Most of the time, a well-lubed hand (or even a dry one), especially if you've a friend (male or female) you can enlist for the task, is a better choice. Even using your other hand is good. However, the fleshlight does work. So do some of the pocket pussy devices although they are not as good. The vibrator cock rings & reciprocating mechanical masturbators and pumps suck and I do not mean in a good way (plus, vacuum devices can cause harm if they are abused or overused - if you go this route, be very careful).For variety, some of the dildos, butt plugs and anal vibrators are a lot of fun, too. If you decide to play anally, start small and do not go overboard. I'm of the opinion that one should never insert anything any larger that which might normally pass through the sphincter on its own. Also, make sure that anything you use for anal stimulation is designed so that it cannot be inserted all the way - you do not need a trip to the emergency room!
~ GaySatyr
Edited by - GaySatyr on Jun 14 2002
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