This thread is also helpful. It seems many women (and men) don't 'get their engines started' until after the sexual contact commences. Sex-Starved Marriage link. This book looks fabulous. Many causes of low sex drive are addressed. The book is available at amazon.com for $16.80 and is eligible for free shipping.
I don't know if there is a quick fix - there are a lot of possible reasons for a low libido - but if you are motivated to read the links, learn new skills, and try a few things, there's potential for improvement.


