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| cantgetlaid Member 93 Posts 1/10 |  Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 9:45AMi hate to partake in schadenfreude, but i feel so alone probably being the only guy on earth who doesn't get laid. how common is this? [Link] |
| David Cop-a-feel Deactivated User Trust me, honey, it gets better 323 Posts 10/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 3:13PM [Link] |
Goldstein  All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 4:33PM Edited by - Goldstein on 9/18/2011 10:42:52 PM [Link] |
| Tug3005 Senior Member 1152 Posts 12/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 5:51PM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 6:10PM [Link] |
| cantgetlaid Member 93 Posts 1/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 9:48PM [Link] |
| cantgetlaid Member 93 Posts 1/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 9:52PM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 10:16PM Cause if it's not you, it's them sooooooo what kinda chicks are you dating? [Link] |
| trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Sep 10 2011 : 10:19PM Bummer to be a guy and you can't get laid. Aren't too many girls who can't get laid if they really want to. Sad but true. [Link] |
| kilo619 Member 7 Posts 7/09 | Posted - Sep 11 2011 : 1:58AM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Sep 11 2011 : 3:48AM Women love to be loved, they love to be needed, but there's a difference between needing and needy. If you want to be attractive to women then you have to be confident in your self, in your ability to make it on your own. Then your need is that of an equal, not of a supplicant. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 11 2011 : 5:07PM And I think the same kinda goes for men too. No man wants some clingy chick stuck up his ass either. When I was dating I actually liked the "nice guys" as long as they had just enough badness to keep me on my toes. [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Sep 11 2011 : 8:02PM [Link] |
| Michaelxavier Member Women, wine and song...there is nothing better. 152 Posts 7/11 | Posted - Sep 12 2011 : 12:46AM GGG Models archive at Pornstarchive - Work in progress! [Link] |
| Aplus Senior Member 1431 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Sep 12 2011 : 12:59AM [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Sep 15 2011 : 8:41AM [Link] |
| BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Sep 15 2011 : 11:57PM [Link] |
| RedDevil87 Senior Member 1044 Posts 4/11 | Posted - Sep 17 2011 : 8:29PM I'm more focused on a relationship but that ain't happenin. [Link] |
| amadeo Member 63 Posts 7/11 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 8:36AM :) [Link] |
| Gentleman Jon All-Star Member 1881 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 10:49AM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 1:30PM Odds are that life is going to knock you on your ass some time or other. Are you going to lay there crying or are you going to get back up and fight? That's what a woman wants to know, and the way she'll know it is by the confidence that you exude. It has nothing to do with your success rate with women. It has everything to do with your view of yourself. Edited by - hardware on 9/18/2011 1:31:48 PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 1:47PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 1:50PM When you have a problem you can't change and no amount of trying is going to make a damn bit of difference, learn to deal with it. The best coping mechanism for this particular problem is to realize that you're not missing much anyway. At best you will achieve a monogamous relationship with someone who won't cheat on you. At worst, you'll be constantly worried about STDs because that last person you fucked seemed ever so slightly unhealthy and you're having some weird symptoms. Masturbation is your friend. I'm not Joycelyn Elders either so stop looking at me like that. Edited by - randomprecision on 9/18/2011 1:51:53 PM [Link] |
| Dubious_Leftovers Senior Member And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me... 1423 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 9:33PM Make something. Find something to feel proud of. Take pride in that AND yourself for doing it. Take a dance class. Interact. Take up martial arts. Take control over your own body, feel the endorphins kick in and feel the newfound confidence flow. All of that, and not one mention of getting laid... Self improvement comes first. Confidence follows with that. [Link] |
| amadeo Member 63 Posts 7/11 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 2:38AM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 8:53AM Chicks don't like that either. Edited by - sexshopgrl on 9/19/2011 8:53:42 AM [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 9:07PM [Link] |
| jackthetreacleeater Senior Member Shame on you! 2003 Posts 10/06 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 9:25PM Give the laides what they need and you'll get laid, simple. Nothing says romance like anal sex. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 10:08PM I for one did not marry for money. Matter of fact I made better money than Mr.Sexshop when we first started living together. I got with him because I already knew him for years as a good, loyal, trustworthy man who would never intentionally hurt me. It didn't hurt that he was a great kisser, funny as hell, and would bend over backwards to please me if I asked...............my parents HATED him. [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Sep 19 2011 : 10:08PM [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 2:52AM [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 3:06AM I mean, didn't they at least have mothers, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, and nieces who cared about them as . . . human beings? [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 3:26AM [Link] |
| Cody McLarge Senior Member 2668 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 5:05AM [Link] |
| amadeo Member 63 Posts 7/11 | Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 5:19AM If all else is equal though, success and material wealth are common deciding factors for women, both long and short term. It's no different than when you meet two women with roughly the same looks, education, level of success in life that you'd probably go for the one that has a better sense of humor or is more playful, etc. IMO folks who are quick to discount one or the other likely lack one or the other 'factors' themselves. :) [Link] |
| Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Sep 21 2011 : 8:37AM [Link] |
| cantgetlaid Member 93 Posts 1/10 | Posted - Oct 2 2011 : 2:10PM Just a reminder, it takes a lot more for a guy to get laid than just having a pulse and leaving home. I know good looking guys, who have good jobs, are highly educated, who can't get laid to save their lives. I don't know ANY woman like that. Event he "world's fattest mom" can get laid at will. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Oct 2 2011 : 10:30PM [Link] |
| trout bum Deactivated User "I'm Not Here To Suck My Own Cock!" 2145 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Oct 3 2011 : 12:34AM No One time I got laid that almost cost me my life. "Honey I'm home." [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Oct 3 2011 : 2:37AM [Link] |
| perve Member 22 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Nov 12 2011 : 6:03AM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Nov 12 2011 : 7:18AM [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Nov 15 2011 : 6:59AM With big complicated subjects like this, it's sometimes easier for me to write in list form, so that's what I'm going to do. 1) Think about how important it is to you to bring women into your life. Do you like women? Do you like talking to them or do you just like looking at them? Do you enjoy their company? Do you like it when they flirt with you? Do you know what flirting feels like? In other words, is it just the sex you are missing or is it the larger aspect of having women in your life that you are missing? 2) If the answer to #1 above is that you basically just kind of miss the sex, consider investing some of your income in escorts. If you are interested in actually meeting them and getting to know them, then move on to #3. 3) Develop a realistic understanding of female psychology and what women want in a man. This is a huge topic on it's own and of course every woman is different. That said, there are some common themes that always come up. Confidence is huge. Being a nice guy isn't. Nice guys are pushovers and women don't like that. They want a man that knows what he's about and has standards. Conversational skills are big. Do you know HOW to talk to women? Having an active social life is big. There is a concept called social proof that you should read up about, along with a related concept called preselection. Being in good shape is better than not being in good shape because physical fitness is a health indicator that women select for. Being good looking helps, but not that much. Women are more particular than men are in their selection criteria. There is a lot more to this subject. 4) Become more active and start putting some work into becoming more attractive. Join a crossfit gym or get onto a real strength training program involving free weights, but definitely stop fucking around on the elliptical. Get some nice clothes, something along the lines of two pairs of cool jeans that fit, 1 pair of nice shoes, some nice shirts and maybe a sport coat or leather jacket. Get a better haircut (read reviews in Yelp to find the best places for male haircuts in your area). Join some meetup groups and start going out more. Work on your conversational skills. If you are super-shy, think about joining a local Toastmasters club. You might consider something like Events and Adventures as well. Get some good pictures taken and sign up on some online dating sites. Also, consider getting some help with your profile. Date more. 5) If you haven't done much of it, consider traveling. Traveling gives you experience and can help make you more confident, well-rounded, and interesting. 6) Make sure you have realistic standards. If you're pushing 40 and you're short, fat, balding, unsuccessful in your career, and don't have anything interesting to say, you're unlikely to attract a 21-year old hottie. That's just life. But, if you start working on those variables, you can systematically improve the quality of women that will be in your league. 7) Don't try to do everything at once. Look for low-hanging fruit such as getting the better clothes and haircut, and do those things first. Just looking better will improve your confidence in yourself and will help move the other stuff forward. Understand that improving your life is a process that will take time. 8) If you decide to look into the pickup community, be very careful. There's a lot of material out there that people will try to sell you. Some of these guys are okay, but even the ones that are good make huge promises that they simply can't deliver on. There's really a ton of marketing hype. If you want some of the basic material, send me an email through the forum and I can email you some stuff to read. [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Nov 15 2011 : 2:35PM Travel to some third world country and young women there will instantly find you extremely attractive! Edited by - Joey Starr on 11/15/2011 2:35:38 PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 3:08AM they dont even consider women who arent exactly what they are into whereas my tastes are more broad and my standards more realistic ( i find curvy chicks sexy whereas all the guys i know only go petite/thin women) so im getting sex a LOT more than them maybe people who complain they dont get much sex have their sights set too high? im nothing special and get sex pretty easily [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 3:49AM [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 3:58AM Edited by - BlackSix on 11/17/2011 3:59:51 AM [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 6:01AM Also, you are right about the passive-aggressive so-called nice guys. Honestly, those dudes really aren't nice at all. Confidence seems to be the number one thing. The more confident you are as a man in who you are and what you are about, the more women, and people in general, will be attracted to you. When you radiate a sense of confidence, you are communicating power and strength, traits that make other men want to be your friend and make women want to blow you  (and some men want to blow you too).Badboy, assholish behavior is at the extreme end of the confidence scale. Yes, these men can be attractive because women key in on their confidence and dominance. Some women are irresistibly drawn to these types of men. I compare it to guys that are only into a particular type of woman, like say asians or ones with huge boobs. Whatever the trigger is, for some guys, they are drawn to that particular trait because their brains scream out to them that this is the ideal of what a woman should be. I have a friend, for instance, that has a real thing for black chicks. He sees those asses and, to him, it seems like the ideal of what a woman should look like. [Link] |
| Gentleman Jon All-Star Member 1881 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 10:43PM [Link] |
| editorbb Member 363 Posts 7/10 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 11:23PM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Nov 18 2011 : 12:43AM [Link] |
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