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jimbo48
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21 Posts
5/07
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 10:43AM
I recently started going out with new women , and we've had sex quite a bit . Wel i've been trying to convince her to engage in some anal sex but she says its off limits . When i'm fucking her from behind i sware that that asshole has been fucked before just the way it looks could i be right ?
Hardware All-Star Supporter
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Your other left
14594 Posts
3/02
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 12:16PM
I fail to see why it matters. As numerous courts have upheld time and again, no means no.
OK, you can turn a no into a yes, but you aren't going to get anywhere by coercion, and if you persuade her when she doesn't really want to your relationship will suffer the consequences.
Edited by - hardware on 11/13/2009 12:17:56 PM
jimbo48
Member

21 Posts
5/07
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 12:39PM
thats not the issue . She said she's never done and doesn't plan on doing it
Hardware All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

Your other left
14594 Posts
3/02
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 1:19PM
So, you are concerned that she's lying about it? If so, why?
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 2:14PM
Why would you "sware" that? Just curious.
 
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 6:30PM
I am also curious.
stinkfist
Senior Member

Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 7:20PM
What does her asshole look like,has it changed appearance..have you noticed certain things like it not coming home for hours on end with no explanation whatsoever,is it staying in the bathroom longer and longer.Is it more withdrawn and secretive.
Dubious_Leftovers
Senior Member

And on that fateful day, the hatred consumed me...
1423 Posts
3/09
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 8:22PM
Does it have a little sign on it, giving dates and times when things were inserted?
Endorphin
Luminary

1185 Posts
3/00
Posted - Nov 13 2009 : 9:16PM
How about a tattoo that says "Rocco was here"?
jimbo, don't mind me. I just had to make a joke.
BSD
Senior Member

San Diego, CA
2508 Posts
11/03
Posted - Nov 14 2009 : 9:10AM
JIMBO48 -
Maybe she had a recent dietary adjustment. Increased her roughage. Caused that pipe and opening to distend and distort.
colonblow3.jpg
BSD
P.S. -
Mine gets that way after a good spaghetti and meatballs evacuation. Feels like a football passed through that tube. Probably looks like I did 12-15 at "pound me in the ass prison".
Smile.
HeyNow All-Star Supporter
Oblivious

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5965 Posts
1/03
Posted - Nov 14 2009 : 11:50AM
Like it's been mentioned before, you have to figure she's been pooping out of it for 15+ years (or however old she is) and those logs can stretch ya out!
Another hilarious BSD post. Haven't gotten it that good on the subject (and this isn't really a topic appropriate for sex talk) since The Great Interstate 25 Rest Stop Disaster.
Clam Digger
Deactivated User

Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good.
2268 Posts
1/05
Posted - Nov 14 2009 : 4:22PM
Maybe its a birth defect.
kantabcd
Deactivated User

167 Posts
5/09
Posted - Nov 18 2009 : 4:07PM

Edited by - kantabcd on 2/14/2010 1:06:46 PM
BYOB_Kenobi
Senior Member

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard
2684 Posts
8/09
Posted - Nov 18 2009 : 5:56PM

I thought I saw this in a movie once (one of those teen movies).
Ivory
Sex Object by Proxy

"We all want our time in Hell."
647 Posts
8/04
Posted - Nov 18 2009 : 7:05PM
^ It was an SNL commercial parody starring the late, great Phil Hartman.
 
Ivory
Sex Object by Proxy

"We all want our time in Hell."
647 Posts
8/04
Posted - Nov 18 2009 : 7:07PM
Oh yeah, and as to the OP, no, you can't tell if someone's had anal sex by looking at her asshole! Are you daft?
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Nov 18 2009 : 10:19PM
I suspect that wishful/magical thinking is the culprit -- something along these lines:
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Nov 22 2009 : 7:01AM
If it's really that important to you, find someone else. It's pretty useless to start a relationship with someone who will never satisfy you.
SunShowers
Member

333 Posts
4/08
Posted - Nov 23 2009 : 3:05PM
It doesn't matter what her ass looks like or what you want, she said no. It's easy for men to ask for anal or convince themselves that it's a harmless thing to do, but she's at the receiving end. It's not something most women want to participate in, so quit bugging her. If you want it that much, you'll have to actively seek out someone who wants it too. Leave her alone and enjoy the fact that you get to fuck her, period.
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 12:50AM
I still can't work out if he's fucking one woman or many women.
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
Doctor of the Erotic Arts

7238 Posts
1/09
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 11:55AM
Yeah, plus an extra thought of "She *should* let me fuck her in the ass if she let someone else do it."
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 3:00PM
^^^
Can't be too hard on the guy, though. It's not as if he acted upon his wish, he just reified it. I've done the same thing myself, only with slightly different subject matter.
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
Doctor of the Erotic Arts

7238 Posts
1/09
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 4:21PM
^ Right - I never said he did, nor am I being hard on him - it's all there in his comment, and I never said he was going to force anyone to do anything.
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 5:04PM
^^^
I know. I'm speaking as much to myself as to anyone else.
ADT44
Member

876 Posts
7/09
Posted - Nov 24 2009 : 7:23PM
Maybe she just dropped some big ol' turds in the toilet bowl right before you guys had sex; hence the "stretchy" look of her A-hole
 
BYOB_Kenobi
Senior Member

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard
2684 Posts
8/09
Posted - Nov 25 2009 : 9:42AM
Oh god. Not another, "No means yes."
Edited by - BYOB_Kenobi on 11/25/2009 9:45:12 AM
soragesum
Member

78 Posts
3/10
Posted - Mar 17 2010 : 5:07PM
I doubt there is going to be any visual indication if she hashad anal sex or not before.
But the bigger point is, if it's something you really love... Don't settle for a woman who either won't do it, or will only do it as if it's a choore with all the excitement of doing the dishes.
I mean.. I'm not into watersports, but if I was with a woman and found out she would turn into a fieball of lust by me peeing on her, I would learn to love it in a heartbeat and start drinking water by the 55 gallon drum.
Guys... As a whole.. Quit putting up with women that won't stretch their boundaries, who have a million and one things they will never try, and generally think that just because she's having plain old vanilla sex with you that you should be fine with that.
/of course I'm one kinky SOB with an infathomable sex drive. ;)
Edited by - soragesum on 3/17/2010 5:12:27 PM
Jonny Jay All-Star Supporter
Outlier Moderator

5990 Posts
8/09
Posted - Mar 17 2010 : 5:52PM
Did she have a mirror in her ass?
seedfeeder
Member

My balls are full, who's hungry?
716 Posts
4/09
Posted - Mar 19 2010 : 5:43PM
Does her asshole smell like cum? that would be a good indicator.
But I think the real issue is how to get INTO her ass.... may I suggest some alcohol?
Ernst2005
New Member

1 Posts
3/10
Posted - Mar 22 2010 : 10:59AM

It is easy to judge from the asshole, if she has been penetrated before.
Loraine
Senior Member

1559 Posts
3/04
Posted - Mar 22 2010 : 8:09PM
^If you ask the asshole he'll tell you?



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