Ok I have been talking to this girl online for about 5 years, on and off.
About 6 months ago we decided to date, it just happened naturally, she had split with her ex and I split with mine.
Now, she lives pretty far away, around a 3 hour trip..but I am not the lazy type, and I really do like her..She is different to anyone else I have ever known. Very moral and principled, a strong woman.
Before the first date, when we actually met for the first time, we were always talking to each other online. We have similar interests, both dance and like the same music, art etc...
When I met her, she was shy, but I put it down to nerves. I really thought after all that talking we were going to get naked and have sex as soon as we met, but she was pretty reserved. We spent 4 days together, on the 4th day we kissed. It was pretty sweet.
And then the second date, a month later, she came to my house. I thought we would be more comfortable this time, but she sat and watched the movie from another chair. I had to pick her up and bring her to the sofa where I was sitting.
She stayed 4 days and we slept in the same bed. But whenever my hand wandered down towards her ass, she would slap it away. We are both attractive young people so I didn't know what the problem was, but I thought maybe too soon. It's like there is all this sexual tension but she doesn't want to seem like a slut.
Soon I think we will be meeting for the third time, and we have now been seeing each other 7 months in total, but only 3 dates lol...anyone been in this sort of situation? I really want to have sex with her but it seems to be dragging on, mainly because we can't see each other often.
But I noticed she has a weird thing about being touched, and is generally a bit frigid..Like if I rub her shoulder, she will cover herself up, and she generally never shows any leg or much skin...