Seeing as the prior thread I made seemed to be misunderstood I am making a new one. Here you can ask me advice on anything regarding sex and sexual activities and I will give you my honest opinions and my best advice. Please keep all questions on topic, something like this... "I want my girlfriend to suck my cock more, how can I get her to desire this?" Got it?? Ok. Let's get to it!!!
in person body language. I think its said that 90% of communication is non verbal so if she starts mirroring you, that's a big indicator she is into you. Also dialated pupils, a slight flush to the face, some hair twirling, adjusting her clothes, leaning in towards you with all of her body pointed towards you...or if she says "hey let's fuck!" That's how you know. If you aren't sure, ASK! And online, I think we all flirt online but if she is messaging you trying to get to know you better and asking to meet you, well, that's just common sense she is interested.
When she shows up at your door with a box of condoms, the morning after pill and a pair of handcuffs. Online I guess she says she wants to fuck you and posts a picture of her wearing those handcuffs.
Hello Leya: What is your favorite brand of condom and also your favorite kind of sexual lubricant and what is it about each of them that makes you enjoy them the most? Steve Smith Edited by - Steve Smith on 1/4/2013 8:34:18 PM
I HATE condoms and lube. I have an extremely sensitive vagina and also a latex allergy. If I absolutely had to use a condom it has to be lifestyles skyn (it comes in normal size and large size) as it is non latex and stretchy unlike the trojan supra (which barely stretches and feels like a ziplock bag is fucking me) . As far as lube I refuse to recommend any because I hate them all and when I need lubrication I just use my own saliva (which I have plenty of) , anytime I use a lube on my pussy (I have tried EVERY brand) it burns so I just use spit! Be careful with lubes and condoms if you do use a latex condom you need a waterbased lube (oil based will melt it). If you're asking about lube for butt sex I would say silicone based because it stays longer and feels more comfortable though it is quite sticky when youre done so you're going to need to shower after!
Hi, Leya, I am searching for good out of the ordinary dirty talk lines. I mean everyone knows stuff like "Your tits/ass/pussy/legs etc looks hot/beautiful etc", "it's so hot when you do x", "y feels great" and "my cock gets hard from z". An example going in the right direction: "Your pussy is so tight, if you were not that wet my cock would never fit in there" Something for her imagination, something she won't hear every day and won't forget. What are your favorites?
^ personally I like stuff like "You're such a fucking whore get those pussy juices all over my cock." "You have such a filthy slut pussy and I am going to rip it open." "Take this big fat cock in your tight little pussy until you cry." "That cunt is so fucking dirty now suck up all that nasty cum off my dick" (take it out of her pussy and shove it down her throat here) Basically say whatever fits the occasion but the more cursing and degredation, the better. Treat your woman like a queen in real life but fuck her like a nasty little street walker, make her earn the right to cum all over your cock!
^it really depends on who is fucking me and how they are fucking me...I know I always say fuck a lot and like to degrade myself by calling myself a slut/whore but other than that I just say what I am feeling in the moment and that's exactly how it should be. Sex shouldn't be "rehearsed" or "forced" say and do what turns you on the most and dirty and degrading talk whether it be me talking about myself or the other person talking to me turns me on.
You are awesome Leya! I always degrade the women I fuck! Even if they don't like it! But I haven't met many that don't like being treated like a whore. "I think you better check out TheDude because he is going to started an IR fight" - InFamous
well, I don't suggest it if they don't like it, sex needs to be enjoyed by both parties!! ... and as far as drama from other people I really don't give a fuck. Not everyone is going to like me but for those that do like me I really love and appreciate them and their ongoing support!
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Posted - Jan 30 2013 : 3:11AM
Dear leya. How would i approach a girl about this? If i were to ever meet a girl. And during the time we develop/Start our sexual relationship. How would i approach her about us strictly having a CMNF Sex relationship? Every time we would have sex she will be completely naked. While i remain fully clothed. Ive always loved the idea of a singular girl/woman having sex that way multiple times over. It just sounds so damn dynamic. What would be the best way to go about with this? Thanks. Edited by - Allbusiness on 1/30/2013 3:12:16 AM
Clothed male, naked female huh? I am a man but would love my woman to wear a straight jacket during sex (with the crotch strap unfastened of course). As for CMNF I don't think it will fly. Whenever I have fucked a woman the most I was wearing was a pair of handcuffs (yes, I used to switch between dom and sub). Leya may know more regarding CMNF being from Vegas.
As you are a porn star - you can answer better than any one. If my question is off topic please don't abuse me instead u can reply on the below link Whether porn stars (male porn stars) ejaculates during the video shooting is in progress. To make it simple, porn actors due to the excitement and pleasure goes out of control and cums while the video shooting is in progress. The director/producer wants the movie to be 20 mins but the man in action cums fast....will this happen. Why i am asking is that i have seen a lot of orgy videos which last about 40-60 minutes and some even more which includes 5-6 male and damn sexy hot female porn stars. By the end of video only all the guys starts ejaculating. They call orgy videos as reality and i dont see any reality in this as the video is fully done pre-planned. https://forum.adultdvdtalk.com/porn-stars-cums-during-making-of-porn-movie#post
Proxter, I am not Leya but this is the exact reason you see the same guys in every movie. Very few men can cum on cue, they either can't at all, cum too early or can't even keep an erection on camera (even with Caverject or Viagra). Between cut times to take pictures/give direction and the actual scene an erection needs to be kept for 3-4 hours at times. I never could keep an erection ten minutes most of the time without chemical assistance, most men here probably can't either.
well I wouldn't suggest you "strictly" doing anything, every relationship and sex life needs variety (im not saying be a swinger but variety as far as activities go you need to mix it up) in order to survive long term. Just bring it up, say this is what turns you on and she will probably be open to it. People are so afraid of revealing what turns them on the most and I think it is a shame, if you are willing to have sex with someone then there should be no shame in talking about what you both want.
this honestly has never happened to me on set, I have had the opposite problem with a few where they cannot cum (because either they popped a pill or did something to keep their cock up for the amount of time needed) Male performers are so underrated in this business, without a good male performer the scene (if a boy/girl scene) is going to suck regardless of how good the woman is.
True male performers that can keep it up, keep from cumming and can cum on cue are truly to be admired as it is those guys that keep the industry putting out great boy/girl scenes.
Ok...Thanks all for sparing a few moments to reply me Now a funny question...may be not too funny What about the camera man, assistants, producers and directors who were involved in the set while the porn shooting is in progress for hours. Do they also take pills or viagra? Or will they cum on pants or run to toilet for releasing the excitement
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Posted - Feb 1 2013 : 2:23AM
Dear leya. Ive always wondered how do so many of you porn stars get contorted into so many positions without injury? In so many cock riding scenes the way the girl squats. That sometimes has to cause their legs to charlie horse up. Or other things like thrown-out backs/kinked necks etc. I guess to be a porn star you have to be physically fit. And im sure lots of you have personal trainers. That along with eating correctly and being hydrated. Am i right?
well I wouldn't suggest you "strictly" doing anything, every relationship and sex life needs variety (im not saying be a swinger but variety as far as activities go you need to mix it up) in order to survive long term. Just bring it up, say this is what turns you on and she will probably be open to it. People are so afraid of revealing what turns them on the most and I think it is a shame, if you are willing to have sex with someone then there should be no shame in talking about what you both want.
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Leya, we ladies here on ADT have been saying this until we are blue in the face. It's all about communication.Amen! I have ranted many times that the male performers are as important to a good scene as the females are. Some of the best don't even need to have a huge cock to be super hot. I understand that the industry believes the majority of viewers are men but there is a HUGE market out there for women that is being missed. I'm not talking about Sweet Sinner or Playgirl. I'm talking about all types of porn that wouldn't even need to be changed much to make it appeal more to women. For example, just featuring the men on cover art and credits so that women could find their favorite guys would be a big help. Some guys names aren't even listed let alone have their pictures featured. I used to have women in the shop for hours digging through the porn titles just to find their favorite guy. And women will buy feature, parody, fetish and the trashiest trash you can think of if they like that type of scene and the preformers involved. They talk about porn with their girlfriends. "Oh my God, me and Bob watched this porno and this girl and James deen(insert crazy sex act here)and it was soooooo hot! James Deen makes me cream!!" Seriously, the industry is missing out.
everyone in the industry is pretty much immune to seeing fucking on film. Its much of a turn on to them as it is to mcdonalds workers seeing a batch of french frieds baking.
you don't have to be in good shape, there are many that are not in good shape and many that are. I can only speak for myself, I take care of myself, I am naturally flexible and yes, some positions are uncomfortable but I get over it because I know it will look good when you guys watch it.
well I wouldn't suggest you "strictly" doing anything, every relationship and sex life needs variety (im not saying be a swinger but variety as far as activities go you need to mix it up) in order to survive long term. Just bring it up, say this is what turns you on and she will probably be open to it. People are so afraid of revealing what turns them on the most and I think it is a shame, if you are willing to have sex with someone then there should be no shame in talking about what you both want.
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Leya, we ladies here on ADT have been saying this until we are blue in the face. It's all about communication.Amen! I have ranted many times that the male performers are as important to a good scene as the females are. Some of the best don't even need to have a huge cock to be super hot. I understand that the industry believes the majority of viewers are men but there is a HUGE market out there for women that is being missed. I'm not talking about Sweet Sinner or Playgirl. I'm talking about all types of porn that wouldn't even need to be changed much to make it appeal more to women. For example, just featuring the men on cover art and credits so that women could find their favorite guys would be a big help. Some guys names aren't even listed let alone have their pictures featured. I used to have women in the shop for hours digging through the porn titles just to find their favorite guy. And women will buy feature, parody, fetish and the trashiest trash you can think of if they like that type of scene and the preformers involved. They talk about porn with their girlfriends. "Oh my God, me and Bob watched this porno and this girl and James deen(insert crazy sex act here)and it was soooooo hot! James Deen makes me cream!!" Seriously, the industry is missing out.
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I agree with you, I talk about him all the time but I will say it again, one of my favorite male performers to work with is Tommy Pistol. His cock is not big but he knows how to work it, and is a GREAT performer and can also act as well as any mainstream actor. Having a big cock doesn't make you a good performer, being a good performer makes you a good performer. Im not sure if I agree with the males being on the cover (unless if its a parody or feature) but I do agree their names should be listed on the front.
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Posted - Feb 2 2013 : 6:20AM
Can you tell some of the male performers to stop shaving everything down there. Women doing that is far more understandable. I know the guys do that to make their cocks look larger. But are they really that insecure? It looks horrible/funny. And its just jarring. They just end-up looking like hairless muscle bound toddlers. Neatly trimming and cleaning things up a little is good. Because im sure you ladies kinda appreciate that. But for christ sakes. Dont take it all away. Edited by - Allbusiness on 2/2/2013 6:22:01 AM
I really doubt a porn dude is going to take the advice of a porn girl in regards to their hair trimming. Maybe they'd listen if the female was making the porn flick and demanded that the males have a bush. I am trimmed. I have no hair on my balls and women love it that way "I think you better check out TheDude because he is going to started an IR fight" - InFamous
why would I want to check out someone that is being negative? That is that persons problem, not mine. Not everyone is going to love me, not everyone is going to hate me. I would rather focus on those that radiate positivity.
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Posted - Feb 5 2013 : 7:49AM
I said trimming is good. Cleaning things-up around the edges. But for a guy to get rid of every bit of hair down there is a not-so-good.
Hi Leya, This is about lesbian sex. Do you really love lesbian sex or just doing it as there is a contract with the porn industry. For you which one turns u more - sex with opposite gender or with same gender (lesbian)?
id venture to say 95% of women would be in agreement with me on the no hair on the balls/cock ...the other 5% are the ones that wont suck the cock/balls
personally I am 97.3% lesbian. I fuck women in my personal life as well as for porn. I LOVE women, more than men. Don't get me wrong, I do love cock but as far as a guy goes he isn't as appealing to me as a woman. Men look nice with clothes on, women look sexy with and without clothes. If you put a man and a woman in front of me 97.3% of the time I will choose the woman. I know many women in the industry are "gay for pay" (those girls are hard to work with) but that is not me, I am 97.3% gay for free its just a bonus when I get to play with girls AND get paid for it AND have others watch me do it. Pussy and cock are both great and i enjoy them both but when it comes to the whole package, its a woman that does it for me the most!
^^ yes I have but not enough, I can't remember all of their names. It does seem though that most g/g scenes are saved for the girls that do just g/g and it makes me sad :( I want all of the hot bitches! Anyways, can we please keep this thread as asking advice on fucking and stuff like that and questions about me or other stuff in my thread in "star crossed" ? Don't want to get in trouble with the mods!
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Posted - Dec 29 2012 : 1:26AM
