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Keithunder69
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Posted - Feb 12 2020 : 10:45PM
Despite being in my 60s, I recently had the good fortune to have sex with a young (21) lady in Australia. This was not a 'working girl' but a young student at a local University - a girl with a strong sex drive but not that unusual for her age group today. The experience was incredible, and I can't help thinking was very different from what I experienced decades ago.

The influence of porn on what is considered 'normal sex' has been profound during that time.

A typical one-on-one sex scene from the mid-1980s would show an attractive girl pleasuring a male performer with oral sex followed by a good pounding in several positions. And that was what we aspired to achieve in our private sexual lives.

Fast forward to today, and things are quite different. She changed into an outfit that combined sexy lingerie with some BDSM type gear. She brought her own butt plug and vibrator. There is smacking, slapping, hair-pulling and choking. During the BJ she gagged frequently. Anal sex, of course, with ATM that isn't even asked for or expected. She wanted to know if she had a cute gape (!). Rimming of the male partner has become normalised (something I have noticed in very recent times). She asked if I had any young girlfriends that could join us next time. She actually apologised that she didn't squirt much when she came. Thank god for viagra. And in post-sexual chat she used her phone to stream some sexual activities from porn sites that she wants to try with me. I truly believe my experience is not so unusual these days.

Evidently, porn has made acts which not so long ago would be considered extreme become more mainstream.

My question is - what is next?

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Posted - Feb 13 2020 : 10:18AM
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that's a bit off even for today standards , regular young girls of today aren't that extreme not even under coke , it's true though that they may have their own toys.
However I'm European anal sex has never been a taboo here nor an extreme act ,there are those who do it and those who don't a (married) personal friend of mine likes it , for her any sexual encounter must end with anal sex , she does have her toys including a set of butt plug , I personally helped her husband to choose those as a gift for her . Our familiarity is so open because we know each other a long time , way before they married and we talked about sex between us since along with my then GF and other people , they're now experimenting light BDSM but not because of porn they barely know what it is , they just discovered it and found out they like it , nothing strong just a little dominance during sex mostly verbal , or so they say.
I don't think they are so rare as a couple many are experimental and curious but I don't have this kind of familiarity with them , I did experiment myself but I'm a porn consumer , they aren't and never were.
The real difference I think is made by the information available , you don't need porn to know about things a simple sexual related study would do.
as for the youngsters , they talk a lot more than before, although it all depends on the area, me, my then GF , those two friends of mine were all teenagers when we begun to talk freely about our sexual drive ,



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