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since they are on the scene working with all these different guys, i bet in real life they go for the super model kind of guys, i was on hot or not and got rated 8.2. but you have to be 9 or 10 for porn stars to even give you time of day. porn stars would not settle for any less then really hot guys. it sucks i am above average looking, great body, yet shy, and cannot get any girl to even look at me. anyone else have any thoughts feel free thanks.
In interviews most porn star's usually say their personal life / sex life is pretty average. I just saw an interview with Ice La Fox where she said she's very picky in real life about who she sleeps with and said she's never been with that many guys in her personal life. Edited by - VernonRoberts on 3/11/2009 12:31:42 PM
Well they don't stop being humans because they're in porn. People tend to pick the best partners they can, 4's pick other 4's just like 10s pick other 10s. I think I would be extremely intimidated if I had a chance to ask out a porn star no matter where I fall in that scale. Porn has somewhat ruined me, I can't have any clocks in the room when I'm fucking or I'm constantly checking it to see how long I last. I keep thinking I have to last at least 40 minutes for me to satisfy my non-porn star girlfriend. If I had a chance to be with one, I'd imagine I'd have to compete with Eric Everhard and fuck like a jackhammer to get even close to a repeat performance.
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Posted - Mar 11 2009 : 1:49PM
Eric Everhard's style is hardly romantic! There aren't that many women that I'm aware of that would genuinely liked to get fucked like that. It's something that works in porn more than real life. Having sex in an Eric Everhard style could hurt people.
Many of us have seen pictures of female porn stars with their boyfriends or husbands. Some of the guys are very handsome, but many of them are actually quite ordinary. Some of the guys are downright homely. I think your premise is pretty far off the mark.
Hell, they HAVE to be picky - ain't any of 'em picked ME yet, LOL! Seriously, I'd assume nothing. Sex on camera is their business and vocation - it has no more to do with their choice of men that YOUR job affects your choice of women. "I like to watch"
Just because they are having sex on camera does not mean to say that they only like "certain" guys.Like most people out there we all have our ideal soulmate deep in our head/heart the difficult part is meeting that person that you dream about...ok enough of the gay stuff who wants to fuck lol..im joking honest lol.
In my personal life, I have to connect in a deeper way with someone for me to like them let alone have sex with them. I have not had many different sexual partners outside of porn. I think its pretty annoying that once someone finds out what I do they think that b/c I do porn that I'm open to fucking any and everybody, especially if they offer me money. I don't think that's the case with any porn girls. Some will do for money but not all and I think its kind of rude to assume. I think that because I do porn and I have sex with all different kinds of guys all the time that when Im on my own Im not really into looks. I mean, we all know when we see someone we're not attracted to but I'm not picky. LOL if you ever saw any of my ex's you'd probably think (looks wise) I had pretty average standards, or even, for some, kinda low...LOL. xoxo Kelly Divine
uhh what have porn have you been watching? what hot guys? ok, there's a few.. but.. i would say my standards for cock size and general fucking ability has gone up after porn. as far as looks go... meh.
wow kelly, sinnamon, hillary i am impressed, i mean i made this topic for the fact to know what you go for off scenes. i be honest i have dated few different girls i am good looking guy but always meet the wrong girls and then it brings me down. i am not no really hot looking guy but i am little above average. but i am honest,caring, romantic, and knows how to treat a lady. but seems like girls dont give me a chance. so its nice to see some of your responses cause your all beautiful girls, knowing it can give me a chance out there. thanks for some of the ladys that responded to my topic. love ya all.
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Posted - Mar 12 2009 : 5:31PM
On camera or off I have ALWAYS been way more attracted to personality than to looks. I don't have a physical type. If someone turns me on it is initially because they are confident, in charge and mature. If they turn me off it's because they are self-centered, wimpy (in personality) or assholes. Once I am drawn to someone on that level then I start to find all these parts about them that I LOVE physically. To the OP I would stop worrying about if you're hot enough or good enough in the bedroom and work on simply being confident. You say you're honest, caring, romantic and know how to treat a lady. You also say you're shy. Maybe if you can work on getting past your shyness the ladies will see these other great qualities that you possess. Most girls I know, when asked what they want out of a man list these kinds of qualities rather than physical ones. Good luck! Charlotte
Most of the guys I've seen most porn stars actually involved with (beyond a fling) would rarely stick out in a crowd. There's a bit of an illusion that takes place when you watch porn; you're watching what you imagine to be these women's most exciting moments of their lives. With the exception of sex, every other facet of our lives are documented and broadcast - live in some cases - into your living room. We grow up being told 'this is how a date is supposed to go, this is how relationships work, this is how jobs work.' What you might to catch on to, is that what you're seeing is based on the advertising value of that show; dates require Schick razors, Guess jeans, a meal at Applebees, then off to watch Watchmen before kicking back some MGD 64s before you go home to enjoy a Redbull and Trojans. The same is true with the content in most porn; you're not usually watching what the female talent enjoys, you're watching what porn consumers are *told* they are supposed to enjoy. Anyway girleater, it sounds like your lack of confidence is the biggest issue. Being shy is always tough, even if you are confident. The best thing you can do is stop wondering if you look *good* enough and focus on if you *are* good enough. Figure out what your favorite things to do in life (outside of the house) are and go do them; beautiful women can be found everywhere, doing many of the same things you enjoy. One of your posts mention you live in Chicago? There's tons of groups that do everything from photography, to book clubs, to day trips out on Lake Michigan. If you really want to meet people, get out there and do the things you love. Regards, John
Charlotte, you are so gorgeous. I love your natural appeal. Only if I lived in LA... Porn Stars are real people too. Most people don't realize that it's just a job, not a lifestyle (well, some make It their lifestyle).
i dont think you know what you are talking about. i mean shit yeah i am picky about who i sleep with in my personal life always have been had nothing to do with me doing porn. i would say i have never slept with anyone below a 7(even when i got my beer goggles on) before porn or now. i keep higher standards just because i do. i dont walk around with my nose in the air when i am out. that being said.... i feel my boyfriend is def a 9, (i have never met a 10) i prefer for guys to be in good shape, non-smoker, not a druggie or drunk, have his shit together(my boyfriend has a 9-5 and is going to school for his mba) so alot of things play a part into attraction. i personally think you are very insecure, and need to grow some, if you feel your chick isnt into you its because women dont like insecure little boys. truth hurts. i think you need to work on your-self before you worry about being with someone else. i prefer guys who are not "model" types bc they are more down to earth and no so into them selves... i know alot of girls who dont go for model types. "im the girl your mother warned you about"
thanks charlotte, john,and hillary that was very cool. you seem like really good people and its hard now a days to find that in someone. Kimi thanks also and i agree i wanted to go somewhere different on here were everyone maybe can get little personal with everyone just to get to know each others lifes there living. lilmiss more power to you i know you took few shots in there at me. but you know what i am me and you are you. unfortunately maybe everyone is not like yourself.
On a side not, RE "lovetoeatgirls"... I've often wondered about the curious correlation between guys with an obvious lack of game, and their purported love for giving girls oral. I'm not knocking the transcendent joy of pussy eating but, for some reason, the ones that get it the least are the ones that claim to like it the most. Maybe the answer's obvious. Nevermind.
I think a 9, pretty much qualifies as a model type...at least lookswise. Which i think was the point he was trying to make. Pornstars go for hot guys, in their personal life generally, unless there's an average guy who's just really nice. I think that's pretty normal.
This is part of why there should be that 'negative Mackenzee Pierce' thread. Every other performer was critical, but able to keep the cheapshots to herself. You don't seem to have that ability built into your brain at all however. You are by far the most negative poster on here, pornstars or not. Oh, with all respect to your boyfriend, but I've seen him and he can barely pass as a 7 for most women, let alone a 9. This shows that taste does vary a lot and that there's a lid for every jar. One thing miss Pierce did say that is vaguely useful is that confidence is important. I've never met any girl or woman that is into insecure men who worry about their looks. Women are insecure creatures by nature and the last thing they need is someone that worries more than them and steals their chance to be negative. This doesn't restrict itself to looks only. Women (in general) like a man with a stable job, a group of friends of his own, hobbies of his own and things like this. A lot of women also want to be the better looking one in a relationship, whether they want to admit it or not. What you need to do is come across confident, but not macho. You need to be comfortable enough to show all your good sides and surpressing this shy attitude. Don't be afraid to show it once in a while though, I think many women can appreciate it if it's not too dominantly present. Besides all this though, what makes you think that pornstars can even be that picky most of the time? It's not as if truly good guys will line up to be with a pornstar when they can get equally (or more) beautiful women that are only going to be theirs and not have to share them with a different man every day and a bunch of fans masturbating over them. I think you may be romanticizing pornstars a bit too much based on how important sex is to yourself. I can assure you that the majority of men wouldn't seriously make a long-term relationship decision based on if a girl can give a good blowbang performance. It takes a very specific type of guy to even tolerate being with a pornstar, and I think this solid, stable and extremely open-minded, non-possessive and polygamous personality is what the average pornstar is looking for. That's why it's a bit flawed to make it seem as if they have a list of 'hot' guys to choose from for a serious relationship.
he has a great body, because he works out alot, its his way of relieving stress, however he wouldnt be featured on a mens fitness magazine, he has exotic looks (1/2 filipino and half swedish), a good size cock 8 inches and thicker, has dark tan skin, great smile, dark eyes n hair which i love, which makes him a 9 to me. tinybee, im not negative i speak how i feel when i feel it and am honest and blunt, personally i couldn't care less how you or others who don't like how i am feel about me.... im don't feel i should have to censor or sugar coat how i feel or think, and the funny thing is you don't even know me... mods on here have met me directors know me and they like how i am a no bullshit person. take it or leave it. that being said, i suggest not getting overly worked up about things i saw, i mean cmon "lets start a negative thread about mackenzee" that's mature right? then i guess you'd just give me more amo huh and be stooping to my level huh.... really just take what i saw with a grain of salt if you don't agree cool and if so that's great too, i mean isn't that why we are so lucky to live in the U.S... freedom of speech, we have the right to voice out opinions. and no one has to agree or disagree if the so choose. I find it comical you are speaking on behalf of most women saying my boyfriend couldnt pass for more then a 7, hmmm how would you know this, are you MEL GIBSON from WHAT WOMEN WANT, Can you hear the houghts of women who look at my boyfriend or have seen him... when have you seen him? on myspace? hahaha he doesnt go to conventions with me bc he has a job so i know it hasnt been at conventions and porn parties, bc i rarely go to those myself, unless you are thinking of a good friend of mine dave who i go to porn parties with and he is just that a friend! thats the best damn "barely a 7" i have ever seen bwahahahaha!
anyhoo, as i step off my soap box.... lol i do agree with alot of what you said about it taking a strong, secure, confident etc type of guy to be with a porn star.... Troy is an amazing man. very understanding and all the things you listed EXCEPT the polygamist thing.... he values a monogamous relationship however he knows he isn't going to change me and will stick by me until i am ready to be done with porn bc he knows and respects it something i want to do, he met me doing this. he also sees i don't snort my $$$ up my nose, drink it down or waste it on expensive handbags, i actually spend wisely and save... which shows i am responsible and am being smart with all the $$$ i make. that's one thing he also respects is how responsible i am for only 21, but i guess living on my since i was 17 would do that to me..... lovetoeatgirls.... look man if what i said seemed to be taking a jab at you, pardon me i just think you need to be more secure with your self before you go out trying to make things work with women, and the real reason women want someone more secure(unlike what tinybee said) is because women instinctively want a strong, mindful, confident man to be able to trust and know she can rely on for whatever reason. kinda like the dumb fairy tales we read as tots.... prince charming will be this or that and do this or that... most of it is bs but some has some factual points.... prince eric from sleeping beauty never coward down to with evil witch wo cast a spell on her, he was pleasant looking, fearless, confident, and very "charming" that being said we want those are traits, but we are all human and understand people have flaws and short comings which is where finding a great girl will come in hand.... she will understand those things and love you anyways, but you have to be able to be happy with your self first before others can love you. so i hope this new post makes more sense and its hurtful to you..... "im the girl your mother warned you about" Edited by - lilmissmackenzeepierce on 3/13/2009 2:02:46 PM Edited by - lilmissmackenzeepierce on 3/13/2009 2:14:18 PM
^Thank you madam. It's good to hear that your in such a great & understanding relationship. No matter what your occupation is, everyone deserves a chance to love and be loved. Edited by - xayhoundb on 3/13/2009 6:00:26 PM
im going to agree with sinnamon on this one...to me personality is 90% of who i fall for. you can look like david beckham (sorry i think he is gorgeous) but be dull and boring and i wouldn't look in your direction twice. my last boyfriend was 6'2 and 135 pounds...tall and super skinny! he was a sweetheart and treated me great which was all that mattered. the boyfriend before him had the same body type and was covered in tattoos...not really good looking by most girls standards but i loved him just the same. now im dating a 5'7 Filipino with an awesome personality. just my input...quality women wont really care about your looks, if your a stand up guy and you got that killer personality theres no reason you cant be somebodys eye candy
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Posted - Mar 14 2009 : 12:16PM
All I want to know is ....is there any hope for us old farts ? I'm 54 and most girls the age of the typical porn stars look at me as if I just emerged from the crypt ! For the most part where I live women my age or even their 40's have let themselves go. They either weigh 300 pounds, have an oxy habit or have the shittiest attitude imaginable.
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Posted - Mar 14 2009 : 12:40PM
What?? With 18 year old girls? Sure, if they have Daddy issues.
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Posted - Mar 14 2009 : 12:47PM
Why is assumed that a porn girl has to be dating a super hot guy? Did you ever see the average porn girl without professional makeup on? She's maybe a 4 or 5. Did you ever see the E! special at the Canne Film Festival with Jenna Jameson? They showed her in the shower with no make up on at all. She clocked in at a 4 tops. Gauge brought along Mojo from the trailer park they were living in. Outside of porn, she wouldn't get a second look, but a few facials and dp's and she's all of a sudden a godess.
Jag i got a feeling your day is coming soon with someone we know lol lol those pics in LA made you 2 look like a great couple. Charlotte your a stunning and amazing young women any guy will be lucky to share his life in and out of the bedroom with you. Hillary that's one of the coolest things knowing you met your man on myspace. just makes me appreciate you even more that your just so open minded and i respect that a ton.
no disrespect to no one i feel in porn or out of porn. not just porn stars everyday beautiful women that's what many of these girls are. the most important thing is confidence some of the girls have said that here already. it goes both ways i have to say when i worked at the bar one of the best looking girls i have ever had sex with ever all she lacked was confidence. she was stunning and beautiful but she had no self esteem or confidence and i could only hang with her for about a month. in the end i just could not deal with her image of herself witch was ugly. i trash myself enough since i put the weight on the last 10 years now just starting to fix that. knowing a lot of the girls in the industry the last 5 years has shown me they are just doing a job and living life. my attraction to so many of them is they are the most open minded people you will ever meet in the world. they also happen to be beautiful. many people don't give them credit for being as smart as many of them are. that's the shame once you get to know many of them you can find some really amazing people are behind all the makeup and sex on camera. nice topic thanks for making it and thanks to all the girls who have posted replys Dan
I bet most of them dig chicks in there personal life,and anyways you have to be a strong ass self secure man mentally to be involved with a porn star,especialy if you are not involved in the buisness in any way,most men could not honestly handle seeing there woman or there wife in those type of positions on screen.I know i could not,just being real.
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Posted - Mar 15 2009 : 7:40PM
I think the responses would vary as much as the types of women there are within the industry. Different individuals look for different things, or have differing criteria. The only unifying thing is the profession.
thats awesome that you said all those great things. its interesting how people can be so judgmental about what we do and assume we all must be twacked out and stupid, which like you said is def not the case for us all. i know i am very smart person, however i am lazy with spell check and grammer, and i can be a bit harsh but that doesnt make me an idiot like some have assumed. alot of these girls tend to be either incredibly dumb as rocks or pretty friggin smart. thanks again for all the kind words. you said it perfectly, we are just open minded chicks living our life, and well fucking on camera for the world to see.... take it as you will but you sir have a very great understanding of the girls in the industry. "im the girl your mother warned you about"
If you don't break the rules, you'll never have any fun! 717 Posts 10/06
Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 8:40AM
The women I know in the adult business who have husbands or "significant others" tend to pick men who are essentially the opposite of what & who they deal with on a set. Partners who are going to ground them and take them back to a comfortable everyday reality. I have written about my husband before..he's hardly a troll, but he's not some big, buff man-toy. He's a big teddy bear who looks out for me in every way. He's a very caring lover and knows where all the buttons are. He also knows how to cook & clean and he's not afraid to operate a washer or a vacuum. He's very supportive of what I want to do, but he has his own career and doesn't live off me like the infamous suitcase pimps. While I tend to be older than most of the women I work with, most of them want somebody who is sort of the "anti-porn" guy. They want someone who will allow them to turn off and be themselves. And most of the adult performers that I know, have been in long-term relationships with their partner. Edited by - mindee on 3/16/2009 8:43:59 AM
well i would date a porn star in a heartbeat and still respect what she is doing, i would still be there for her and support her, in all honesty i have met a few porn stars and honestly they are like the sweetest girls in the world, i have dated some girls that are very bitchy and they dont even compare how beautiful. and i am also very impressed with some of your answers you gave, love ya all. =)
So many things to touch on here I don't know where to begin... I think the general thinking is that good looking women have more options when it comes to guys because they're goodlooking and have a greater number of men (and sometimes better class of men) fawning after them. I don't believe the pornstar aspect really has much to do with it. Since goodlooking girls have a bigger male pool to choose from, one would think that they would automatically go for an equally goodlooking guy...but most goodlooking girls don't go straight for the goodlooking guys. Girls aren't wired like men and looks just aren't as important to most of them. From what I've seen good looks aren't even that high on most women's lists. I'd say money/fame/power usually trumps looks. We see that all the time in Hollywood. I'd also say that having "game", a good rap or charisma trumps goodlooks too as to what women tend to go for. I'm sure we all know that guy how isn't that goodlooking but seems to always have hot women around him. But if we narrow this down to pornstars and/or strippers, not all of them of course but from what I've seen it seems like a lot of them end up with very poor choices for boyfriends. From what I've seen pornstars and strippers tend to have a nack for hooking up with guys with no money (ie no job)and no real assparations in life. The term "loser" may apply but I don't want to toss out that word. It also seems that on top of not having a whole lot going on most of these guys seem to be jerks also. Yet some girls stay with those guys and defend them to the end when everyone else around clearly knows the girl could do a lot better. I know every pornstar and stripper doesn't have this going on with them but from what little I've seen/heard it seems to happen more often than not. I also know it happens with girls who aren't in the adult industry also. Anyone care to chime in one why they think this happens so often? Or am I way off the mark and it's not as bad as I think it is? PS...I really don't know any of the girls here so please don't think I'm talking about anyone who post here. I'm talking in very general terms. Edited by - draxxx on 3/17/2009 9:39:17 PM
Have you seen some of the guys that porn stars are with in their personal lives? Not going to name anyone, but some of the hottest girls have been linked to some "regular" looking dudes. They must have a great sense of humour.
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Posted - Mar 11 2009 : 12:05PM
On a side not, RE "lovetoeatgirls"... I've often wondered about the curious correlation between guys with an obvious lack of game, and their purported love for giving girls oral. I'm not knocking the transcendent joy of pussy eating but, for some reason, the ones that get it the least are the ones that claim to like it the most. Maybe the answer's obvious. Nevermind.