence that supports this axiom accept wishful thinking.
IF... 1.She stopped doing porn. 2.Got tested to prove she was 100% clean. 3.Was NOT a slut. I'd rather be w/ a normal girl. I bet some porn chicks are pretty used up,who wants a loose pussy and asshole ? I don't.
Yes...why not? I'd even have a baby or two with her too if it was love. After watching so much porn I realized a lot of times they work with the same male actors over and over again. So it's not like they're fucking hundreds and hundreds of guys every year.
No. But my life has run through all sorts of preconceived barriers.
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Master D Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 19 2010 : 11:47AM
Not ready to be marry because I am foucs on my career and maybe in 9 years.
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Mojo Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 19 2010 : 11:49AM
Why not? What’s the difference between a woman who fucks for money as a job and a woman who dates and marries a guy for his income, car and house? Both one and the same to me, except the prostitute is more honest about why she’s fucking the guy. There’s some real meaty porn stars out there! Take three of my favs, Lexxi Lockhart, Daphne Rosen and Sophie Dee, for example. I’d give my left ball for any one of them, especially the newly enhanced nymphomaniac Sophie Dee! Just imagine being able to fuck any of them every day and night! Man, I wouldn't want to leave the house ever again! The STD thing would be a problem though, I must admit.
If I really love someone I would not let my or their work be a hinder. If I love someone so much that I want to marry him, I love him for what he is..if he's a pornstar, well then he is... would I think over it before? Yes I would, but then again a marriage is big step which should always be thought thru carefuly before pursuing.
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Posted - Feb 19 2010 : 2:47PM
I married Tabitha Stevens. One of the best decisions I've ever made. When she does a scene it's no different than if she was a pro athlete. If both parties are completely grounded it's no big deal.
That's good, I just think people sometimes make a bigger deal out of thing then they really are. One thing I know, I would never be in the way for my partners carrer choice. Of course, if you have been married for awhile and he say to me "I want to go into porn", I would ask him to think it thru. But if I get together with someone who's a pornactor I would not make him quit his job for me...
hmm...I've been thinking about this. A lot of questions... -- Marry to procreate? Have my kids dealing with Mom's past? Or like an LA live together go to parties we're 40 type marriage? -- An ACTIVE pornstar? Well, I gotta say quickly on that, no. I'm insanely jealous, the past would be hard enough to deal with never mind "How was your day, dear?" -- Was her career like Gangbang, Max Hardcore, pissed on every gagging flick etc? Or was it like a Swan/Hope lesbian thing? I dunno....I gotta think I'd have trouble with it. I suppose it is your worldview.
That's a very interesting question to post on this forum. This forum is unique since it consists of personnel in the industry and fans alike. So there's going to be opinions voiced by "progressive thinkers" and opinions voiced by more "conservative thinkers". While we all have an affinity for porn to varying degress, it's safe to say that marriage is a completely separate issue. It's gonna be really important to respect each others' views and not lash out too bad. It's perfectly OK to exchanges ideas and opinions....that's what forums are all about. But remember, this is a sensitive topic. For those of you who have never been married, believe me, it's a sensitive issue. Person A does not live person B's life, so it's important to respect each other's views on this one.
As with most things, I never say never. I'll deal with things as they come, if I meet a guy who is a pornactor and it goes as long that marriage would be something to concider, well then I would think about it more closely. And yes it is all about respect and respecting each other...and work is a big part of life, so to just say 'no' because of his line of work would be wierd to me.
Sure, if you find someone who is special, why not. My ex-wife was a slut and she did not do porn but she did sleep with lots and lots of guys both before and during our marraige.
Sweetie you can get more of an std by a civilian more so than a pornstar we get checked every month so that was just an outlandish statement
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Posted - Feb 22 2010 : 7:34PM
No i wouldn't. and if i met a girl who was pornstar at the time, i would ask her to quit. nothing against the profession, i just don't want my chick banging other dudes...whether she gets paid or not. if she needs money that bad, i'll work two, three, four jobs, to provide for her.
Ever stop to reverse the question: Would a porn star marry you? I think she could probably do better than some PL for whom pornography is the extent of his sex life. ;) Seriously, I'd have to think that, whatever it is she's looking for -- looks, money, prowess, size, personality -- someone else has a whole lot more of it than I do, and that her career puts her in a pretty good position to find that someone.
Can you imagine getting the George Costanza option? Your bride decides that the best way to give her new marriage the best hope of long term success not only leaves the industry but becomes rather reserved in her sexuality (both in terms of frequency and freakishness). Oh, but, every now and then, she'll say something about how she was in 'the old days.' I'd marry a pr0n star, hopefully, one who either (a) had obtained positive self-efficacy from her career and life choices or (b) one who considered me the cherry on top of the "I'm going to fuck away the pain of my tormented life" sundae. (Ideally, she'd be a woman who somehow manages to combine the best of both. Maybe an over achiever who always has a critical view of her own work and comes home looking to do it the way she thinks she should have in the first place.)
Ok, a dentist does not want to brush his teeth, a doctor never has his health checked, so on and so on... SEX is different. It is a major part of a relationship. For someone to use an analogy like that is wrong.
Marrying a pornstar has been my dream since the time I started watching porn in my teens !I hav always loved women who have no shame in doing all those nasty gangbang's and IR and DP's.So I will surely marry a pornstar if ever I get the chance !And will always support her job!
I'm not likely to ever marry, and less likely to marry an entertainer. I could imagine marrying someone who writes porn scripts or does other work in the porn industry.
Never ever out of love. It would crush me, seeing the person I love being banged (and sodomized) on TV. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't marry one though. When I'm 70, why not? If it's just for shits and giggles (as in "she's got more money than me, ergo I got nothing to lose"), fuck yeah! Plus the look on my wife's face would be priceless when I tell her that I want a divorce after 8 happy years to marry a pornstar. Somehow I think she wouldn't be too too surprised. Edited by - Drom on 3/30/2010 5:42:11 PM
I really don't think it would bother me. I would just look at it as my spouse's job. If you love someone and want to be with them, you have to accept them for who they are and what they do. I think I'd be capable of saying, "Yeah, I'm ok with that."
I would love to marry a porn star, but it wouldn't be just because she's a porn star. We'd have to have chemistry and dig a lot of the same things. I don't mind if she's had a lot of partners because I have too. If she was currently doing porn I would still date her, but I would encourage her to have an exit strategy and I would assist her anyway I could. I love bad girls and you don't get much badder than a porn star, so that would totally turn me on listening to her stories of the glory days on the porn sets. When you date a girl like that you also have to deal with the bad, a lot of them have serious issues and it requires a man with a lot of patience and love to be there for them. Like someone mentioned what if they don't want to have sex with you because their pussy is too sore from the gangbang earlier that day? I know I could handle it, cause I've dated a stripper/escort before and know it comes with the territory. Right now I think I want to marry Sierra Skye or Tori Black, call me ladies!
I'd rather marry a porn director who makes porn worth watching. No cameramen who can't shut the fuck up, equipment noises, shaky camerawork, pornspeak, etc. etc. etc. If she loves what she does and her love is apparent in the quality of her work, she does more for erotica than any ten pornstars.
That's would pretty much be my exact definition of hell!!! And btw... Guys, we need to quit sending mixed signals to the ladies. If you are a guy who loves some freaky sex, but turn around and say derogatory things about "sluts, I don't think you've thought your cunning plan all the way through. So to clarify for the ladies, yes we want a woman who is an ultra freaky entusiastic eager kinky passionate open mined creative depraved lustful nympho slut in the bedroom, we just don't want you to have intimate knowledge of half the guys in the phonebook. Ok? If she was the right woman... Not much would keep me from her. But I'm also rather possesive (in a good way ;)), so she would have to be an ex-pornstar. :)
I don't understand the contempt that some people have for pornstars. It's a job. They're performers. The person you marry wouldn't be the same person getting the shit fucked out of her by Manuel Ferrara. They are two separate people. Besides, women who aren't in the porn biz sleep with as many men, maybe even more, than pornstars do. There's a girl in my office, superhot admin asst., who fucks multiple men every week, and she loves to talk about it. Would I marry her? Fuck yes I would. She's hot, funny, and smart. So what if she's had lots of sex with many different men? Why is that a big deal? I don't understand.
Not a working porn star, no. An ex-porn star, maybe. It depends on so many things. Even though I'm a fan of porn and fascinated with porn culture, I have a lot of other interests that could mean that a girl with a background exclusively from porn wouldn't have too much in common with me. My private life is nothing at all like porn. Of course these things depend completely on the person, chemistry etc, but there could be some problems in that sense. And not to kid ourselves, the stigma is a factor regardless of your personal opinion. People around you WILL find out. You can bet your ass they will. Your children and their friends, their friend's parents, your/her doctor, government/health workers+++. There are no secrets anymore. Living with that has a cost. Whether that cost is big or small depends both on your attitude and your surroundings, but its always there.
I don't understand this contempt either, my ex-roommate is a huge UFC-MMA fan and has been for over ten years. He is very active in an online forum for MMA fans, its a popular one with many fighters who participate. Anyways the whole forum got in a big uproar when Tito Ortiz married Jenna Jameson, and he was ranting and raving about it. I'm like so what?? And he goes on how its hurting the image of the UFC and making it trashy and what not, and that Jenna was just after him for his money. He is also racist and went on about what a whore she is cause she did all these films getting gangbanged by black guys, I had to stop him there and ask where this film was cause I'd never seen it. :) I tried to tell him that Jenna is a lot richer than Tito, and told him the truth about her porn career and that she wasn't quite the interracial anal gangbang queen. And that he and those other forums were just jealous bitches, he got so mad at me and screaming in my face. Man it was just so personal.. and this is a guy who named his siamese cat Leiani after the asian porn star Leiani Lei! You can just cut the hipocracy with a knife sometimes. Somehow I think he'll have a problem when I marry a pornstar one day. :)
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Posted - Apr 6 2010 : 5:09AM
Without a doubt. I couldn't imagine anything better.
I think the real question should be whether or not you want your father to admit that he jerked off to your new wife's scene from "Too Many Dicks, One Chick".
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