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| Amos Trask Member Hamburg, Germany 29 Posts 4/00 |  Posted - May 31 2000 : 9:50AMActually, in response to lunacy´s post and due to the fact that there seem to be some female beings who visit this forum, I´d be happy to get some response to my question. What are the most important abilities for a man to have (special knowledge about foreplay, giving head or the sex itself) ?  [Link] |
| tina tyler Mercenary Pictures 466 Posts 2/00 |  Posted - May 31 2000 : 3:26PMFor me, what makes a man good in bed is the attitude. If he genuinely cares about my pleasure and will listen to my moans as if they were a treasure map, as well as pay attention to my physical reactions, then, I'm assured a great sexual experience. Personally, I'm not shy about actually verbalizing my needs, but I'm aware that there are many women who have a problem with that, which is why I mentioned the other ways of listening to your partner. I hope this helps. xoxo Tina  [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - May 31 2000 : 6:54PM Physically and emotionally considerate I mean.It excites me when my man is listening to me, and responding. Thru touch and sharing verbally what he is feeling as well. A man who listens to what I like, and acts on it, and remembers it for next time. And considerate in being aware of my mood. Sometimes, I really love a quicky, but others I want to make love and be carressed and kissed more.All the little things are what I appreciate, pulling the covers over us when we're done if it's cold. Kisses on my forhead make me feel adored. When he goes to get glass of water cause we're both panting. lol It's really not hard to be a great lover as a man, just listen and respond. Make your partner feel like a queen(or king). Tell them how good they make you feel. [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Jun 1 2000 : 6:09PM First, I ditto the other gals. Second, ORAL SEX One of the greatest pleasures is having a man insert himself right after he makes me cum from going down on me. And I'm sure it's a great pleasure for him too because my muscles are all pulsing. I'm still wondering why god didn't build men with a tongue right above their penis. [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 |  Posted - Jun 1 2000 : 10:04PMIf god gave man a tongue above his penis. He'd use it on himself first.. and that would be the end of man kind.. heeheee ------------------ [Link] |
| Kapalua Member 15 Posts 4/00 |  Posted - Jun 5 2000 : 9:42PMLet's face it... a man is going to cum regardless, us women take a little work. Also, a man needs to know where the G spot is... if you don't know where it is, feel around for it... you will know by her response when you've found it. [Link] |
| DeathIncarnate Member Luxembourg 54 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Jun 6 2000 : 11:52AM Do you think that it's a good idea to go down on a woman the first time you have sex with her? Or would that be too fast.. (considering that the female in question would not be uptight or whatever) [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Jun 6 2000 : 1:26PM apparently some women don't like it (though i just don't understand that at all.) i'd say ask her. as far as i'm concerned it's a sure sign that a man cares about my wants/needs. [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Jun 6 2000 : 8:20PM I hated oral sex (recieving it) before my current lover. It's a huge trust issue, some womyn can just relax and enjoy and some take a little convincing. So just ask her gently, so you get a true response, not just what she thinks you want to hear. Maybe something like..."may i kiss your pussy?", not "hey babe, like can I suck you clit or what?" you see? lol Sorry, I know I'm not Steph, but heck I had to throw my 2 cents in! "Steph is my hero." -Lunacy [This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited June 06, 2000).] [Link] |
| Amos Trask Member Hamburg, Germany 29 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Jun 9 2000 : 2:05PM Kapalua: Just a simple question: If I search the G-spot (which I´d really like to do), won´t I have to use some pressure? And if yes, wouldn´t that be quite unpleasant? Some advice would be nice (hey that´s a rhyme...) [Link] |
| Oneloa Member 848 Posts 2/00 | Posted - Jun 10 2000 : 11:07AM Let me help answer this for Kapalua, since she has a hard time finding it herself. Her hand can't bend enough to get the right angle. I actually stumbled on it accidentally one day. The best way for you to find this magical spot is to use your middle finger (due to length). With her on her back, put your finger (one finger will work as well as two or three in this case) inside her, palm up. Then make a "come here" motion. This will be rubbing the top wall. There's a fleshy, kind of rough spot that you'll feel. That's it! Make sure you don't use your nail or press too hard. Try to use the flat part of your finger, not the very tip. As with all pussy stimulation... rubbing light at first and then increasing the pressure is the best way. Once you've found it, try to make circular motions over the area rather than just rubbing. Also, with your other fingers on the outside and your hand making circular motions, it will also give her clitoral stimulation. The two combined can cause blindness! Some girls may find it to be stimulation overload at first. Just start slow and soft. After a few minutes, you'll be getting a full upper body workout. Lastly, when done correctly, this method can cause a woman to gush! The first time I did this to Kapalua she felt an orgasm unlike any other. It's going to take time for her to let go and just enjoy this without fear of losing all bodily functions or passing out. She won't... she'll just think she will. Oh yeah, and don't forget to wear your safety goggles. Well, this may be more info than you wanted, but this has been a fool proof method for me. Let me know how it works out. [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 |  Posted - Jun 10 2000 : 8:41PMwell i'll save that just in case you decide to edit it out...or kapalua makes you edit it.. ;} ------------------ [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Jun 10 2000 : 11:47PM Someone publish and circulate this thread. I am 26, been with men and womyn and just finally I have a lover that found my G spot. Oh, happy day. I wish this was more public knowledge. Oh, and Amos, I second One's suggestion on starting slow, it really is an overload thing the first couple times. "Hunny, could you peel me off the ceiling please?"-Lunacy [This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited June 10, 2000).] [Link] |
| Oneloa Member 848 Posts 2/00 |  Posted - Jun 11 2000 : 2:47AMLunacy - I think this is why Kapalua tolerates me! I wish someone would have told me this back in Sex Ed. I needed a treasure map back then. I didn't know what the hell I was doing. I was looking for buried treasure in unfamiliar territory. [Link] |
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