Not personally, but each their own. It would depend on how sacred marriage is to the individuals. I'm open minded but wouldn't be comfortable with my wife fucking other people for money or just pleasure. People cheat everyday, but yeah at least you don't know and when you do find out, you can make a decision and have a choice. Check it out: Pornstar wife goes to work today to do a 15 man gangbang with anal, ass to mouth and swallowing. Gets destroyed. Comes home and says, "Hey honey, I'm home. Rough day at the office. How was your day?" You say, "Oh, thats ok, you home now. What made it so rough today?" PLEASE, NO WAY I COULD PULL THAT OFF. THATS SOME SHIT!!!! Just my opinion. I'm curious of others view, especially pornstars that are married to other pornstars. Do they last? Probably not many. Its a crazy business. I understand some people separate love, sex and emotions, but damn that would be some hard shit. D4S
I'd love it. Just as long as she didn't lie about things and everything was out in the open. And as long as she still has some fucking left in her for me when she gets home.
Assuming everything else about him/her is in line with what I want and I feel their motivations for doing porn are psychologically/emotionally healthy and they very much understand why they're doing it and are happy, then yes, without a doubt. It always makes me a little sick to my stomach when I hear men talking about how they'd never marry a porn star; this idea that some women are worth marrying but others are only good for sexual gratification :(
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - Jul 27 2009 : 7:36AM
Not really thinking about marriage at the moment, but with my mum's desperate and constant nagging for me to get married I am sure that my mum wouldn't mind! I reckon it would be cool - your wife would have lots of great funny stories to tell that would keep you amused (and probably turned on) well into your twilight years and long after your pecker ceases functioning.
I'm engaged to one, and have done about half a dozen scenes with her. Neither of us have an expectation of sexual monogamy; fidelity, to us means honesty, not exclusivity. John
If I'm in love with her, then I could marry her. As long as her porn work is her job and she loves her work. If you don't enjoy your job then you should be doing something else.
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Rick James Jr Deactivated User
72 Posts 7/09
Posted - Jul 27 2009 : 11:16AM
maybe you should change your name from Hustles to Charlie Cuckold?
Except for a cuckold is not the dominant male who fucks other women on the regular. I'm talking about an open and honest, but extremely kinky relationship.
Yes yes and yes - in fact I have a list of potential brides. Seriously though it must be difficult to manage a relationship when either or both of you are pornstars and I admire people that can make it work as it shows emotional maturity. Relationships are difficult enough without all the insecurities that may arise when watching your partner apparently having the time of their life or even more concerning if they come home after a bad shoot hurt upset and perhaps in distress.
Guys who like watching porn aren't that much different from people who perform in porn movies. Because the guy watching porn ends up fantasizing about having sex like that too. Which means that in his mind he isn't any more pure or chaste than the performers in the porn film are. But I wouldn't marry just any porn-star. We would both have to like each other and be able to get along well. Because marriage is a lot more than just good sex. It's a relationship where people truly care about each other.
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Rosco Fuji Deactivated User
On the licking stick, Mr. Magic Dick! 3309 Posts 2/09
Posted - Jul 27 2009 : 3:09PM
Definitely. She'd all of a sudden become a little more exclusive to her projects, she'd make a few well placed promotional appearances, take some dance lessons, and hit the feature dance circuit. I'd be right there with the camera taking the $15.00 Polaroids. I'd then set up the website and then we'd venture into selling personalized scenes where'd she play directly to the person paying for the scene. Then I'd self produce a best of disk something like; E is for Eva, or G is for Gianna, and sell them along with the polaroid. The way I figure it, an autographed Polaroid and a disk for $40 or so, would probably net an extra $5,000 a w/e. We'd retire to a beach in Costa Rica after 5 years or so.
I'm not seeking it out, but i could see myself doing it. Her motivation for getting into porn really matters, since I'm not interested in women with too much emotional baggage. We all know there are some girls in porn like that. Otherwise, I'm in an open relationship right now, so dating a porn star wouldn't be drastically different. She just gets paid for her dalliances.
Um yeah sure, but her work would have to be behind her. Oh wait, that sounds like a pun. :) I would get jealous... Way too jealous... Not possessive, but man - the woman I'm crazy about getting shafted by another guy. Um I couldn't do that.
This is an interesting topic to me since I have been with Vanessa Blue for over three years now and in porn relationship years that is almost like a marriage. Its funny how most guys are focusing in on the sex with other people part. I think John Henry hit it on the head with his statement. But what about the fan part.... When you are out with her and out of now where a group of guys comes up and starts asking for autographs... seems reasonable, but what about when one of those guys starts getting too rude or vulgar or even touchy ? Are you ready to step up and act as a bodyguard ? I have had several instances over the past 3 yrs where I have almost had to come to blows with guys because they just got out of hand. One time with a guy at a Starbucks who literally threatened to go to his car and get his gun... What if this happens when you are with her family or even yours ? Imagine you are at dinner your parents and your pornstar GF and she gets "made" and the guy just starts saying things like "damn girl I aint never seen a girl suck dick like you before"... How is your mom going to react ? What are you going to do ? Just something to think about..... Michael www.2257Safe.com www.AdultBizLaw.com
I love that description. Very succinct. There are a lot of people who don't understand the kind of relationship you have. Those same people have very short attention spans so the way you put it works very well for those people. You'd have to be trying pretty hard not to understand that.
I would not date any pornstar... only a few. And I would marry someone like Angela Stone under the right circumstances (her being free, willing...) I like her a lot for who she is and she has always been one of my favourite.
If she was done making porn i would. Only because I couldnt handle not being her "only" I mean every woman has sex with men so I have no problems with that. Besides if your only marrying her for looks at not her heart then it wont ever work anyhow. Most of the girls now are still young and searching for themselves or trying to find thier place. Marriage is for when you know these things and are ready for that journey with that special someone. yes I would.
No way I could deal with my wife screwing hundreds of guys for a living. No matter how good looking she is that one just wouldn't fly. So no I could never marry a pornstar. I don't even know if I could marry a former pornstar.
Would those who claim to be willing to marry a porn star, also be willing to marry an escort? Because its basically the same stuff except one is filmed and the other done discreetly.
Many people are put off by the legality issue. The fact that escorting is a 'secret' activity, in a way that being a porn star is not, would be the turn off for most men. Also, while the activity may be the same (engaging in intercourse) the intent is not. A porn star has to convince the *camera* she is having a good time. An escort has to convince the *john* that *he* is having a good time. That usually requires a measure of intimacy above and beyond anything a porn star generally has to actually experience with the other talent. John
