I want to be careful how I say this, but, YES, it makes a difference. How can I put this? Really huge hurts a little but feels truly outstanding (it's the girth, not the length). It is completely memorable and excellent. The pleasure totally overwhelms the bit of pain. Ecstasy! Sorry.
But it is completely unnecessary. 6" can make for sex that's as good or better, depending on the guy. I would not have wanted to take the big guy in the ass, but 6" is painless. 6" is easy to suck, and he gets the whole length done right. There's probably a reason why 6" is the standard size. And it won't tear away at me and make me sore. The standard size works fine. If I was a guy, I'd order maybe an 8" cock, but 6" is totally fine. Bigger can be a problem. Really!
But 2", I don't know about. No experience there. Realistically, I wouldn't expect 2" to be as good. I can't say it wouldn't be good, or excellent even. Maybe.
Let's hear from some other women, because I gotta have the dick. I keep thinking when I'm old and widowed and there's 20 women for every guy, it makes sense to just do other women, but I gotta have the dick. I really don't know about 2".
I would say that size does matter. You can't go probing people with a 2" dick, I mean in all honesty your going to get laughed at. (very cruel, but unfortunately thats life) Though saying that, I'm sure there will be ladies who won't laugh and will make a go at it, though I think they would be relying on that person to be exceptionally good at giving head, and I'm sure a vibrator will come into play somewhere alonmg the line.
I personally wouldn't know, as I have neither a micro-cock or a monstrosity. But I hope that I am good with either my cocka-doodle-do or my tonguarelly. I have had no complaints thus far, but theres always a first!!
would a woman even dare to make a comment about it to a partner who was too small? other than that, there's really no way of knowing for a guy. ironically, almost all my life i thought i was small - about 3" limp, longer than 6 erect. it just looked so short to me - how would i know? a. i didn't go around comparing it to others, b. this isn't something guys really talk about with their friends and c. watching porn definitely does not help.
so to the women out there what would you do if your partner was just too small and it was affecting your sexual enjoyment?
I think women are the same way about their tits, or their hips, or their legs. Y'know ... the grass is always greener (or the ass is always leaner ...). I have gathered, over time, that all-round performance seems to matter more to women than length (though, I have heard that girth is where it really counts). I figure if it's big enough for someone to choke on, it's big enough. Right, Brandon? (In which case, another law applies: Anything bigger than a mouthful is a waste).
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Posted - Nov 25 2002 : 9:24AM
i've only been with two men that were noticeable small. one was a one night stand, so whatever, he wasn't cut out for that role. the other i loved and could have cared less. we spent far more time enjoying foreplay than we did penetration.
wetmartini - i don't think size alone could affect my sexual enjoyment. but i certainly speak up about what i want.
Being gay, I can tell one thing : for anal sex, the smaller, the better. I mean, just sticking 2 fingers hurt. How anybody can take Rocco up the a.. is beyond me. Maybe they anticipate w. a butt plug all day long. 6' is definitely ideal. Honestly, I find a little less than 6' ok for penetration and b/j but it gets tricky for the hand job. More often than not, when you're giving head you use your fist to masturabte your partner, & it has happened to me once that the length of his erect penis was the same length as my 4 fingers knuckles grabbing at it (am I clear there? Sorry I'm French !). Therefore it was difficult for me to pull at his foreskin (yes, there are a lot of foreskin in Europe !) and suck him at the same time. Still, I guess it made for good training in no-hands blowjob ! Globally, I think men put too much emphasis on the size of their penis & not enough on their overall appearance. I can have fun w.a small penis, but I can't handle a beer belly (or greasy hair, for that matter)
very good point on appearance vs. penis size. im not a monster in the 'downtown' department, but im no 2 inches. i agree that penis size is psychological, but 8 inches neevr hurt anyone...too bad!
My on take on penis size is that anything significantly more than a mouthful is wasted and unlikely to useful for anything other than being thrown over ones shoulder and burped.
I'm with GaySatyr on this one. I don't think length or girth is especially useful. If it's big enough to give pleasure to the owner of said member, it's big enough for me.
I've been with quite a variety of penes, btw, including 3 that were definitely less than 3inches long. One was not as big as my pinky finger (girth or length). All of these on adult men. I did not feel there was any problem at all, and they seemed happy with our sexual encounters as well.
If men truly believe that sticking monstrous items into a woman's vagina is her route to pleasure, why in the world do they spend so much time and effort trying to fiddle about with a finger or two? Conversely, if they think that a finger is enough to give pleasure, why would they be concerned with penis size?
One thing I'd like to add to this issue is cock stiffness, which I don't think I've seen discussed before.
My cock is around 5.5 inches long and the head is a lot bigger than the shaft, so I guess I don't have much girth. But it get's very very hard and stays that way as long as I can hold out.
But in porn I see guys with much larger cocks (mostly black guys it has to be said!), but they don't seem that hard, a lot of them seem to bend upon insertion and need a lot of guidance to hit the spot. Surely a rock hard cock is lot a nicer?
Maybe this isn't true, as I've only got porn as for reference for this!
I kind of think the size of your partner is also important. If you are a short guy dating a tall woman you're not going to be able to fill her up (depth wise) unless you are hung. In contrast if you are tall and your woman is petite you can hurt her in certain positions (missionary with legs up, or doggie at certain angles, even woman on top). I am a foot taller than my girlfriend and so I usually have to be careful not to hit her cervix. (this has been described as feeling like getting your balls kicked, though I have heard some women enjoy it and would like to hear from some of the ladies on this forum about this.)
Also something about girth or width: Doesn't a womans vagina adjust to the size of the mans penis after a while. If you've been with someone for a year or two does the width still matter as much? I would appreciate any responses.
From my experience hearing women talk about this subject, it seems that women who are inexperienced sexually dont think it matters. However women who have done it quite a lot with a variety of guys definitely think bigger is better. Of course there is a limit to this!
People being as diverse as they are, different women-loving men and men-loving men will have a wide range of differing reactions (from strong and specific preferences to relative indifference) to the issue of cock size and other cock-related characteristics, just as women-loving men and women-loving women will to breast size (and shape and firmness and nipples, etc.). Everyone is looking for that "special something" in "romantic others", whatever that special something may be for each person.
What I think is REALLY interesting is that, in general, men seem to be more concerned with their penis size than women appear to be, and women seem to be more concerned with their breast size than men appear to be. Just another example of how we fuck ourselves up daily with all the insecurities we carry around inside.
Can we human beings ever dream up enough ways to feel badly about ourselves? Sad to say, it seems like the general answer is, "No."
Since this got bumped anyway....Personally I think the dick hurts like hell and I think I'd be happy with a smaller guy. But I haven't been having sex all that long. Out of curiousity, any girls out there still experience pain after having sex regularly for like a month? Or am I just a freak?
I'm not huge.. but I have heard from my previous partners that size did matter. The difference between 6" and 8" is not as important as just the total size.. the width, the length.. the whole thing. I reckon a guy with a 4" dick that is rather wider than average could pleasure a woman in ways a guy with an 8" dick of average size could.
Having a dick the size mine is has it's advantage and disadvantages. As I said I'm not huge but when deep thrusting, I hit the back of the vaginal wall which is uncomfortable for both of us. On the other hand it's nice to hear that my dick is the biggest they've had before.. but whether size really, truly mattered is hard to know for sure.
I am just a shy under 7 inches long and 5 7/8 girth. i am not real confident in my length but very proud of my girth. i have never had any complaints for my size. i have only been with 8-10 woman. My first was a virgin and she hurt for like 23 times before it realy got good we had amazing sex sometimes 3-4 hours at a time I miss her. It wasnt until my sixth lover that i realized my above average girth she was so amazed by it. she was talking about her previous lovers and how they were all longer than me but what i lacked in length i more than made up for in girth. she reached in my joe boxers and got me hard then put her hand around the shaft and then put it around her wrist and said its the size of my arm thats unreal. we had good sex but she didndt like to long just 30 min.
What i lack in length do i realy make up for with girth ladies only please am i considered well hung or just hung?
I'm not inexperienced. I do not consider bigger to be better, in any way. Width, length, prominant glans, thick shaft, whatever way you want to measure whatever part of your penis you find distinctive - largeness is just not what I think matters. Skill matters, hugeness does not.
As far as the girth vs length issue, I have a statement to make that might not be very popular. Perhaps men like to think of their penis as being large so that they might "fill up" their partner and thereby not be inadequate in any way. Conversely, perhaps women promote the concept of thick penised men being preferred so that they might feel more "filled up" and not have personal doubts about their own tightness (and therefore possible inadequate performance).
Personally, the feeling of being stretched and pulled and pushed apart from the inside out is exceptionally unpleasant to me.
Of course it does! I'm sure there are women who are fine with smaller ones and probably women who prefer them that way. But come on now. I've got a good seven inches (with decent girth) and I wouldn't complain at all if I had at least another inch in both length and girth.
For porn, I prefer to see girls fucking fat cocks of between 7 and 10 inches. I find aesthetics of the joining of a fat one and a nice looking pussy to be pleasing.
I believe a lot of women enjoy fat ones more. It seems to me that it would be more likely to stimulate the clit than a smaller, more slender cock. And I'm sure a lot of women just like the psychological arousal of being stretched as well. I think the guy that has a decent sized cock with a pleasing shape will be more likely to turn most girls on. And if he has all of that plus he takes the time and effort to try and make sure she gets off as well, I find that guy generally makes a much better porn stud.
I am not lying. I don't like it. It is UNpleasant. It does not stimulate my clit. It tears at my labia minor. It makes almost all positions I like painful. It hurts my abdomen when the neck of my uterus is shifted. It causes suction in my vagina that I find distressing. Touching my cervix makes me scream in agony. Pressure against the rear wall of my vagina makes my bowels irritated.
I am not lying. I do not like a big penis.
I do not like them here or there. I do not like them anywhere. I do not like them in my mouth. I do not like them on the couch. I do not like them on the screen. I do not like them colored green...
Some men like big breasts, some like small. Some like big asses, some like small. Some like tall, Amazon women, some like diminutive doll-like girls.
I always figured women were the same way. Some (and I've met them) like big dicks. Some don't. For some it's a deal-breaker. For many it isn't. You buy the total package, not just one thing.
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Posted - Dec 8 2007 : 10:17PM
how big is big? how big is small? ive read small is 2inches average is 4 to 7 inches 8 and above is really big also on average from the entrance of vigina to cervix is average 6inches and was told massaging the start of the cervix is were a full body orgasim comes from(correct me if wrong ladies) so how would a 2inch penis do this i think size does matter to a point but were does the point start answer this question ladies which fells better to sit on? 2 inches thin or 6 inches thick
kimi lixx say's she doesnt like big dicks and is probly refering to 10inches so y don't you clear this up for us, rember that porn studs arnt the average guy and a cock like that would be loved by a fat chix not your average woman 8 and above is really big
Measure on the top from the pubic bone, to level with the tip (use a straight edge across the end, the way they measure your height at the doctor's office, with you against a wall, and a straight edge across the top of your head).
I don't mean ten inches. I mean anything over 6 inches long and 6.5 inches circumference. My comfort zone limit lies somewhere between 5.5 and 6 inches long, but the firmness of the erection effects that limit. The stiffer the penis, the less of it I can take comfortably. My width limit is more flexible than my length limit, but depends strongly on the skill of my partner. A thick unskilled partner will tear me to shreds in seconds. A skilled man can make me completely forget that I'm being stretched a bit more than I really like. There is a limit at the bottom end of size, too. There are men so small that I can barely feel their penetration. It loses all the friction factor and becomes nothing more than a slight feeling of pressure and wetness. It's not unpleasant, and it certainly doesn't hurt, but it isn't the sensation I usually associate with intercourse. This happens with men who have erectile dysfunction, too. When the penis is so flaccid that penetration is difficult to accomplish, the feeling is pretty much the same as a very small penis.
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Posted - Jan 1 2008 : 12:36PM
I was a "late bloomer," ( penis grew significantly in my early 20's, guess I was a little late to hop aboard the puberty train.) so, I've had the perhaps rare experience of being both too small and too big, of course depending on the woman. When I was on the smaller side, I kinda felt inadequate and intimidated, but more than made up for it with my oral skills. After my growth spurt (for lack of a better word) I learned that most regular women do not really enjoy the sensation of being torn apart (good thing I had the oral skills to fall back on.) Now I almost feel the urge to start a thread about how really stretched out pussy can make you feel like you are throwing a hot dog down the hallway or trying to put on a sock with worn out elastic...
Posted - Nov 19 2002 : 8:39PM
