I guess it just depends from person to person, but the guy gets the crappy end of the stick in that situation. A 7-10 woman who is "waiting" for her perfect man can get that sexual itch scratched when ever she wants but for the same guy he will be nutting into a paper towel unless he wants to regularly be shelling out 100$ for each sexual encounter. I guess for some guys its worth it. What exactly does she need to have "going on for her" if she treats her man like a king? 9 years of nutting into a rag, not my idea of life well spent.
Whether or not I'm a 7-10, or willing to do kinky sex, is certainly a matter of dispute - that's a subjective topic. So I won't bother to go there. Basically, my man hit the lotto jackpot 20 years ago but lost his fortune to bad luck and mismanagement, played a few different numbers for a few years and didn't like the little prizes, so he went back to playing the number he hit it big with and had to wait for it to come up again. The only thing he regrets about the years with no prizes is that he shouldn't have lost the jackpot in the first place. "Treating her man like a king" is probably also subjective, but the only thing you've mentioned repeatedly is giving the guy his desired sex acts. My guy doesn't have an incredibly high sex drive. He didn't when we were in our 20s, either. For him a relationship has to a whole lot more going on in it to be satisfying and worth the effort. Breeze said pretty much the same thing, sans the sex drive part. There is more to life than sex.
Absolutely. Achieving sexual satisfaction simply allows other elements of life to take priority. This is why guys are told not to think with their little head - it can only end up badly.
Yea I guess every individual and couple are different. It sucks he dumped you and that he was the one to make the mistake (at least thats what im guessing based on what you posted), but 9 years you would have been a distant memory if it were me, thats almost 1/7 of an average life expectancy. If he is a boarder line eunch then I can see that happening.
We're still arguing over who was dumped. We both had problems and are both to blame for what happened. I was no angel and he was a jerk. It was also just really bad timing, he asked me to marry him much too soon (within a year) of my divorce and he has never really understood just how much my ex-husband damaged me. I was terrified of the very idea of marriage at that point - only being able to relate it to the prison I'd been in for the previous decade. I doubt that most people forget their "one true love" after 9 years... I don't think most of us ever forget, even when we try.
^ The way back machine in the back of my head seems to remember Kimi being a pretty darn good cook, so maybe one shouldn't blame somebody for trying to put her back in the kitchen... "I do not as a rule seek advice about food from thin people..." - Jeffrey Steingarten
^ That is a smoking hot picture! You are a woman with style. That you for the picture post. What is your favorite food to bake, Kimi? Edited by - Steve Smith on 6/5/2012 1:46:25 PM
Ok, so are you happily married? I am just mildly curious. No offense to anybody. Kimi, you are hot and I should update my avatar. Simply getting laid can't be the basis of this thread, if all you want to do is get laid you can. I am guessing the OP wants more than "getting laid."
Perhaps not but the 9 years of no or few sexual encounters is the 500 lb gorilla in the room. I simply could not do it and would lower my standards until I found a submissive freak in the sheets.
A woman may be a smokin hot super model but if she wont passionatly stick her tongue deep in her mans anus and swallow at the end with a smile then the looks are not really relavent.
^Um...maybe not to you they're not. I can bet some other guy out there who doesn't give two shits if his girl rims him or swallows his load is getting laid tonight.
The statistical likely hood is indeed quite high lol. Although I am married and have been for 4 years and my wife does that for me almost every night, so I have taken my own advice. They are certianly mind blowing sex acts that can not be made up for with looks. Behavior is everything, looks are ok but if the right behavior is not there then its really not worth it.
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Posted - Jun 9 2012 : 11:24AM
Anybody know any nymphomaniacs in the northeast? I can't stand it anymore. I need to end my dry spell. Hell I'd drive to Minnesota for some Scandinavian nympho. Edited by - BYOB_Kenobi on 6/9/2012 11:33:51 AM
Hop on craigslist and look for women without pics or women that are very clearly heavier set but still cute (like 5-6 cute). Make sure you are explicit in what you want to do in bed and make sure she is a super sweet heart. These are your real every day women who also make great marriage material and whom most guys ignore in search of these thinner 7-10's.
I'm down for a lot of things, but rimming a guy is not one of them. And that, IMHO, is asking way too much of a person. "I would do anything for love, but I won't do that" -Meatloaf
I agree looking for less conventionally attractive women who are kind-hearted yet sexually adventurous is the most under appreciated dating pool but is craigslist the best place to start? I'm honestly asking. I mostly know craigslist by its negative reputation. Do yo know people who have met good matches on there?
I met my wife there, what I described was my real life story. I am trying to convince a friend of mine this but he is pushing hard for the 7-10's that every guy and their brother is looking for so he will be single for quite a long time, most likely several years to come. I found my wife on craigslist in late 2008 so I dont know if it has denigrated since then but it was great then, they had separate sections for the sketchy stuff and a section for lagitimate dating and people followed it for the most part, there may have been occasional moderation too but im not sure. Though finding a woman into rimming was a challenge but WELL worth it, once you have had a good rim job there is no going back.
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he marries her then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Sax solo Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Disclaimer: I think my wife is beautiful. :)
Pretty women make good wives, too. I certainly don't make my man look small. I cook, clean, sew, garden, decorate, work outside the home, and I fuck like a goddess.
If you can't get laid, listen to The Tom Leykis Show. He'll teach you how to treat women like shit and get pussy from them. I have always treated girls pretty poorly and I've had my share of gash! Girls say they want a nice guy but in reality that's the dudes they take advantage of. Disclaimer:Yes there is exceptions to the rule!
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There is some truth here. Not all girls, but many do get off on guys that treat them like shit. The key aspect of that is that these guys aren't needy. Neediness is the death knell of attraction, especially with hotter girls. The hotter and more feminine a girl is, the more likely she is looking for a man with a strong, masculine, non-needy presence. At the extreme end of this, you have women that only get turned on by extreme assholes. It's weird, I know.
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