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tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 12:15AM
I have nothing against porn viewers. I still attend conventions more as Tricia rather than just as Karen, cause I like talking to fans that I've known for 12 years.
I'm a little biased against guys who think that every porn girl simply has a price.
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 3:02AM
I think porn girls are professionals who offer a service, and this service has a price. but they can choose whom to sell this service, and if doing interracial, creampies, swallow, etc.
there are companies that offer many money to do creampies, but some girl choose to don't do it for any price. in this sense I agree not every porn girl has a price.
KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 5:53AM
I guess I'll have to photoshoot you on Oct. 15th then lol
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For you..anytime of the month babe...lol...and you get a discount for being awesome!
XOXO
Katarina Kat
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 10:07AM
I would call myself a professional but I do not offer services. My job is to put on a performance, a good show as a whole. I also feel I am an entertainer more than anything. When I go out, I am careful of what I do. When I am on set, I try to make everyone's day easier by smiling. I like to think of my job more than just fucking or sucking. I am a porn star all around. Being an entertainer is me, who I am, and what I love.
 
T0201
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 12:59PM
I don't even think it's about them having a price per se. It's just that most recognize that there's really no logical difference between working on camera for money and working in private for money.
With one of the only real differences being that when working on camera everyone is aware of it (friends, family, and the rest of the world) forever which impacts one's ability to integrate back into the mainstream world, and if working privately few are aware of it, which doesn't really hamper one's ability to integrate back into the mainstream.
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juha
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You'd rather be in Hollywood than in Porn Valley?
kara bare
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 1:40PM
In Hollywood, I can't have great sex on camera everyday.
Edited by - hardware on 9/5/2007 5:28:32 PM
popdog
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Kara Bare = Kara Mynor?
tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 5:27PM
BSD -
sweetie... I didn't tell them that it was you or not. But sigh... now they know about us.
You KNOW a couple of those points don't apply to you.
You're always so insecure about yourself, I don't know what to do with you. ;)
Drew Black
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Posted - Sep 5 2007 : 6:43PM
Be careful of you turn down some request for a "private". He just might turn around and post copies of your IDs and personal contact information all over the internet as retribution for your rebuttal.
debella56
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Posted - Sep 7 2007 : 11:52AM
As long as you dont confuse privates with prostitution. There is a fine line. As long as there is a third party camera guy there. It should not be a problem.
gingerlee
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Posted - Sep 7 2007 : 9:02PM
Thank you. Every single feature dancing thing I do or appearance I go to, I get at least 10 Myspace messages from guys wanting to know if I will do a 'private performance'. I get them often enough that I had to put a big note in my profile telling people that I won't do it no matter how special they think they are. I mean, I love meeting people who like me, it's an awesome feeling, but if somebody only wants to meet me so they can add me to their 'collection', I'd rather not meet them.
The whole 'everybody has a price' thing is usually thrown up at me as well, so I have just started writing back that I'll do it if they pay me 500K in cash, because most guys just keep pushing for a 'estimate' of what it would take to get me to even consider their request. They usually leave me alone after that, but I'm totally screwed if somebody actually has the ability to pony up that money.
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 5:36AM
@ Gingerlee
you have not explained the reason why you don't do privates
T0201
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 7:58AM
Unless you're talking about a POV scene, then there's really no line at all, as I'm sure those women who are so adamant about not doing privates do those without a problem.
 
Le Duc de Blangis
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:40AM
ha ha ha ha...
this thread is really funny.
full of hypocrisy.
pornstar, escort, pornstar, escort...
possibly, the only difference is that pornstars satisfy their needs of fame.
because women are histrionics.
really funny.
gingerlee
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 10:14AM
I don't do them because it does not appeal to me in the least, and because it's pretty much the lamest pick up line that people use on me. Doing a 'private' doesn't help me in this business. It doesn't up my rate on porn sets, it doesn't up my rate in clubs. It doesn't give me something to sell when I do a merchandise meet and greet either, so all it would do is put some money in my pocket and let a guy have bragging rights that they did a private 'performance' with me.
So...yeah, thanks, but no thanks. If I wanted to do private encounters I would take my ass to the Bunny Ranch and chill with the girls there.
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 11:11AM
Some people can't take No for an answer can they. Jeez, no one owes you an explanation for anything. Maybe women don't do privates because it's obvious some of the people asking for them are psychotic.
Le Duc - can you read? or are you just using this as an opportunity to insult women. Women are not all histrionics. The performers have made clear here they are building careers. They have explained that privates don't help their career (eg increase their performance rate.)
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 1:26PM
can you read? this thread topic is about why some porn girl don't do private. no one owes me anything, I'm only trying to understand making some questions. Maybe women don't do private because it's obvious that some of the people watching porn are looser with no money, and all that they can do it's jerk off ... maybe.
@ Gingerlee
thanks for your explanation.
so helping pornstar career means to increase performing rate. so your goal is to increase rate, that is to earn more money.
now I understand why some pornstar making privares ask up to 3 times their standard performance rate: their goal is to increase their rate doing privates.
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kara bare
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@badmotherfucker:
Give it a rest.
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KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 4:21PM
badmotherfucker,
I do understand your curiosity as well as a lot of the members that feel that it's a bit hypocritical when a Porn Star makes it a point to NOT do privates...
...I agree with the feeling sometimes. The problem is that some of the girls feel the need to go into lengthy explanations to why they don't when in reality all they need to say is: "because I just DON'T FUCKING WANT TO" (Isn't that simple and to the point?)
...bottom line is, to a lot of the girls, it's personal and some don't want to be public about it. It would be like me asking you if you finger your booty whole right before you cum, or how many times do you shake your pipi after you pee...the answer is "non of my business", right? So just be happy with the ones that do...there are websites that tell you who does and who doesn't...if you're looking for private then just go there...No offense intended to anyone, just my cheap two cents...(and I'm bored sitting in my hotel room)
XOXO
Katarina Kat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 4:39PM
I agree with Princess Chris..
you never know. the guy paying might be some kind a nutso or psycho.
There's a big difference between the average porn viewer and some psycho.
Then there's the STD issue. how the hell are you suppose to know for sure that this guy who's gonna be doing the poking is not a walking time bomb, or worse has a life threatning disease that will make her a gonner?
If you mean private as in "go for a date, and score at the end", well that requires the right attitude, style, character, moves and so forth.
Now if you mean private as in a movie shoot as I used to do, then that requires contracts, registered and documented medical screenings, filed scene locations, artists,people that will be participating, various legalities, and finally financial security, financial background such as an advance, an assurance of payment.
remember that the difference between porn stars and some mary jane, is that they do this for a living and need to have assurance that everything is legal and safe, with no loses.
nietzsche
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 5:30PM
Who gives a fuck who does privates or not?! Ginger, there is a conspicuous absence of anal in your profile at iafd. We need to do something about that.
Edited by - hardware on 9/8/2007 9:08:36 PM
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 6:45PM
@ KatarinaKat
I know who do privates and who doesn't, here I'm trying to understand WHY, because it seem a quite hypocritical behaviour. we are human beings, not animals, so we are curious and we like to understand reasons behind people behaviour, and to debate around it in forums.
So far I understood there are 2 main reasons:
1) safety problem
2) tricia deveraux point: average porn viewer would be fat, sweaty and with small dick, a ugly guy.
Le Duc de Blangis
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 7:14PM
of course, I like to insult women.
it's my favorite hobby.
the porn "career" without escorting is a "good" career of course. of course. of course. of course.

de Blangis.
ps: I can not read. I am a stupid french asshole.
 
KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 7:53PM
@badmotherfucker
I understand babe...the point I was trying to make too was that everyone has different reasons. Not every girl that doesn't escort falls under the same category of reasoning... The general reasons, everyone knows...such as safety, health, and very unappealing customers...etc. Other than that it varies from girl to girl, so you might want to do a poll rather than an open general topic to satisfy your curiosity. Because this is a topic where everyone has a different POV.
XOXO
Katarina Kat
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noahped
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I love your last post Katarina.
KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:01PM
^Which one babe? This last one here?...
...you just love me...period!...and I love you back! We have a date in Oct, right? Shoot for handjob...got it!
XOXO
Katarina Kat
KatarinaKat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:07PM
Now to something more worth talking about...is it just me or is Brianna Love looking absolutely amazing on her new movie? Yummy!
XOXO
Katarina Kat
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:08PM
On the subject of privates, I'm kind of curious how much of that type of work is really out there. It seems like this is the type of thing that would appeal to the porn consumer for whom money isn't really an issue, and I would imagine there are quite a few of those people out there.
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:09PM
Personally, the idea of paying for a private doesn't appeal to me any more than the idea of paying for a porn star escort. What would appeal to me, if I had the money, would be partnering up with some company to have them shoot the kinds of scenes I wanted to see - kind of a silent partner type thing, except not completely silent.
noahped
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 8:50PM
Yeah, the last post here but I think you are right...I love you and all your posts!
And yes we are set for Oct, I'm soooo glad you give handjobs on the first date!
I'll earn my keep though, my camera's been ready.
twilly
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 9:00PM
I think the comedian David Spade said it best;
"The day prostitutes look like Julia Roberts is the day I don't have a bank account left."
I did a recent check of "services" in my area. 99% of them looked like they could lose a few hundred pounds and still look like they could drive a Freightliner to Kansas and kick the shit out of somebody in a barfight. The only one that looked half decent was REALLY expensive.
Prostitutes look like shit.... Pornstars don't. The male actors they're with are also a fair example of the human race - not exactly a lot of beerbellies in porn you have to admit. Same deal with strippers.... does it occur? (services) - I'm sure it does, but it's rare.
Hardware All-Star Supporter
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Stop the press! People are individuals with their own motives? Who'd a thunk it?
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Posted - Sep 8 2007 : 10:57PM
I agree with this dude.
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T0201
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 3:40AM
Well if we accept the statistic that in the industry it's estimated that about 66%+ of the women escort, then Tricia's beliefs as to what the average viewer, availing themselves of a PSE, looks like isn't a particularly pressing concern to the women who are part of that area of the industry.
After all I'm sure for most women in the industry, including the ones who don't make themselves available, it's true that they frequently have to do scenes with guys they don't personally like.
Edited by - hardware on 9/9/2007 4:18:16 AM
Hardware All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 4:18AM
Why should we accept your statistic? What do you have to back it up besides hearsay?
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 4:19AM
@ T0201
You are right, as Rocco Siffredi said the true professional performer should be ready to have sex with any partner, also a 70 y.o. woman/man (Rocco did many granny-movies, that guy is a sex-machine!). He/she should not be concerned with partner appearance.
I think that if 66% performers escort, many other do it but they don't say it.
However it would not be difficult, if you have some money, to shoot a performer who don't do privates:
1) with 500$ you pay a webmaster and create your own porn website
2) with 5000$ you buy a pro camera, for example sony hdr-fx7e, and lights. you can also rent it for 200$/day
3) for free you take a friend who will be cameraman and assistant
4) for 300$/day you rent an apartment or a hotel room as location
5) 50-100$ for full STD test
Now you are a "pro" producer/director, and with 1000-3000$ you can hire every porn girl for a gonzo scene, + 20% to her agent.
Seymore Butt and Jules Jordan started this way.
all you need is money.
Kensington Chapp
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 5:22AM
^^^
How can you build a porn website with no porn?
Using images and footage that is not your own can land you in a lawsuit.
Also, in order to hire talent (through agency at least), one needs references or be a reputable photographer or company.
Kensington Chapp
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 5:46AM
These websites you speak of, are they real or symbolic?
badmotherfucker
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 7:58AM
you can use videos that you have shot with porn girl that does privates. references and reputation? I think if you have a pay-site with some videos you are in the business, come on, this is not hollywood, this is gonzo shot with few money and digital camera. every year hundreds of new small porn companies and websites born...
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tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Sep 9 2007 : 3:39PM
If you haven't been asking the girls to sign a release, then you can't use stuff you've previously shot.
So you live in Europe? It's been my experience that the porn girls there have a different attitude about stuff.
Several of my friends here do privates, and all of them have different attitudes about it, and different ways that they go about it. I asked a couple of them, out of curiosity, and they both said that they wouldn't let someone tape something without a non-release contract. They wouldn't simply go the route of not signing a model release.
About girls who do porn work with guys that they aren't attracted to physically, or with guys who struggle to be able to perform in the scene, then I agree that it wouldn't be a big deal to say yes to a private.
When I was a stripper, I danced in private for a couple of guys that I was comfortable with. I drew the line before bjs or sex, etc, though. Mostly because I don't enjoy having to ACT like I'm having a good time during sex. I really like sex, and although a couple of the times I was approached for a private including sex, I thought that the guy looked like he could be good in bed, it just wasn't something I wanted to do. Because if he wasn't good, I knew that if he was paying really good money to fuck me, it was my job to act like I was enjoying it. And like I said, acting like the sex is good isn't enjoyable to me.
Also, I love to give a guy pleasure, but if he's struggling, it makes me feel like I'm not doing my job well as a woman, so it would upset me on a personal level. I remember doing a peep show thing at a strip club where I worked, and I thought I was being REALLY sexy, but the guy was obviously having problems. It was so hard to not feel like it was MY fault... that somehow I just wasn't attractive enough or sexy enough for him.
In porn, I never wanted to feel like I was getting paid to act like I was enjoying sex (although there were a couple times when it did include that). I felt like I was getting paid by the production company so that they could have a good scene to sell and make money off of. The times when I didn't enjoy the sex (and granted, some scenes were enjoyable but hard work just because of all the starts and stops and uncomfortable locations like the desert or the cold outdoors), it just wasn't as worth it to me, cause getting into porn for me was always more about the sex and a career than about the money. For me, being in a scene was a balance of enjoying myself (because I still believe on the other side of the camera that a scene where the people are really enjoying themselves rather than just asking is going to be SO much better) and of doing what it took to give a good scene for the movie.
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 3:33AM
@ Tricia Deveraux
Well I think next time I'll shoot a private I will ask for the release firm, because who know, maybe tomorrow I will open my own porn website.
You seem a very sensitive person, you didn't like to simulate pleasure, and you worried if you were able to satisfy your partner.
But I have spoken with some European pornstar, and read many interview of american pornstar, and many of them said that they fake pleasure, that for them is only work and don't have real orgasms, also because continuous start and stop, unconfortable locations, etc.
When I watch a porn and I see female that scream too much, that say always "yes yes fuck my ass yeah!", I know it's fake. Because it is not natural, is too much. Also, I can see pain in some female face when thay take big dick in their ass. Katia Kassin in this forum said that the female performer has to smile while she feel pain 'cause she is being fuck hard in her ass.
On the other hand, all the male performer have no problem to get woody, but they take too much time to cum! when they have to cum, often they jerk off for many many time, while female performer is waiting with open mouth. I think when you are really excited you have not to to jerk off 5 minutes to cum. And apart some rare case as Peter North, Manuel Ferrara and few others, many of them have small load of cum... but when a man is really excited he has a big load.
My female friends say that porn is made by men for men, so all is focused about man pleasure, and all scenes end with cum, but there is not attention about female pleasure. Maybe that is the reason why many girl think watching porn is boring.
Not to say about sperm swallow and creampies. I don't think female performers are excited by swallowing big glass of cum, or let ten guy to cum into her ass. Let's say it, when they do this scenes, they are paid far more than usual, that's why they do it.
Some performers say they are not in porn for money, but only for sex and career. But I wonder, career is not about money? The more you grow in career, the more you are paid in scenes and club appearances. I think they know they won't be famous like Jenna Jameson, there is only one Jenna every ten years. So there are new 18th entering the business, and all say this will be the new Jenna, and after 2 years, they take their money back to home and leave the business, like did Keri Sable and others. Only few become really famous, and porn viewers want always see new and fresh faces in movies. So I think speaking about career is speaking about scenes fee and club rate for dancing, that is money, as in many others jobs, included mine.
Edited by - badmotherfucker on 9/10/2007 3:55:07 AM
gingerlee
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 12:53PM
The things in bold text are pretty much the funniest things I have seen in a while. You have no idea if guys have problems or not, you only see what is in a movie. For all you know the guy with a totally hard dick popped a couple Viagra/Levitra/whatever before the scene. Until you are on a porn set please don't act like you know what goes on there.
As far as the whole 'excited guys have big loads' comment, in my personal and work lives, guys can be really excited during sex and not have a gallon of cum (hypothetically speaking). How do you know if the guys without a ton of cum have already shot 2 other scenes that day, if they have been working every day for a month, etc.? Again, you don't know because you aren't there.
Don't state your opinions as if they are facts, because unless I missed something you aren't actually in the porn biz, you are in the 'getting privates on camera' biz. Is it that hard for you to understand that there are girls that don't want to do privates, and there are a ton of reasons that they don't want to do them? Really, just drop it and be happy with the girls that agree to do it.
Faceblaster
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 1:52PM
Load size has nothing to do with level of arousal. It has to do with diet, prostate health, and frequency of ejaculations.
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 2:09PM
@ GingerLee
I read some interview of directors who said that many male performers have difficulties to cum, and everybody can see it when they jerk off for 5 minutes in front of the girl's face. On the other hand they have small difficult to get woody, because "to get woody on command" is their job, also using cialis or viagra. If you read top performers interview they say a good male performer have to get woody on command and have a big dick, otherwise everybody could do it.
I read also performers interview, and they say that often they have to have sex with partners that they don't feel attractive.
I am not in the business but I know that if you have good health cum load depends on frequency of ejaculations and how you are excited, every man knows it.
don't be nervous, take easy, we are only chatting.
Edited by - badmotherfucker on 9/10/2007 2:16:41 PM
mjdavis
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 7:22PM
I would say just open up your own little pay site. in fact thee guys at clips4sale.com will make you your own site for free and it only takes like 3 minutes i think you just have to give them 10-20 % of your profit if they dont sell they dont make any thing either it practically made possible for anyone to get into porn. and if you wanna keep your scenes private just have the models sign a release but never release the movie. companies like bangbros has plenty unreleased scenes and nobody complains. they cant claim you scammed becuase there your scens.
infact i know a ameature producer from the midwest who did a couple scenes pov with local midwest talent"' they were ugly" but they signed the model released he uploaded to clips4sale.com for free so now he had an official page reference. a month later he went to to vegas for the expo and did a scene with katrina cat and a pov scene with amber wild. and this kid is like 21 yrs and put this together with in like 2 months. he did upload the amber wild and katrina cat scenes he is pretty legit, but he has some scenes unrelaesed that he does not plan on releasing
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Posted - Sep 10 2007 : 10:12PM
Hi mjdavis,
I am assuming you are talking about KatErina Kat from Vegas, right? or are you referring to me, KatArina Kat? Just wondering, because I don't know what you're talking about...lol...what's the name of the website babe?
XOXO
Katarina Kat
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