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fu_q All-Star Supporter
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Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 3:46PM
Sierra,
Don't change and only do what you want to do.
There's nothing wrong with how you look, and there's nothing wrong with your reasoning for your choices.
These people who say negative things don't own you, and I wish that they would stop acting as though they do.
somedudeyo
Deactivated User

42 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 3:52PM
gonna read it sorry i'm new to this.
somedudeyo
Deactivated User

42 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 3:54PM
ok but nothing was being said , it was just a model site , but that's ok no probs
somedudeyo
Deactivated User

42 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 3:56PM
i'm gonna eat that cat if you don't change your avatar , looks tasty lol.
 
fu_q All-Star Supporter
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Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 4:08PM
^This might explain a lot.
BigBobxxx
Senior Member

2681 Posts
5/04
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 4:27PM
Suggestion to somedudeyo:
Just drop it...
No more explaining...
No more clarifying...
Please.
You've made your responses.
Just move onto something else, and leave this thread alone for a while.
Please.
somedudeyo
Deactivated User

42 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 4:36PM
ok man i'll drop it , i just needed to explain it because she misinterpreted what i said thought i was trying to insult her , if i knew she would be so insulted by that post i would not have posted it , actually i'm leaving her threads alone now you're right , her fans have the right to use the forum and talk to her , that's what this forum is for , see ya around on the forum.
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 11:14PM
Edited by - BigBobxxx on 3/26/2009 12:22:53 PM
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my god i didn't mean to insult anyone , please , don't take this the wrong way that was not my intention , i was not trying to insult you , if you don't know me , just go to mr marcus forum and search for me i'm "joy division" , if you read my posts you will see that i'm not into the " sara jay" type , i'm always complaining about it , and where did i say you were racist ? the word" racist" didn't even come out of my mouth , why would you say that ? i just think that there are many "thick" girls in the industry , and most of them do interracial , that's what i meant , so when i read a thread about you i thought damn this girl is very rare , so i'm really sorry i sounded like i was trying to insult you i swear that wasn't my intention , and nowhere did i say you were a bad person , far from me i don't even know you , i was just giving you some props and the lastpost that was deleted was NOT directed at you , it was directed at some brothas that love " thick" women i think thery ruin porn (just my personal taste) so that comment was directed at them , not you , and you said that i want to see you do interracil , please , search for " joy division" on mr marcus forum and read some of my posts and you will see the kind of girls i find attractive.
best regards and sorry for anything.
Edited by - somedudeyo on 3/26/2009 3:46:20 PM
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It is true that a lot of black men prefer "thick" women and I HAVE been practically begged to do IR because I'm "considered" thick, but just because I have the body type for that niche doesn't mean I'll do it. I was actually on the fence about it for awhile because I know I would get booked a lot more then I do now and I do need the money, but I'm not going to change who I am.
I'm sorry for freaking out too much but I've been getting talked down to a lot lately and it's killing me. I know I'm putting myself out there for critisizm but I never knew so many people could and would be so cruel to me. That's why I'm kind of taking some time off and spending some time on myself because I can't take it anymore.
Thank you to those that like the way I look and have been sweet to me, but there's only so much a girl can take. It's really sad how guys think they're so big and bad behind a freaking computer screen but those same guys wouldn't turn me down if I was at a bar hitting on them. It all just makes me so sad...
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 11:15PM
Thanks for having my back in the forum. I don't plan on leaving ADT, I love it here. Even though it sucks half the time, I like hearing peoples different views and opinions so I won't be going anywhere :)
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 11:16PM
Thanks hun, I appreciate it. <3
fu_q All-Star Supporter
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Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 26 2009 : 11:56PM
Welcome.
Geoff777
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565 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 27 2009 : 9:21AM
I respect that people have opinions on various topics but hopefully they can try to see all sides on a topic. To me Sierra, so as long as you're having fun doing what you do, isn't that what's important. You know how much I enjoy talking to you on here. The only things I'd want to pick apart from you is your clothes off of you quickly once I do meet you. And I'd still ask you out on a date in a heartbeat, in fact, can you do that lapdance you suggested for me on our first date or would you rather me spank your cute ass and massage your boobs on the first date and save the lapdance and other naughty stuff between us for our second date. Love to hear back from you.
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 27 2009 : 10:07AM

I respect that people have opinions on various topics but hopefully they can try to see all sides on a topic. To me Sierra, so as long as you're having fun doing what you do, isn't that what's important. You know how much I enjoy talking to you on here. The only things I'd want to pick apart from you is your clothes off of you quickly once I do meet you. And I'd still ask you out on a date in a heartbeat, in fact, can you do that lapdance you suggested for me on our first date or would you rather me spank your cute ass and massage your boobs on the first date and save the lapdance and other naughty stuff between us for our second date. Love to hear back from you.
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Haha, well we'll just have to see how the date goes before we start making any decisions ;-)
deputyduffy
Member

396 Posts
8/08
Posted - Mar 27 2009 : 9:07PM
Sorry SierraSkye, That's just the way it goes here....NO IR = hard time.
I wish I could give you some advice....but like I said if you don't do IR ....you are going to catch a hard time.... welcome to 2009.
 
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 27 2009 : 9:45PM
Ha, I understand. It is what it is. I don't mind a little feud here and there.
Pentasa
Deactivated User

233 Posts
9/08
Posted - Mar 27 2009 : 10:59PM
Sierra, you look absolutely gorgeous from head to toe! You oughta feel free to do whatever you and your boyfriend are comfortable with you doing. If you feel uncomfortable with IR, then by all means dont do it.
My only advice is that if you decide to change your mind about IR, do not leave it till too late.
simmond
Member

"Survive the droughts, I wish you well"........ Jay Z, American Dreamin
56 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 6:45AM
As a person that has met quite a few people in the adult industry, from, exotic dance, to escort, to porn, my personal assesment is that much of the adult industry is in contempt of black people. That is something I have experienced, felt, and know to be true. So when girls say that they will do anything with any white, latino, or asian actor, but will do nothing with with a black actor, and say that it is about their "preferences" I cant prove what may or may not be in their hearts, but I dont believe it. I think its because they think black people are inferior.
Pentasa
Deactivated User

233 Posts
9/08
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 8:13AM
^^^ Simmond, with all due respect lets get back to discussing the subject of this thread. There's already an IR-dedicated thread where you can post everything to do with IR porn.
BigBobxxx
Senior Member

2681 Posts
5/04
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 8:37AM
^ Not only that, Sierra has said that there are several things she won't do with anyone but her boyfriend -- regardless of race:
"However, I don't do creampies, swallow or do anal because that's something that my bf and I do in our personal life. I think those are more intimate acts so I'd rather not do it for porn."
And, poor Ron Jeremy.
How many girls have the infamous "no Ron Jeremy clause" written into their contracts?
Are they anti-Semites?
Geoff777
Member

565 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 9:09AM
I respect that people have opinions on various topics but hopefully they can try to see all sides on a topic. To me Sierra, so as long as you're having fun doing what you do, isn't that what's important. You know how much I enjoy talking to you on here. The only things I'd want to pick apart from you is your clothes off of you quickly once I do meet you. And I'd still ask you out on a date in a heartbeat, in fact, can you do that lapdance you suggested for me on our first date or would you rather me spank your cute ass and massage your boobs on the first date and save the lapdance and other naughty stuff between us for our second date. Love to hear back from you.
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Haha, well we'll just have to see how the date goes before we start making any decisions ;-)
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That's fair enough, be prepared to laugh a lot on our date. Don't forget to bring your pocket vibrator, you can use it on yourself under the dinner table and at the movie theater to make you smile even more so,hehe. Well, I did say our 1st date would be interesting. Love to hear back from you.
Thunderbird
Member

96 Posts
10/07
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 10:41AM
Damn, Ron Jeremy must be so desperate for work and prowling around, these girls have to go to the extent of writing a 'no Ron jeremy' clause into their contracts just to keep him at bay, LOL! Even if they did, would you blame them? The guy is gross and repulsive, no women in her right mind would fuck him! And no sane being would call these girls anti-semitic for refusing to work with Ron Jeremy so your anology is as flawed as your reasoning. Consider this: many girls who work with Brian Pumper refuse to work with him again citing attitude problems. Would I call these girls racist? Hell no! Brian Pumper doesn't represent all Black male performers in the business.

Discriminating against one repulsive being is different from excluding a whole group of male performers based on their race but someone like BigBobxxx doesn't seem to understand that. If you are somehow suggesting (and I know you are) that Ron jeremy in his current state is better than Lex, Napier, Slayer, Pumper, Marcus or any of the current young black male performers then you my friend are a racist.
fu_q All-Star Supporter
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Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 11:26AM
^Is there anyone who hasn't been called a "racist" in this thread at this point?
How silly.
Thunderbird
Member

96 Posts
10/07
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 12:04PM
No, but BigBobxxx aint just anyone. He is a moderator! How can he moderate with fairness while harboring these deeply biased sentiments?
Edited by - Thunderbird on 3/28/2009 12:27:51 PM
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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^Lucy Pinder
18634 Posts
4/08
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 1:17PM
^ Thunderbird you really need to take a chill pill (I can't believe I just used that 80's reference).
Bigbobxxx's line about Ron Jeremy was clearly a joke and an attempt to lighten the mood, an effect which you have chosen to reverse.
Even I, who have argued ad nauseum about various topics related to race here at ADT, can recognize a silly joke for what it is.
To everyone: It's unfortunate that questions of race came up in the first place in this thread, as it was initially about girls not working with someone other than their significant other, or only doing creampie vids with their significant other, etc. But those questions did come up, and many have addressed them. In the future though, I think we should keep some of the discussions related to the always-contentious issue of female porn performers and their choice to work or not work with black male performers to threads like She won't do black guys and other similar ones devoted to the topic.
 
BigBobxxx
Senior Member

2681 Posts
5/04
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 3:51PM
Dear Thunderbird,
Clearly, you are an individual of limited intelligence.
That, and you don't appear to be playing with a full deck.
I don't need to take such absurd crap from you, and I'm not about to!
You don't contribute anything worthwhile here as it is.
One more baseless, insulting attack on me -- or anyone else here -- and I will personally ask Steph to deactivate you (and your other screen names).
Myload
Senior Member

A rose is what you are to me
2069 Posts
6/03
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 6:49PM
Sierra, you are definitely my type in looks. Also, I respect any decision you make in your career. You the right to choose what you will and won't do, and you shouldn't care what anyone else thinks.
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 8:25PM
Thanks hun =)
Thunderbird
Member

96 Posts
10/07
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 9:12PM
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 10:18PM
Aw, byeeeee!
KAMTHAGREAT
Member

122 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 11:56PM
sierra its kamthagreat from metrobabes. wow i didn't know you were on here. another place where my words can get you horny and wet. oh and you are definitely my type.
simmond
Member

"Survive the droughts, I wish you well"........ Jay Z, American Dreamin
56 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 4:13AM
Ok so my question is, how does a couple decide that while its OK for the woman to have sex with white men but no black men.
With regard to Ron Jeremy, If I as a black man say that I am willing to work with attractive black women, but no white women, that would be racist, since I would be saying that there are no white females suficiently acceptable enough to work with. Again, if sex work is sex, its personal. I think its work, therefore I think It should be dealt with as such.
A girl that had a "no Ron Jeremy clause" written into her contract, in my opinion, would be behaving unprofessionally. If I am considering offering an unknown girl a contract and she tells me that she is unwilling to work with the most famous male figure in the industry, Im wondering about her commitment to being the best. Im wondering if she is going to turn up pregnant in the middle of her contract or decide, after I have invested a small fortune into making her famous, that she "doesnt feel comfortable" having sex with any male other that her BF.
Sex work is work. Keep treating it like sex, and dont be surprised when people stop paying for it.
Version 2:
Ok so my question is, how does a couple decide that while its OK for the woman to have sex with white men, no black man is sufficiently acceptable and that not be a race based distinction. Now the consensus opinion here seems to be that such distinctions are OK because this is sex work. Thats fine but realize that what you are saying is that you are willing to excuse people from normal professional demands in this realm because they have chosen a profession that requires them to do things they consider to be too personal in nature to be willing to do for money. For them its sex, for a waitress, it may be serving food. So If I consider prepairing a persons food to be an intimate act, I may be unwilling to do so for people of a different race.
With regard to Ron Jeremy, If I as a black man say that I am willing to work with black women, except for one unattractive black woman, but no white women, that would be racist, since I would be saying that there are no white females suficiently acceptable enough to work with. Again, if sex work is sex, its personal. I think its work, therefore, I think it should be treated professionally.
A girl that had a "no Ron Jeremy clause" written into her contract, in my opinion, would be behaving unprofessionally. If I am considering offering an unknown girl a contract and she tells me that she is unwilling to work with the most famous male figure in the industry, Im wondering about her commitment to being the best. Im wondering if she is going to turn up pregnant in the middle of her contract or decide, after I have invested a small fortune into making her famous, that she "doesnt feel comfortable" having sex with any male other that her BF.
Sex work is work. Keep treating it like sex, and dont be surprised when people stop paying for it.
Edited by - BigBobxxx on 3/29/2009 8:17:00 AM
simmond
Member

"Survive the droughts, I wish you well"........ Jay Z, American Dreamin
56 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 4:36AM
duplicate post deleted
Edited by - BigBobxxx on 3/29/2009 8:17:59 AM
deputyduffy
Member

396 Posts
8/08
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 7:39AM
Time to add this.....
white-in-tub-435x290.jpg
Nuff Said
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 9:56AM
Kammmmmmm! <3
I'm hot and horny just thinking about you! lol Let's fuck!!
 
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 9:58AM
Awwwwww! You made me smile!! You're so sweet <3
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:02AM
No disrespect to you but before you put your 2 cents in and think you know the right answer to every situation in the industry, how about working in it first so that you CAN have reasoning to back up your statements. This isn't completely directed towards you, it goes for everyone who thinks they know it all.
Edited by - BigBobxxx on 3/29/2009 6:34:00 PM
HD_Apprentice
Member

I like my ears
10 Posts
3/08
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:14AM
*cat snarl*
groin-grabbingly
Member

555 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:31PM
my god there are some real weirdo losers who post on this forum. like questionable grasp of reality
what did i get myself into?
Richie04
Deactivated User

50 Posts
4/08
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:35PM
simmond>>>Ok so my question is, how does a couple decide that while its OK for the woman to have sex with white men, no black man is sufficiently acceptable and that not be a race based distinction.<<<
It is a race based distiction. As with so many other Americans simmond you simply don't know the difference between racism and tribalism - something that I posted about in the appropiate folder "She won't do black guys"
Perhaps you should head over there.
Myload
Senior Member

A rose is what you are to me
2069 Posts
6/03
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:37PM
Don't worry, not everyone here is like that.
groin-grabbingly
Member

555 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 10:43PM
yeah probably not but you know what? it makes me question porn audiences. maybe they really are full of poorly socialized misogynists and delusional cranks. maybe it is not so normal or healthy after all. i guess i am not really comfortable being part of that crowd
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 29 2009 : 11:50PM
That's what I'm saying! Craziness! Way too much freaking drama for me. I'm staying clear for awhile so people can calm down and be all happy like before. I hateee drama!
fu_q All-Star Supporter
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Marv Montag (@PornOfYore)
2506 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 1:24AM
To the last two posts:
The world in general is full of all sorts of madness and bizarre types.
I post here and on an 80s metal board, and this place is FAR better than that one in terms of craziness...and if you want some real fun with angry people, try XPT.
My job involves dealing with all sorts of highly-educated people in a professional setting, and they are as whacky as they come, too.
Don't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch--every place has its stranger elements.
I actually think that this board is one of the relatively sane places on the internet.

Edited by - fu_q on 3/30/2009 1:30:50 AM

ma meeshka
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3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 3:14AM
just don't read it.
i don't.
my eyes skip straight over it.
BlackSix All-Star Supporter
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pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world
12377 Posts
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Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 4:11AM
Ya think?
Richie04
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Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 9:41AM
fu_q>>>I post here and on an 80s metal board, and this place is FAR better than that one in terms of craziness...<<<
I wanna second that. It appears some people here just dont have much experience on internet message boards. This place is pretty calm. It was the first thing I noticed. I attributed it to (correctly or not) the fact that people who come here are mostly all adults. So you don't get a whole lot of stupid teenagers writing stupid things.
If you join a message board where things are just *too* calm (no drama at all)I find it to be so boring that I just leave even if I'm interested in the topic of discussion. People on those boards are acting like robots or computers - no emotion at all (they cant even laugh at a joke) - and thats just not real.
Note how this post violates message board policy since it's "off the topic" of the thread. Do I care? No! I'm not a robot. When threads get side tracked thats when you know people are just being people.
shakademus
Deactivated User

Oi get me brain medicines on the National 'ealf
29 Posts
7/07
Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 5:35PM
why thank you
KAMTHAGREAT
Member

122 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 30 2009 : 6:50PM
hey sierra i'm down. just make sure you clear your schedule for the day. some real freaky stuff is going down.
Geoff777
Member

565 Posts
3/09
Posted - Mar 31 2009 : 7:05AM
Uhuh, I knew you were gorgeous, I didn't realize you're extremely hot until I saw that picture of you in that jacuzzi. Can I sit in one w/you sometime, you don't need to be naked in it either. Just seeing that cute smile of ours would probably make the jacuzzi water more hot.
SierraSkye
Member

I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3
344 Posts
2/09
Posted - Mar 31 2009 : 10:20AM

Uhuh, I knew you were gorgeous, I didn't realize you're extremely hot until I saw that picture of you in that jacuzzi. Can I sit in one w/you sometime, you don't need to be naked in it either. Just seeing that cute smile of ours would probably make the jacuzzi water more hot.
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Jacuzzi's are my fave so let's go! haha
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