Young girls into porn industry, good or bad?

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driedupfish Member 16 Posts 9/07	Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 3:10PM My college roommate/ best buddy just found out that his girlfriend had done porn videos with several amateur adult site. His girlfriend never mention this to him. He was kind of conservative, so knowing that his girlfriend fuck for money has made him feel really bad. Just makes me wonder if any of you guys would feel the same way or not care at all if you know that your girlfriend was a porn star? Also i wanna say something about interracial porn. one of his girlfriend's video was with this black guy. She starts by saying how she always dream of fucking a big black cock and that her white bf can not satisfy her with his wimpy dick. ..obviously she was made to say it..i mean if she has fantasy about black guy she would have dated one instead of my roommate. Is this sort of black empowerment in IR really necessary? These are some of the movie summaries that i found at, http://www.blacksonblondes.com/ which i found kind of offensive 1. Jasmine Tame might be the hottest piece of ass at Blacks On Blondes. And her white boy might be the dumbest. See, he's so pathetic he had to wear a mask while he watched his girl take on 2 big-dicked brothers. Could you handle watching your beautiful wife or girlfriend get violated by black men? If so, contact us! You can be just like Jasmine's boyfriend here...in a mask, jacking off all 5 inches while your gal gets plowed by massive dark dick. So big her pussy stretches to the point it never properly feel your penis again. And what would you do if the black men came in a bowl, and your wife ate it all up? Well, you'll be able to see what Jasmine's man does...and it's surprising, to say the least! 2. http://www.blacksonblondes.com/tourx/index.php?pg=6&nats=MTIwMDE6Mzoz,0,0,0,0 Bring out the cuckhold mask again! Time for another white couple to live out their naughtiest fantasy, and thanks to Blacks On Blondes for making it happen! Liv and Hubby have been married for a few years, and she wears her ring proudly. But lately the spark has left the bedroom, if you know what I mean. A few e-mails later, and we've got Hubby in a cage while Boz and Mandingo work Liv over. And when I say they work her over, we mean it. She takes so much black dick it amazed even us. The best part of this whole deal was the end: after Liv has about a gallon of cum all over her face and clothes, and grabs a plastic bowl - for Hubby to beat off in. He does, and his wad was weak, and Liv lets him know that. Then she demands a shower. Poor Hubby meekly walks to the bathroom to draw a hot shhttp://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/post.asp?method=Topic&forum_id=1&cat_id=1 Adult Movie and Porn Discussion Forumower for his hot wife. Oh, and don't forget to get her sexy schoolgirl skirt to the dry cleaners! It's a mess!! Doesn't some people get offended by this? Is like there is a subliminal message to it. It is like interracial porn has become some sort of race domination. It's always about big black cock on little white blonde or something along that line. I know that it is their strategy at marketing black/white porn, but i just find it kind of offending sometimes. Of course not all interracial porn are like this... just some . Edited by - driedupfish on Sep 22 2007 Edited by - driedupfish on Sep 22 2007 [Link]
Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02	Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 3:23PM Personally, I wouldn't care that much. However, I could see it causing problems with friends and family if word got out, which is more likely to happen if she had a significant porn career than if she just did a couple of scenes a few years back under an assumed name wearing lots of makeup and with a different haircolor. [Link]
caroline-NL Member 543 Posts 3/07	Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 3:40PM I had no problems morally, if my boyfriend/girlfriend would be playing in porn movies. Absolutely not. HIV is another aspect, but this fear is present in a normal relationship too. [Link]
BobArctor Member 276 Posts 4/06	Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 10:11PM G O O D [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 1:37AM I see driedupfish made the exact same post at EBI. Is this for your sociology class or something? [Link]

Christopher256 Member 146 Posts 8/05	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 1:46PM I'm a liberal, and if I loved her I'd probably get over it, but certainly I would rather know about it going in. I did date a stripper once and new about it going in and that was a good thing, even though it didn't last very long anyway. If you've been going out with someone a month and only then found out they were in the sex industry I can understand the shock no matter how open minded they are. As for interracial porn you need another whole new post to handel it. It would be an interesting discussion to have and you bring up good points. [Link]
_swede_ Deactivated User 579 Posts 4/05	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 2:06PM I think that girls should be 20 or more to start in porn, I think a mature body with curves is much sexier than looking at a teen girl [Link]
Jholmes Member 150 Posts 4/07	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 2:08PM Its not easy to handle emotionally but if you can get over it the + side is that she is probably a lot better in bed than the average girl & probably more liberal about 3 somes etc [Link]
studioline Member 303 Posts 8/07	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 3:49PM driedupfish, 1) Regarding girls who have some type of sex-work in their background: Sex for money is something that females have performed since the beginning of time. Is it in form of direct prostitution or pornography or interest-based-dating. we guys have to understand that we're not living in the 1950's anymore. Nowadays, girls are exposed to porn from a very early age. 'Mom is not cool, but Paris Hilton and her friends are very cool because they don't wear panties and they shoot films of themselves getting fucked by some boyfriend.' Now statistically speaking: With the emmense quantities of strip clubs, phone sex companies, brothels, massage parlors, erotic webcam sites, cybersex sites, exotic night clubs, arranged online dating organízations, porn studios, amateur porn studios, and the other forms of sex-work; it is very very likely that at least 2 or 3 of my previous girlfriends have performed some type of sex-work during a period of their lives for the extra money or to finance the car etc... 2) Regarding the big black cock issue: Some girls like a big black cock. Some girls like an average white cock. Some girls even like small cocks. This is really a matter of taste and what the girl prioritizes when choosing a dude to go out with, to marry, or to simply fuck. -- Edited by - studioline on 9/23/2007 5:53:09 PM [Link]
BigMatt Member Sunrise Adams, Queen of Cute. 498 Posts 12/04	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 4:46PM _swede_ wrote: I think that girls should be 20 or more to start in porn, I think a mature body with curves is much sexier than looking at a teen girl Click to expand I think 20, or 21, or 22 would be a wise limit. Not because of how they look, but because of maturity. I know some are very mature and convinced about what they want way before that, but I still think it would be a good thing if we look at the big picture. [Link]
eyeballs a bleeding Deactivated Again 181 Posts 9/07	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 6:01PM Young girls doing porn is a great thing. Esp, if they have braces on, shaved pussy and a few days older than 18. [Link]
tdb Member 270 Posts 9/04	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 7:53PM Great. [Link]
tritone Deactivated User 1009 Posts 4/03	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 8:08PM It is like interracial porn has become some sort of race domination. It's always about big black cock on little white blonde or something along that line. I know that it is their strategy at marketing black/white porn, but i just find it kind of offending sometimes. Of course not all interracial porn are like this... just some . Click to expand I am black and I am with you on this. I wish that IR porn marketing was not so full of this crap. All I want is to see BM/WF scenes without any of this "big dick domination" subtext. I mean if the guy has a big dick ... well he's got a big dick. Don't make it into some big statement about how all black guys are huge and have this natural ability to satisfy white women. The best IR scenes are the 1 on 1 pairings that just show hot sex between BF/WM with a minimum of the "oh...i love this big black cock" stuff. Like Gina Lynn/Lex in Gina Lynn's Darkside or the April/Mr. Marcus romp in New Breed #3. All this "once you go black" hype does is turn really naive starlets away from doing Interracial scenes because it builds IR up as crossing some HUGE barrier (like anal or DP) when all it really has to be is just good sex with a guy who happens to be black. So instead of picking and choosing the "right" kind of IR scenes, they just say the hell with it all together. Edited by - tritone on 9/23/2007 8:09:40 PM [Link]
cassidy essence Member Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain 140 Posts 6/07	Posted - Sep 23 2007 : 10:21PM OMG [o\\|] stupid. ROCK on young ones!! its a once in a life time chance. Be young and sexual all your heart can handle! PORN POWERS 18yr olds!! and i once again i tip my hat to the power of those young sexual girls, that LOVE their job! .::.Cassidy Essence.::. [Link]
elgringoviejo58 Senior Member 1460 Posts 1/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 12:26AM Cassidy Essence rocks! Eighteen, nineteen, and twenty year old women are old enough to decide to do porn, and some of them like Cassidy, Micah Moore, Katerina McKenna, McKenzie Miles, and I am sure many others who don't come to my mind right now, make great and sexy contributions to porn. [Link]

Jholmes Member 150 Posts 4/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 2:14AM Edited by - Jholmes on 9/24/2007 2:15:21 AM [Link]
Gabriela Rossi Member 29 Posts 9/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 2:16AM Hi Driedupfish, Regarding the skeletons in the closet of said roommate's girlfriend . . . Don't be so quick to judge. I went through the denial/omittance stage she's experiencing. Then I realized that a man's sexual past would never mean much to me, so why should it matter so much to him? Sex work is just that: WORK. We performers put on a show and act out fantasies so that people at home can live vicariously through us. Tell your roommate to focus on his girlfriend's character, loyalty, reliability, and kindness as opposed to how many blow jobs she's given and her reasons for doing so! Lots of xxx, Gabby [Link]
realtip Deactivated User 2301 Posts 6/04	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 3:22AM I can understand why the guy's girlfriend doing porn would bother him. However, it might also be possible that he is not so much bothered by her doing porn as he is by the fact that she kept it secret from him. A person who keeps that type of secret from his/her partner doesn't exactly seem like the type of person to build a trusting relationship with. Gabriela Rossi wrote: Tell your roommate to focus on his girlfriend's character, loyalty, reliability, and kindness as opposed to how many blow jobs she's given and her reasons for doing so! Click to expand That's just the thing. The fact that she kept her porn job a secret doesn't speak well of her "character, loyalty, reliability, and kindness" to her boyfriend. Plus, loyalty and reliability don't exactly match up with giving other guys blowjobs. Basically, whoever this person is, she sounds conniving and unfaithful, and he's probably better off wishing her well and leaving her alone rather than trying to build any type of serious relationship with this chick. [Link]
Jholmes Member 150 Posts 4/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 3:36AM Theres a difference between if she did it in the past and if she is still doing it and never told him. If she did it in the past & never said anything, its definately and emotional bump but dating an ex porn girl can be cool If she is still doing it and never told him, thats quite another deal and a lot harder to overlook Which one is it ? [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 5:34AM tritone wrote: I wish that IR porn marketing was not so full of this crap. Click to expand It seems to me that the only difference from non-IR porn marketing is in the nature of the crap. [Link]
eyeballs a bleeding Deactivated Again 181 Posts 9/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 1:34PM If she values her relationship with the guy, she should come clean. It'll be only a matter of time before she is recognized, whether it be one day, one month, or one year. Just ask Toni James. Someone, somewhere is going to make a comment. It's better to hear it from the horse's mouth than some horse's ass. [Link]
Jholmes Member 150 Posts 4/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 1:40PM tell your friend to keep in mind that emotions are extremely temporary things and that if he loves her and the sex is good and she is not lying to him that things can be worked out [Link]
studioline Member 303 Posts 8/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 1:44PM Believe it or not guys but many porn girls, strip girls, escort girls, cybersex girls, and phonesex girls are ending up with very cool and successful men. -- Edited by - studioline on 9/24/2007 1:45:51 PM [Link]
studioline Member 303 Posts 8/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 1:55PM Jholmes wrote: Theres a difference between if she did it in the past and if she is still doing it and never told him. If she did it in the past & never said anything, its definately and emotional bump but dating an ex porn girl can be cool If she is still doing it and never told him, thats quite another deal and a lot harder to overlook Which one is it ? Click to expand VERY GOOD POINT [Link]
studioline Member 303 Posts 8/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 1:55PM 1) Believe it or not guys but many porn girls, strip girls, escort girls, cybersex girls, and phonesex girls are ending up with very cool and successful men. 2) And like I elaborated here above, trust me there is a relatively high percentage of girls who do or have done one or more type of sex-work during their lives. When I was in high school, I noticed that a very smart female class mate of mine was doing the phone-sex work everyday after school to finance her college, she also did some escort work. She is now a very powerful prosecutor. -- Edited by - studioline on 9/24/2007 1:56:55 PM [Link]

Gabriela Rossi Member 29 Posts 9/07	Posted - Sep 24 2007 : 2:17PM Yes, let's all chastise this woman for not coming clean with THE secret that's sooooooo easy to divulge. And let's all allow men to keep their past sexual adventures under wraps. Am I the only one noticing the double standard here? How long did it take for all of you men out there to reveal to a new girlfriend all the days and nights spent at massage parlors, gentlemen's club, or in the company of escorts? Unfortunately, in this country, sex is still considered a taboo. Most people are hesitant to reveal all the juicy details of their sexual history for fear of being rejected. Driedupfish's roommate needs to undertand his girlfriend's motivations before attempting to label her as "conniving and unfaithful." [Link]
elgringoviejo58 Senior Member 1460 Posts 1/07	Posted - Sep 25 2007 : 11:24PM Gabriela Rossi rocks. I love to see young women stand up for their rights and challenge hypocritical social conventions. [Link]
greenhouse Deactivated User 138 Posts 1/07	Posted - Oct 7 2007 : 3:23AM I'm in my thirties now and when I look back at when I was 18 I see a MAN who had ALL of his shit together. All 18 year olds have EXCELLENT decision making skills. I mean, c'mon...they have had 18 whole years of life experiences! [Link]
Shagdog Member Houston 626 Posts 1/07	Posted - Oct 7 2007 : 8:01PM And the search continues for the purist female virgin in the land. One so pure she’s never seen another mans penis. Our society has never allowed women sexual freedom. Our society has never allowed women to say I’m not in love, I don’t want to get married to him/her I just want to fuck. Men have long had that right. Prim and proper wives weren’t supposed to even like sex. And only tolerated it to bared her husbands children. Men went to prostitutes so as not to bother their prim and proper wives. I think porn and the Internet is allowing women to explore sex in private. More and more women are demanding their rights to fuck whom and when they want to. I think you will hear more girls like Cassidy saying I like to fuck and I'm going too. I think porn and the Internet will create a sex positive society. Young girls and young men entering is a good thing. [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Oct 7 2007 : 8:58PM The only thing I see there that would anger me would be that (if I had a GF) I would prefer that she discussed it with me before just running off and doing it or at least let me know she was doing it. I probably wouldn't leave her unless we were having other issues. All the other stuff has been talked out beyond all reason and it comes down to some folks thinking you're not old enough to do porn until you're 40 and others thinking if you can fight a war, you can fuck on camera. [Link]
Dick Froth Member 293 Posts 11/05	Posted - Oct 8 2007 : 3:51AM I agree sometimes the way some IR scenes are summarized is a little silly but it doesn't change that fact that IR stuff rocks. Not just any girl can take a DP from a bunch of hung black dudes. It definitely takes experience and talent! As far as young girls getting into porn it's great! More power to them. No matter what anyone says porn is a young lady's game. As far as dating a girl who has done porn it would not bother me unless I found out on my own. It's the principle of her keeping it a secret. It's one thing if she doesn't want to tell me that she slept with some of her teachers to get through high school but at least have the decency to tell me you did porn so that I don't look like a fool. Other than that it doesn't bother me. Believe me. One of my most serious relationships involved a very slutty (but drop dead gorgeous) girl that slept around on me. But we had a very open relationship and she told me everytime she slept with another guy(this is back in high school so we were young and extremely horny LOL) Sure I had to squeeze it out of her but that didn't bother me unless I found out from another friend that she slept with another guy and didn't tell me. She would wonder why I would get upset if I found out she fucked some dude through someone else but not if she told me herself. She never really understood that it's the principle of finding out through someone else and her not telling me straight forward. This is what lead to our break up. I found out she fucked two of my closest friends at the same time while I slept in the other room. I found out through my friend's sister. I looked like a fucking fool in front of my own friends. [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:12PM If he found out about something she did before they started dating he has absolutely no right to be upset! I agree with those who said this is a big double standard. If on the other hand she did it after they started dating, I still don't think he has any right to stop her, but if she wants a relationship she has to be forthcoming. The same would go with respect to him if he did something after the relationship had began. [Link]
tittysucker86 Deactivated User florida 218 Posts 2/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:32PM I agree with swede. more mature girls are physically sexier. Tiffany mynx is sexier in her thirties, than she was ten years ago. [Link]
Irish Caraway Member I like to fist girls. 274 Posts 7/05	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:32PM I/R marketing is just as tasteless as the race baiting that predates it by 200+ years. Besmirching performers and producers for not doing I/R is just as as distateful. It's a double standard just the same as wanting to watch DAPs and gangbangs, but refusing to having anything to do anything with who would do one. I have to wonder- when you are jacking off are you thinking, "Man, I would love to fuck her and then shun her publicly!" BTW- young girls - good Remember all of this is just fantasy and none of it really happened. Film at Eleven, Irish Caraway Edited by - Irish Caraway on 3/1/2008 1:34:30 PM Edited by - Irish Caraway on 3/1/2008 1:36:35 PM [Link]
Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 2:22PM Gabriela Rossi wrote: Yes, let's all chastise this woman for not coming clean with THE secret that's sooooooo easy to divulge. And let's all allow men to keep their past sexual adventures under wraps. Am I the only one noticing the double standard here? Click to expand Yes, because it's non-existent. Nobody raised a subject of a man who had a sexwork past. We're talking about an ex-porn woman here. I know you mean to say it shouldn't matter whether the person was male or female, butt society doesn't accept that yet. From my experience, women demand to know every little detail of my past relationships, who they were, how long, how many times, did I love her, all that shite. Conversely, the women won't tell me jack shit because "women are supposed to have secrets". Is that a double standard? I think society will not accept women as sexually free as men until women are buying sex in the same way as men do. At the moment, bought sex involves men's wallets almost exclusively. Women are doing the selling. Society doesn't view men and women as equals on sexual terms because women still hold the hoops that men must jump through. Women want it both ways. [Link]

Draxxx Senior Member 3831 Posts 2/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 3:00PM The first post doesn't mention how long the guy has been with this girl so it's very possible that she would've eventually mentioned this. Perhaps she feels the relationship isn't at the point she feels this is something she neeeds to devulge. Perhaps she feels that he'll over-react to the whole thing and is waiting for the relationship to become stronger before bringing this in. The whole IR thing is something I'll never understand how so many people get so worked up by. The whole "Big black cock" thing is just playing off a fantasy/fetish as most porn does. Yes, there are some girls who fantasize about banging a black guy and the "big black cock" aspect plays a part. There are plenty of "big whitecock" movies out there that no one seems to mind. It seems to me that almost every type of movie starring black males has a white male counterpart where whites male pornstars do the same thing. There are perhaps a couple of lines that may perhaps push the whole black thing a bit too much but those movies are an exception and not reflective of most IR movies or scenes. [Link]
Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 4:40PM I'm not sure what the crew at blacksonblondes.com is trying to prove, other than they must have an ulterior motive or believe their audience does. Any IR porn I watch, the chicks seem to be either in pain or they're not taking it all. What chick would be satisfied by that? [Link]