my parents and my entire family know what i do..i am very close to my mom, shes my best friend. we often share sex tricks and funny stories. but my parents have never watched my pornos. in fact my parents are major porn consumers. my mother has told me that before they buy or rent a movie they look for my name so they can stay clear of getting it. i told her not too worry tho i only really do gonzo like feeding frenzy, where i suck and swallow 6 loads, haha. she finds this funny. as do i..
I was going to attend Erotica L.A. with a friend who's a pornstar, but she had to cancel appearing because she found out her brother was going to go ths year...luckily she was not signing or anything this year! It just made me think about how inevitable it seems that someone close to you will always find out sooner or later!
It is funny, I always hear that joke "your parents must be really proud." I do not like people telling me or others that. Is there any reason why they shouldn't be proud of ME???
My PROS OF PORN
*I don't have to sit in traffic jams every morning (HA HA) *I can set my own schedule *I could pay for the education (YES I HAVE A BACHELOR's Thank you very much)that my broke parents couldn't afford! *I have much more money than my parents *Girls should all recieve a crown for the pure sexual pleasure that we bring to the world! (It is GOODNESS) *I crawled up out of underprivileged situations and now have a chance and time to decide on what other roles I would like to play within the industry, in the future, when the current producers retire. (Rough sex rules!) *I get to experience sexual fantasies and amazing roleplay that I could never do with a husband, 5 kids and a wrecked body.UGH!!!! *I don't cost the taxpayers money, as one of my sisters does, who was born into the SAME circumstances, but decided to stay home. She couldn't afford college and now lives in a trailer with tin foil on the window and smokes crack to forget it all. For valid personal reasons, I do not associate with her. * Because of adult entertainment, I have graduated from university with honors (can be proven). Indirectly from adult, I have traveled the world, have pictures. Met amazing people that I can admire and learn from. * Because of adult entertainment I get to play everyday, but do work sometimes, to ensure a good future (Aww, is playtime over, really?) *I love being in new sexual situations with strange places and people. I love meeting and learning from new people. I like being with girls, but would find it difficult to ask them to be with me out in the real world.
When I am not making a movie, in my personal life, I do not walk around with my legs spread open to every person in the world. If I meet someone and connect with them, I may decide to sleep with them, may not. I am not hurting anyone,if I do. That is my choice.
Most of my family is proud. My successful half sister, who is in the coporate world, loves me with all of her heart and just wants me to be careful healthwise. I have medical coverage and watch my health like a hawk.
I would never want my family watching me getting my ass slammed by a nice cock, just like I wouldn't want them in my bedroom, but I don't mind if they know that I am having sex on camera, see my solo nude magazine layouts, softcore HBO, Playboy, or things like that. That is just my personal preference.
Wow! Katie June wasn't in the biz long and it was awhile ago, but what a bubbly, beautiful, sexy young woman! Ramsey, do you think you could remember the name of that documentary????
Also...To Roxetta:
I say GOOD FOR YOU! I am so sick and tired of reading or seeing news reports depicting porn as a waste of life and its performers as losers. You make your own chances in this world and if it's LEGAL (as porn is) NO ONE should look down their nose at u!
Roxetta , that was an awesome post! We are all to familiar with the negative side of the industry, but name one that doesn't have a down-side! I spend hours everyday working and hiring healthcare proffessionals, and I know that I stopped looking for anyone there to make a difference years ago!
Even us "supporters" of porn can sometimes become quite judgemental (try reading XXXPorntalk sometime, its funny but downright brutal !), but its great to see someone articulate what the business can do for a motivated, mature person with there head on straight.
That's great to hear, the wife's parents were totally cool, oddly enough it was my parents that went off the deep end. Go figure, and no they'd hopefully never see the work!www.alexandrabelle.com
Why do I think that's fucked up? Seriously. I am totally cool with parents being proud of their kids, and supporting their decisions. I don't even have an issue with parents who watch their kids' movies. However, if my mom were ever to stand there and feed me a cock, I would think she had gone wacko.
Edited by - threesomebody on 7/14/2005 10:53:03 AM
I once walked in on my grandparents having sex, and now all I can think about is raisins. Not because my grandparents were wrinkly (they were), but because my granddad was shoving raisins up my grandmother's pussy.
I remember that Jamie Summers's mom played herself in "Bringin' Up The Brat" (now THAT was a movie!)... you can tell, I'm all lost in the 90s. Can't stand gonzo.
My dad is cool with it most of the time. He has a strange habit of giving the actresses long, drawn-out political lectures whenever he meets them off-set. My mom, on the other hand, died 10 years ago, and I'm not sure I could do porn if she was still alive today.
My mom has seen my print work and some web stuff, but I don't think she's seen any of my video work. She knows about it and all, I just don't think she's looked. I dunno - I haven't asked her. If I needed her to come to a set (I can't imagine why I would, but let's just say I did.) I think she would. She says she will support me in any choice I make, even if she doesn't agree, so she's stuck with that statement.
There was a thread (quite some time ago) when fans were discouraged from approaching pornstars if they happen to see them on the street, and especially in company with elderly people. Apparently, not everyone tells their parents..
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Posted - Feb 3 2007 : 1:43PM
I remember an Australian television show in the early 1990s concentrating on sexual matters that had an interview with Sunny Mackay, who was then a well-known porn star. At one point in the show she was sitting on the lounge at home with her two elderly parents watching one of her scenes with Rocco Siffredi.
From memory the old folks looked kind of dazed and confused and didn't say much.
I don't ask my parents for their opinion. I don't care what they think about my career and if they watch my movies or not. They are more upset with me because I moved to the capitalist America than they are upset with me doing porn.
Katja, it might be a small minority but probably there are some people here who are not aware that you are from the former communist part of Germany. And if I might add a personal note: even with this background I think this is a pretty harsh statement.
I find it harsh to be more upset about the different values of the place their daughter moves to (but a place which she obvious likes very much) than caring about the career (and with it also the wellbeing) of their daughter!
I have never even openly admitted to my mom that I have sex. We don't discuss it, ever. She doesn't know about my porn career hence. But drugs, on the other hand, my mom knows every kind of drug I've ever tried when I was younger. Drug use was an open topic in my household since I was 12. But sex talk? Oh hell no. Weird huh?
That is why it's a general rule of mine to always knock before you open a closed door. There's almost always a reason why a door is closed. If you just run around opening doors, sooner or later, you're bound to get yourself some memories you'd rather not remember.
I'm a big Jamie Summers fan, too, and remember that scene from "Bringing Up The Brat." Of course there was never a shot of Jamie's Mom in the same room watching her daughter sucking or fucking. Her Mom just shot some wrap around, storyline stuff.
Speaking of Jamie, let me share a story that I believe illuminates the cultural context that allowed for the growth of the porn industry in the US beginning in the late 1970s.
I actually met Jamie and her Mom (and, I think, Jamie's teenage brother) in SF, in the late 1980s when Jamie was Featuring at a club. From what I got out of my conversations with both women, Jamie's Mom embraced a lot of the "counter-culture" ideas of the 1960s--and raised her children that way. Openess about sex and allowing the youngsters to make many of their own decisions seemed to be the family norm. (In fact, the 15 or 16 yr old boy that I believe to be Jamie's brother was in her dressing room while she was posing, totally naked, for photos with fans!)
However, after Jamie retired there was a brief buzz in the trades that a younger sister was about to enter into the porn biz. But it never happened. So there may have been a change in the family's view about sexual expression thru a career in porn by the mid-1990s. IMO, the industry had moved far away from it's sexual freedom roots, and onto a harder, less "fun" approach to sex.
Edited by - Derek117 on 2/3/2007 10:08:41 PM
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Posted - Feb 21 2007 : 10:46PM
if a mother/father/sister/brother sees their family member in a porn video, why does it have to be a bad thing? everybody has a different aspect of what they're comfoprtable with, right? I mean if a father has a daughter who does porn, what if it turns him on, and he watches it, and masturbates to it? doesnt have to be a bad thing for family of all porn starts.
It doesn't have to be for everyone (as far as I'm concerned. I don't care what other people do, really). It just would be for me because I wouldn't want to see my family members naked....much less having sex.
So I would avoid the videos that I knew they were in if I knew a family member was in porn. Not because I would think it was wrong for them to do porn, though.
You don't think it's a bad thing if a father masturbates to a scene with his daughter in it? I'm a live/let live kinda guy, but that's just fucking CREEPY!
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Posted - Feb 24 2007 : 4:03AM
Ricola's post reminds me of a good joke: Mom hears a vibrating noise coming from daughter's bedroom. Mom opens the door, finds the daughter jammin one, and exclaims "What is that and what are you doing"? The daughter replies "I'm 30 years old, living at home, and this is the closest I'm ever going to get to a husband". Mom closes the door and leaves. A couple of nights later, the Dad hears the vibrating noise in the daughter's room, opens the door, and discovers the daughter doing herself again. He asks "What is that and what the hell are you doing"? The daughter again responds "I'm 30 years old, living at home, and this is the closest I'll ever get to a husband". Dad closes the door and walks away. Finally, about a week later, the Mom hears a vibrating noise in the den, and looks in to find Dad on the sofa watching the Super Bowl with the vibrator buzzing beside him. The Mom asks "What in the world are your doing"? And the Dad replies "Watching the game with my son-in-law!
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