Well, I think that is somewhat out of context, lambchop. But I agree, having to HIDE things like porn from your S/O is no good - they must accept you and any porn baggage brought into the relationship.
However, I have learned that there are certain things that are probably best tidied up and left out of plain view, at least for the first date or two.
You say your girlfriend already knows and doesn't mind - so I'm wondering if it could be genre of your collection that concerns you? 'Porn' can be such a generic term.
DB

