OK, I am a very confident man. However there is one part of me that I am very self conscious about...my ass. Not the shape, I have a very nice tight ass (so I've been told), no my problem (and maybe it's not a problem at all, but it bothers me) is that I have a hairy ass. Now most women say they don't care, but I have a hard time believing that. And in the bedroom, I avoid showing my ass at all costs, which sometimes pisses some women off... So my first question is what do women really think about a hairy ass? And second and most importantly...what is the best way to get rid of it? I have tried stuff like Nair and Enleve, but that doesn't work that well. I really couldn't see myself getting it waxed...just too embarrasing (umm, let me bend over for you so you can wax the hair of my ass...no). What about just shaving it? I know then it would become a regular ritual, but worth it maybe? I have no idea...so please help!!!!
I would suggest maybe laser hair removal. It's expensive, but you only do it once (or twice) and you're done. Waxing, shaving, and other temporary methods leave you with stubble, ingrown hairs, razor burn, or whatnot that is far less attractive, and more uncomfortable, than the hair was to begin with. Electrolysis is an option, too - but it takes a LONG time and it tends to be rather uncomfortable.
As far as whether women dislike hairy bums or not, I'm sure there are some who don't like it, some who do like it, and some who don't care one way or another. The real issue is your feelings - if you are unhappy about it, that's going to make you doubt it even when a woman says it doesn't matter. It's going to matter to you.
For the record, hairy bums don't bother me. Neither do hairy backs, hairy legs, hairy arms, hairy faces, or body hair in general - as long as the owner of said hirsute body is CLEAN and unfragrant in a bad way.
I'd rather have a little tickle than a brush burn from stubble - even five o'clock shadow feels like sandpaper! Seriously, I HAVE had fellas with stubble leave my thighs raw - raw, like a rug burn on your knees raw - I actually had to put salve and bandages on my thighs.
I know you asked for a woman's view, but here goes anyway:
I LOVE a hairy ass!
There's nothing quite like running your fingers across a rock hard, fuzzy little bum.
Of course, if you have 8-inch gangly hairs coming out of your ass, that has got to go. Maybe you could post a picture so we know what we're dealing with?
I also have some hair on my ass, more on my ass than my head, JK. I found shaving it with a razor (even a Mach 3 which is an awsome razor) feels great for about 2 days and them I get an itch that drives me nuts;-). So I baught an electric trimmer, you know the ones they shave the Army dudes with, and it works great. It doesn't get it 100%, leaves about 1/10th inch, but it never gives me the itches. Give it a try, they're only about $15 at Target.
