Escorts for the Disabled (topic moved)

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Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 12:42AM I have been debating about writing this for some time, but what the hell. I am 21 and disabled. I have a genetic skin disorder (that is not contagious) and it has caused deformity from scarring, and I have to wear bandages. I do not think I am ugly, but this situation has given me considerable trouble with women. I do not blame it on my condition, because it isn't like I don't talk to any girl whatsoever, but I am shy, and I find it hard to just relax and be myself, rather than overthinking every situation I am in with a woman. I am a virgin, pretty much from everythig except cyber sex, which really doesn't count in my book. It has come to the point where I just want to get something, and it doesn't really need to be sex. I would like to save that for someone I care about, or at least am not paying. But maybe a little experience with an attractive woman would help me gain some confidence and shed a little bit of of my anxiety when it comes to the oppoittie sex. So, I will now get to the point. I was wondering if anyone knows of escorts who deal with disabled people. I know that there is not some escort that deals with it exclusively, but I am just wondering if it happens, which I assume it does. I would like to find someone who would possibly sympathise with my situation, or someone who has dealt with similar situations before. I am not rolling in money, so the price can;t be extravegant. I relaize the price will be in the hundreds of dollars, but time wise I don't think it will be a problem because I have a feeling I won't last long, unfortunately, lol. I post this here because it seems like the members here are understanding and open about things. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Topic Moved by - scipio on Mar 2 2008 [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:33AM We'd need to know what country or city or state you are in. And this thread will get moved to another forum. But be sure to check back on this thread, and check back again. Sometimes it takes a while for someone to weigh in who is familiar with your area. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:37AM I've always liked this guy's website. From the bottom of the page: My personal interests are more on caring intimacy and more intimate sexuality resulting in: Lovetouch at http://www.lovetouch.info with ideas for eventual workshops but need to find the right female partners. The Therapeutic Intimate Touch Institute at http://www.touchangels.com/ Canadian activities without the legal issues at http://www.sexworkcanada.com Click to expand It's been a while since I checked out the Toronto pages, but there was some great stuff there. You have nothing to lose, and a sympathetic ear, contacting Dave at his site and asking for referrals. Six degrees of separation and all that, someone will have a good idea. Edited by - lindi on 3/1/2008 1:43:15 AM [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:45AM Thanks for the suggestion. I don't know why I forgot to put my location, that would be ket. I live in illinois, right across the Mississippi river from St. Louis. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:47AM My favorite webpage of his. It has reviews of escorts he visited in Toronto, with his focus on intimacy. Some really nice experiences. Outcall reviews of the GFE (girlfriend experience) that he seeks. These are worth reading even if you don't get to Toronto -- just nice reading, so you know what is possible and what to ask for if you phone potential escorts, or what to look for if you find some review pages for local girls. Edited by - lindi on 3/1/2008 1:51:49 AM [Link]

lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 1:54AM Go right to that last link of mine and check it out. You will see what is possible. You can talk, get a massage, give a massage, shower together, and cuddle. You don't HAVE to have sex. You can prefer her to stay clothed, or in lingerie, or naked. Edited by - lindi on 3/1/2008 1:56:27 AM [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 2:10AM [ invalid url ] is a St. Louis site, but it looks intentionally dark and seamy. It may be a place to start, but I'd look for reviews, or call around. Never pick a girl from an ad. [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 3:45PM Thanks a lot for all the suggestions. [Link]
Dither Persona non grata I love America 650 Posts 8/05	Posted - Mar 1 2008 : 8:58PM If you had lived in Denmark, the government would have provided. [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 2:02AM That is awesome. [Link]
Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 4:28AM Right, I'm off to Denmark. Anybody know any good wheelchair shops? [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 12:46PM Mutatis, there is an excellent thread here. ShiWarrior posted a terrific example of a great first-sex experience with a prostitute, and there are lots of tips there for how to find the right girl to make sure the experience is what you are looking for. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 1:00PM Hmm. I can't find ShiWarrior's 'My First Sex' posting, which was really terrific. Maybe it has been deleted? [Link]
xxaru Member 128 Posts 6/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 3:22PM From my experience, being disabled shouldn't be a problem when it comes to escorts. Usually, the only problem is what's in your wallet. If you've got the money, then that's usually good enough. [Link]
Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 4:24PM Yeah. A lot of these chicks specify "wheelchair access" in their "adverts". I doubt they're talking about the ramp up to their gaf. [Link]

Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 4:55PM Haha. I don't use a wheelchair normally though, only for long distances. I kinda figured that was how it was though. Money is money after all. Again, thanks for the suggestions. [Link]
Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 5:56PM Kensington Chapp wrote: Yeah. A lot of these chicks specify "wheelchair access" in their "adverts". I doubt they're talking about the ramp up to their gaf. Click to expand Yes, but Mutatis particualar problem, I have a genetic skin disorder (that is not contagious) and it has caused deformity from scarring, and I have to wear bandages., may be thougher then most. When exactly does he tell the escort what his problem is. Would an escort be willing to take his word that his condition is not contagious. This is not so easy. [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 2 2008 : 10:18PM Well, the contagious part is not a problem, because it won't be hard to prove it isn't contagious. The largest problem would be the sex, if I decide to do it, itself. My skin disorder makes my skin fragile, and friction can cause injury, hence my problem. Though, if there is lubrication, I should be fine. [Link]
ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 3:56AM dude, you're 21. there's plenty of time to get laid. what's the rush? [Link]
ShiWarrior Senior Member 1170 Posts 8/01	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 3:32PM I remeber hearing about something similar over on P.L. Most escort cater for Disabled people, you have to ask, there is one girl i can recomend over in Northampton (Daventry area) would definatly let u visit her! [Link]
ShiWarrior Senior Member 1170 Posts 8/01	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 3:34PM lindi wrote: Hmm. I can't find ShiWarrior's 'My First Sex' posting, which was really terrific. Maybe it has been deleted? Click to expand i hope not! lol i'll have a look [Link]
ShiWarrior Senior Member 1170 Posts 8/01	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 3:39PM This one? my first Sex [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 5:09PM ma meeshka wrote: dude, you're 21. there's plenty of time to get laid. what's the rush? Click to expand Good point. I'm just horny as hell lately. I'm not making any plans yet, just getting peoples' thoughts while kicking the idea around. [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 5:24PM Also, lindi, I was wondering, why shouldn't I pick a girl from an ad. I guess what I mostly mean is what do you mean by ad? For the St. Louis site you gave me, all the girls are listed on the left and you click on them to see their info. Do you consider these ads? And if so, where should I go? [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 5:59PM Sorry, I should say, don't pick JUST from an ad. By the way, I bumped ShiWarrior's thread for you. I meant that -- well, read ShiWarrior's thread. See what is possible with a careful choice. Look around or ask around. If you can't find some reviews or recommendations from real clients, call and ask a few questions first. Pick someone kind, who suits you. Let them know what you are seeking. If you need gentle handling, make sure that is what you will get. [Link]

Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 3 2008 : 7:37PM Okay, thanks. And I did read read his thread, sounds nice, lol. [Link]
sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06	Posted - Mar 4 2008 : 3:52AM First of all Mutatis, I just wanted to say I'm sorry to hear about your disability and your situation. I realize your not looking for sympathy here, but I'm a sensitive person and these stories always make want to express my sympathy. My idea is this: Why not put an ad out yourself? Put an add on Craig's List explaining what your looking for and your situation. What you want out of this. You may be surprised at the responses you might get. Tell them your budget. When putting an add on Craig's List, you can't really tell someone that your going to give them money but there are ways around this. Most people who advertise on CL will say something like "200 roses for an hour". The sex workers are all aware of the lingo. roses=dollars. The best part is, advertising on CL is free so you have nothing to loose. Good luck with everything Edited by - sickguy on 3/4/2008 3:53:49 AM [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 4 2008 : 3:48PM That is a very good idea sickguy. I might just try that. [Link]
sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06	Posted - Mar 5 2008 : 8:01AM Ironically, I was browsing through CL yesterday and I came across this add: http://toronto.craigslist.ca/search/ers?query=disabled&minAsk=min&maxAsk=max [ invalid url ] added by lindi. (I don't know how to insert links but if you just copy and paste this in your URL bar, you can see the add) I live in Toronto so this add won't help you but I just wanted you to see that there are people out there that specialize in this. Edited by - lindi on 3/5/2008 11:48:15 AM Edited by - sickguy on 3/5/2008 11:03:41 PM [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 5 2008 : 5:21PM That is pretty cool, and encouraging. [Link]
sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06	Posted - Mar 5 2008 : 11:05PM Thanks for inserting the link lindi [Link]
Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07	Posted - Mar 6 2008 : 10:01AM Lindi, I would like to read that thread if you wanna send it to me. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Mar 6 2008 : 11:43AM Hey, Mutatis, it's this one, which ShiWarrior linked to, above. I think you've already seen it, but it's a good read. If you can tell the girls what you are looking for, you can find what you like, I think. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Dec 2 2011 : 7:42PM bump [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Dec 4 2011 : 2:36PM This thread is great. lindi, you are awesome. [Link]

Peter11 New Member 2 Posts 12/11	Posted - Dec 5 2011 : 11:01AM You must not afraid or shy of your ugliness. No one is perfect in this world. I just want to know in which location you are at present. We provide you best escorts for your pleasure and unlimited fun. You hwill have feeling like as of girlfriend. [Link]