Laurie Cameron Fan ----------------------------------------------------------- shakes wrote: Fuck romance, bring on the hardcore stuff. If I want romance and loving, I'll just go to my wife.
What is wrong w/ "whore"? Women always prefer strong males and now days, it could mean physically and financially. Is "gold digger" just another upper class way of saying "whore"? If a woman marry for money, they get to be the upper class wife even though they fuck someone who they are not attracted to for years. However, if a woman fuck someone for a hour and now they are considered as whore?
What is wrong w/ whores anyway? Someone is willing to pay and someone is willing to give. Sounds like capitalism to me. Its been around for the existence of human race and it should be around for the remaining existence of human race. ----------------------------------------------------------- There's something called respect It's not like if you pay someone you can do or say everything to him
I don't fucking get it. If I told the person in advance that I will spit/piss/fuck/fist/slap them .. whatever, but I am willing to pay and they agree, what the fuck is wrong w/ that? Porn stars get rough scenes all the time as long as they agreed to it. They can walk out anytime.
Which part of my sentences said that I pay someone for sex but could treat them less? If I expect to treat them rough, I will let them know and if they agreed, great. Isn't this the direction that porn is going anyways? If one of the major porn companies actually treat porn stars like that over time, don't you think they will stop getting "employees" (or should I say whore)? Anytime you violates the rules of "capitalism", it isn't good for business. All I am saying is "LEAVE YOUR FUCKING RULES OUT OFF WHAT TWO MUTUALLY AGREED PARITIES ARE WILLING TO PAY AND GIVE".
I see that we are getting off topic. My vote is you keep your loving/caring @ home. I will only pay to see hardcore sex.
And if that is what you want to see, then that is something you will have no trouble finding. The point here is that there are some of us that would like to see sex that is energetic and/or rough but still respectful in a sense beyond that of the girl getting just what she signed up for - and we are having a hard time finding porn like that! "Romantic" is perhaps the wrong word here, but a sex scene can really be both tender and rough and the roughness is so much hotter when you get it with a bit of tenderness or affectionateness. There are certainly individual scenes in a few movies where this is achieved, but why is it so rare?
This thread that juha started a few days ago has interest .. even yours .... i haven't looked at posts and hits lately but both are growing. Do you have any idea what that might mean? Think about it and get back to us.
that's very sad ... dicknjane enjoyed Darren James .... he was very "romantic" with that rather large tool in those anal scenes. i'm going to drop everything and scratch TTBoy's videos from our queue ... i just can't support that kind of stuff. is he taking care of Darren and is he still filming unprotected sex in Brazil where HIV is epidemic and if so isn't everybody worried about another incident like Darren's????
Before you drop TT Boy from your list-here's a quote from an interview with TT Boy on the XXXPornTalk site in Dec 05...
TT: The shit with Darren really fucked me up, someone I consider still to this day a great friend and performer. BUT I still highly doubt it was contracted from the set of my production.. if you look at the dates of people who caught it and from what scenes you will see it doesn't match up from when Darren first started performing when he came back from the South American shoot. Here's the thing, the shit people flung at me didn't bother me as much as the stuff they were saying about Darren, here's a guy whos innocent, who when he first found out went public with it straight away, even though he had been handed a death sentence and was at his lowest was still man enough to come out with it, and he was treated like a fucking serial killer, like the fucking devil, thats the shit that fucking pissed me off. He's a good man and a great friend.
Darren James stayed with TT Boy as a director. No, he does not still shoot in Brazil. Don't jump to conclusions based on hear-say. There are 2 sides to every story.
Ya know, I don't want to sound like an asshole here, but you do realize that that "interview" took place with smelly monkey (who is fucking funny) and is inside a part of that forum with a huge disclaimer right? Just asking. Seriously.
I'm still not sure what to believe or what TTBoy really said. In any event it sounds like Darren got HIV working for TT in Brazil just as Astroknight indicated, but maybe was not responsible for the others however once he was out of the system the whole thing cleared up inside 30 days. I still feel badly for Darren, but am glad TT is doing the right thing by him after having been responsible for fucking up his life. This is the sad part of being a porn fan that makes me feel somewhat complicit. I zapped TT's videos and will treat any other director/producer who acts as irresponsibly with the people in porn exactly the same way. If you can mention some Darren titles from which TT will get nothing I would like to help Darren in any way possible. I know people who work in porn know the risks are there and I was shocked to see how desparate they were to get back to work in spite of those risks during the pause. They obviously will not look out for themselves, but people who run the industry have a responsibility to take care of them like employers in any other industry. Without the women and men in front of the camera, the rest of you have no jobs or income and we have nothing to watch.
And what about Lara Roxx? I'm not a witness but she said that she was forced to do a Double Anal absolutely not scheduled and she wasn't willing to do but , according to Lara, he threatened her of not working anymore and to get her back to Canada if not , at the end she did the scene and get infected . She was in the biz for three months before getting HIV . She reached the USA thanks to a loan so she cannot afford to refuse especially after being threatened as such.
And what about Lara Roxx? I'm not a witness but she said that she was forced to do a Double Anal absolutely not scheduled and she wasn't willing to do but , according to Lara, he threatened her of not working anymore and to get her back to Canada if not , at the end she did the scene and get infected . She was in the biz for three months before getting HIV . She reached the USA thanks to a loan so she cannot afford to refuse especially after being threatened as such.
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Everyone has heard rumors flying both ways-hearsay only.
Enough with this already--it's WAY off topic and I'm not here to re-fight WWII. Let's drop this shall we?
Just one more thing I must confess. I do not find condums at all "romantic". The boredom that is involved with trying to follow a silly "feature" story when I want to see hardcore sex scenes is bad enough, but then when you get to the sex in the scene and have to cut away to put on the condum, it's more than my pee brain can handle ... it makes my willy wilt. So the answer to the whole HIV thing in porn needs be other than condums if at all possible to maintain the "romance in porn" from my perspective.
Everyone has heard rumors flying both ways-hearsay only.
Enough with this already--it's WAY off topic and I'm not here to re-fight WWII. Let's drop this shall we?
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Not a rumor actually it was an interview but I Agree we're OT let's turn back on topic
For romance I mean something like Toni Ribas'New Girls #1 if someone saw the scene involving Toni and Angel Dark, very hot very passionate they kissed a lot they didn't anal but the scene was hot. Most of the scenes with Kacey and Mr Marcus with eye contact and all stuff I mean something like that.
Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 2/1/2006 11:04:36 AM
for dicknjane "romance in porn" really involves all of this and is on topic. we want the people in scenes to treat each other with respect and enjoy their "work". we don't want to feel that we are sponsoring/supporting an industry that has no regard for and uses the people who work in it and then discards them like some object when they are done using them.
Sorry dicknjane, I disagree on that. Watching performers putting their life on the line makes my willy wilt.
Condoms are a strongly discussed thing on this board. I think now it's going to be very difficult to maintain the original topic of this thread. I presume this thread will turn into a "condom - non-condom"-battleground and will be locked soon.
sorry juha ..... not my intention .... i hope not ... i will not discuss this further .... it is ok that we do not agree on the condum thing .... we do agree that the people in porn should not put their lives on the line for our entertainment ..... again my apologies and regards to you for starting this thread ... hope this discussion does not derail it .... i'll shut up now.
Pagoda and Melpster, In a quest to get more of this chemistry.... I've found it best to simply have me, and the talent involved, when doing a shoot. Sort of like... just me and some friends hanging out... comfortable, casual, and intimate.
And, though I generally shoot more than one scene a day, I opt to have everything very well scheduled, leaving plenty of time to focus on the one scene at a time. Of course, some talent arrives early, others arrive late, and some don't show at all. So, I just do my best to deal with that, but while shooting, keeping my head free and clear of anything outside of that specific scene. I guess it's like a good male performer... and good sex... while you're fucking that girl, there is no other girl in the world. The focus and attention is all about those in that room.
Also... I generally get to know the girl a bit before shooting her, while she's in make-up, while we're picking out wardrobe, etc. I do wish I had more time to get to know the girls, and is probably why I love working with girls who I already know and really enjoyed the first time around. Katja Kassin and I recently shot a really hot scene, with Randy Spears. This same sort of connection really works for me on the male talent front as well. Because I feel so comfortable with Katja and Randy... because, in a way, we've been like old lovers (having done several scenes together now)... I know what they like and don't. I know Katja can take a great pile-driver, and I know Randy can give one. And, I knew, the minute I pulled his dick out of her ass, and started whacking him off, he would pop, and it would shoot straight into her mouth, and she would swallow it. If you know your lover, it all comes so naturally, right? It thus doesn't have to be mapped out and hence mechanical.
I guess... finding chemistry is about knowing who one is fucking... knowing what they like and don't. I like to talk with the talent, both male and female, and ask them who they really want to fuck. I recently shot Michelle Maylene and was clued into the fact that she really wanted to fuck Scott Nails. It shows in the scene. I also think the boys are more into the scene if they can see that the girl really wants to fuck them.
Of course, sometimes you have to find a replacement guy or girl at the last minute, and you do your best to achieve all of this. Though, I recently ran into this problem twice and opted to reshoot the scene at a later date... making sure I had the right mix of talent. Many thanks to Melissa Lauren, Spiegler, and LA Direct for their help on these!!!
Also, I stopped planning a scene out long ago. I simply tell them to fuck each other and I'll move with them. Of course, hands down to the male talent I've so come to love and appreciate! It takes a real stud to do this! Basically, I let the man be the man... with me serving as his dutiful naughty "girlfriend." And, my gonzo style... with me involved in the scene verbally helps this... as I can feel what he wants and where he's going and help to guide the girl, or if there's really something I want from the boy, or see a way the girls can please him, I can do so spontaneously.
At the end of the day, romance, or just a dirty fuck or both, the thing I want to see most is passion. It's really hard to always achieve, and every director has their own approach to this, but it is so exciting when you get it!
As for the "whore" issue... there's something dark and excitingly dirty about this notion... even if it's a male whore... just look at "American Gigilo." All this just plays into the fantasy, no? And isn't fantasy what porn is all about? At the end of the day, Steve Holmes, etc. is a human being just like the rest of us. But, he does a great fucking job playing a whore for our pleasure. If we can't be free to express our fantasies in porn... where are we free?
dicknjane have enjoyed "Youngs Sluts Inc" and now I know why. you understand that "romance in porn" and "passion in porn" and "chemistry in porn" are all the same thing. dicknjane have had more orgasmic viewing involving Randy Spears than probably any other male star .... he is great and has been great for a very long time. please keep up the good work and we will keep following whatever you direct/produce.
Yeah, Randy is great. Always treats women with respect and delivers hot scenes. But sorry for all gonzo friends he's now exclusively under contract with Wicked.
I know... I'm really going to miss Randy! I already do! There's not many male talent that can do a dirty fuck scene and play a character really well (act) and get the girls to really dig him up their ass, all at the same time. But, it will be exciting to see what he does at Wicked! I don't see why he can't keep the sex hard and dirty and still have a little story.
dicknjane, Thanks so much for your kind words! I really enjoyed shooting Young Sluts, Inc, but would be very curious as to your thoughts on my gonzo stuff??? I don't want to get away from the topic. Maybe another time. Whatever or whenever, it would be great to hear from you. The thing I found in gonzos and so embrace is the intimacy. This is why I feel romance or passion really doesn't mean some soft-filtered feature thing. The whole gonzo approach has really enabled us to get that much closer to our "subject." I guess what people do with that is up to the director and his/her fantasies and they way he/she wants to express them. Thank goodness for choice!
Kat ..... we are gonzo fans who want "romance" in gonzo... for various reasons which juha (whom i respect) would prefer i not go into, we rarely watch features. we like chemistry and harder, rougher sex in gonzo than what we practice while we're watching. i know its a no-no, but jane wants to see more of the guys and more guys who look like these girls would be interested in them if they saw them somewhere other than on a porn set. both of us are visual and try to get mentally engaged with the chemistry of the scene. for jane, she fantasizes these guys are fucking her and it makes it easier if she is not being fucked by a frog. for me, i like to see the woman getting excited (jane always has been responsive, multiply orgasmic) and that's what has always caused my brain to explode down to my dick. you are doing just fine as a director in providing us with titillating material both eye candy and mental candy (chemistry,passion). we both need a little foreplay in the scene and like it far better if people start with clothes on and the guy's dick soft and then something exciting, titillating happens and real passion and a hardening dick unfolds on the screen. scenes that open with the guys hard dick in the girls face or already inserted and pumping are more difficult for us to get caught up with. i hope this helps .... we want to help you all we can .... it's in our best interest. Say by the way what video is that Randy, Katja, Kat scene in???
It definitely helps! Thank you! As a chick, I like to work with the male talent I would like to fuck, so I get Jane there. Of course, some of the guys have personalities that have grown on me... or the great way they just know how to take a girl... over their purely physical looks. As for showing the guy. Yes... I don't think I'll be cutting away to any male talent faces anytime soon, at least for purely mechanical cutaways.... especially as they cum. However, I do love to see glimpses of the male talent when their face is expressing the passion... ie when the male and female are kissing. I love to see how the two are relating. I'll keep on working on not allienating the majority male audience, while still sneaking in those moments when I just think it's very much about the two together, and not just girl being fucked. Thank you so much for your insight on this topic. And... I especially love to hear a woman's POV!
The movie with Katja and Randy... "Kat's ASS"... I think that will be the title... coming out under Jill Kelly's new company, Bad Influence. I really do think that scene with Katja and Randy was so hot! Dirty fucking and yet... we just all had such a great time in a small hotel room in Santa Monica... the intimacy and the passion were there. Can't say enough thanks to Katja and Randy!
Agreed but i was talking about the HIV matter and the whole chain of accusations on that.
I'm not able to watch at any Rob Black feature and especially bukkake (I'm not a fan of that though) after knowing of a very rude mistreatment to a girl at her very first shoot , it happened to be a bukkake (topic is on this board) they start to tell her something like "look the whore you are" "think if your father see you what he will say , think him despising you because you're a slut covered of cum" "You dirty slut you like all that cum on your face.don't you? Because you're a whore the dirtiest whore in the world" (I might not recall exactly the words reported but believe me I'm even gentle now)The girl cried and tried to stop but then she come back and finished his "job" then ran away . How many talented and enthusiastic girls had been ruined by such bad attitude? Can you imagine if this happened to Teagan?
I surely will not watch at any of extreme's productions after knowing that
So I must agree that kindness toward actresses is a part of "romance" in porn
Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 2/1/2006 3:52:01 PM
Definitely yes, but I don't watch what I used to watch before. I try to find amateur stuff or Japanese porn or anything where I don't know all the participants and locations personally.
Dear Kat,
I've always enjoyed working with you. Your sets are fun and you are one sexy lady.
The whore thing is something I always enjoyed. I had sex for money since I'm 15. Both ways. I've paid for sex and I got paid. Sometimes I took the money I just made with sex and spend it again for sex.
That doesn't mean it can't our shouldn't be romantic, passionate and intense.
I know I am pissing on deaf ears but put me down for more romance even in Gonzo. Kissing. Now there's an idea. I know whores don't like to kiss so tell them to hit the bricks. When is the last time you saw a woman's breast lovingly carressed and kissed. Slam bam and thank you mam is something that most people gave up in the 10 grade except in the porn industry and forget about that music. If you want to audition for making music video's stay the hell away from my porno movies. Go make horror movies and screw up their soundtrack. Hopefully someday that will be an affodable way to get rid of the music in the background of old films and we can hear the groans. Wayne In Dallas
So what you are saying is that human rights "rightfully" restrict what business pay people to do? And human rights "rightfully" restrict people for selling certain products or services?
So my view is completely about being "free" to do what people Mutually Agreed to do but your human rights restrict people to do what people Mutally Agreed?
Just read your review of Ass Attack, Astro. It sounds really good. I don't normally watch all-anal. But I also don't normally find 5 scenes on a single disc where the couples all have excellent chemistry. Great review, btw.
Kat, thanks for at least thinking about our input. We know you are under pressure to make your gonzo videos have high appeal to the predominant male audience out there which means we rarely see the male on camera. I want to let you know that the way we found your videos is we were tired of all the new male directors whose directing is so cookie cutter that every scene and every video is the same. So we started looking for female directors thinking they would be more sensitive, get the romance on screen and maybe not insist on having the skullfucking, gagging, slapping, anal gaping and rough sex be the dominant focus of every scene. The problem is the women directors are working in the same system and tend to want to compete with what the male directors are turning out .... and so more cookie cutting scenes. The interest in this thread demonstrates there are growing numbers of men and women out there looking for something "more romantic". The director who finds the secret of doing that without alienating the hardcore "fuck that whore in the ass until she bleeds fans" will win.
We're quite hopeful our segment of the market will continue to grow and will start to influence consumer preference in porn to a greater extent. We're also betting on and watching the women director's videos in hopes they will respond the tastes of our segment of the porn market: Kat Slater, Wendi Knight, Kylie Ireland, Francesca Le, Suze and Holly Randall. Thanks so much for listening ...dicknjane.
ok ....ok .... we heard you. We read Dr. Mabuse's review on "Ass Attack" and the header comment was "A kinder, gentler ass-plugging flick" (doesn't get any more romantic thanthat). We also looked at the cast and figured we would agree with Astro on the "chemistry". Even though we like Manuel as an actor, we have not been as excited by his directing. But, we decided to try "Ass Attack" on your glowing recommendations so you guys are on the hot seat. Thanks for sharing your comments.
I know what you mean. I don't do a lot of gonzo mostly because the scenes often appear so similar that by the end of the movie I'm halfway bored with it (such as happened with Stefano's Cream Filled Chocolate Holes ). Thank you very much for the compliment on the review as well. It's the happiest I've been with one of my reviews in a long time.
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
I'm surprised there isn't already much more porn of the kind requested by many in this thread. After all, this is an industry that caters to so many fetishes, why not try to satisfy those of us that think good foreplay rarely starts by the male jamming his dick all the way down the girl's throat. Even if you do throw in skull-fucking and anal, why not first let the heat build up to the point where you can feel that the people fucking are open to anything, aching to take the sex to another level? It is only then that rough sex can be believable. And, of course, sex doesn't even have to be rough to have energy. As things stand now, one is more or less forced to choose between porn that is so neat that it is lifeless or porn that looks like an x-rated version of MTV's Jackass.
It seems to dicknjane that if we are to truly influence the amount of "romantic porn" we have to choose from that we need to try to support those directors and studios that we believe are already doing a pretty good job of satisfying our tastes. I recognize that we each have a different perspective on what "romance in porn" is all about, but it seems to me that if we listed those directors and studios we each think represent what we think is "romatic porn", it might liven the debate and get us to some logical or not so conclusion. Here is my short list copied from a response in another thread to a new member looking for recommendations on shorter dicks and longer on "romance" in porn (I think).
Two people learn about each other, share their feelings and dreams. Then after several dates he kisses her and they start to fall in love. She invites him over to meet her parents, the get married and they live happily ever after.
5 years later, he spots a sexy little cheerleader in the grocery store wearing her little pleated skirt with a sexy smile. She sees him leering at her ass. She reaches to an upper shelf. Oh look, she wearing no panties. An hour later, the cheerleader rides him cowgirl style in the back of his SUV. She becomes his new babysitter. They bone each other every time the wife is gone. The wife finds out, but the cheerleader crys out to the wife, the wife feels sad for the cheerleader and they share a hug, then a kiss ... then the cheerleader goes down on the wife.
In a nutshell, Porno is rebellious with seduction, passion and fun. Romance, on the other hand, might start with passion, but it is conservative and gradually gets boring. Not to mention that romance is more predictable with little or no seduction.
You look SO sexy in that little mini skirt with no panties.
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Just saw Michelle Maylene in Jewell's "Sultry Sinful Asians" & am interested in seeing more. I checked iafd and could not find the scene that you refered to..Would you mind letting me know which one you shot of her and Scott?